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Iâd argue that itâs like being an alcoholic. Itâs an addiction of sorts. Youâll always have OCD but with work, you wonât necessarily always be a victim of it. I say this because I improved my OCD by leaps and bounds over the years but after a year of quarantine I definitely backslid. Because you have a history of these thought patterns/behaviors, itâs very easy to engage them again. Giving in just a little too much to the tendency can result in a loss of momentum and if you experience some type of trauma it will definitely bubble up. But I do agree that with the right tools you can come very close to living as if youâre OCD free! Things that have helped me battle my OCD outside of therapy (therapy is important) - a healthy diet - keeping my body moving throughout the day - an early morning routine - having some type of creative outlet (painting, jewelry making, playing an instrument etc.) For me itâs like all this energy is stored in my brain and I need to get it out in other ways. Feeding myself fresh foods gives me the best kind of energy to expend physically. It did wonders paired with cognitive therapy/ERP.
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I think you can get close to cured but it's so important to remember it can come back because if it does and you're not prepared, it can be really destructive. like someone can recover from depression but they still need to be aware if they slip back into symptoms
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Right, I think it can be super helpful to accept that it may come back, and that we have to keep up with doing the tools and techniques weâve gained to help us.
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I get what youâre saying. I agree that you can get to a point where OCD isnât an issue anymore. Iâve been there. But usually when we are looking at chronic it refers to long lasting and recurring, which OCD is. Bouts of OCD can last for years. Iâve gotten completely better and then so much worse so many times. I think itâs important for people who are better to still recognize they have OCD because it does comes back. Itâs recurring. It may not come back as much as it did when it initially happened, but it comes back. Thatâs what makes OCD so hard and âincurableâ. When you think itâs done, itâs not. I do think it helps patients and therapists to be more hopeful about treating OCD and reaching a place where it isnât an issue anymore, but idk I think itâs good to know that it can come back too and be prepared to use the tools you learned in therapy to cope.
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Iâd say becuase OCD is a neurological disorder Iâd consider it chronic, but thereâs a lot of people who can get to points of having no active symptoms. The predispositions in the brain donât go away, so doing therapy, and gaining tools to help can maybe get it to a point where it feels cured I think. Which is really all I can hope for.
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I didnât even think of the neurological aspect. Itâs great you brought that up. Even with the active behaviors and symptoms gone thereâs still that chemical em balance in the brain. The OCD may not be active, but youâre right those predispositions in the brain are still there. Itâs really cool you thought of that :)
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Hi, don't you think that this might be reassurance seeking? :) You can be symptom-free and happy, and i think that should be good enough.
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Oh I didnât even think of this being reassurance before I commented. Good on you for catching that.
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@stop. My "trick" is to notice when something makes me feel anxious, and i start to engage..that's when i step back and wonder if it's reassurance haha
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@m666 Thatâs a good trick. Iâm usually so impulsive that by the time I realize its reassurance or a compulsion the deed is done.
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@stop. It took me a bit, i was the same as you and it's hard sometimes, but practice makes it easier and easier with time:)
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I've read this again and i've come to realize that you probably didn't write this (unless you are a therapist/work in research), so i want to say apologize. It is common for people with OCD to think about this question as compulsion, which is different from when people study it in a scientifc way.
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Looking back, I realize Iâve had OCD since I was 7. though I wasnât diagnosed until I was 30. As a kid, I was consumed by fears I couldnât explain: "What if God isnât real? What happens when we die? How do I know Iâm real?" These existential thoughts terrified me, and while everyone has them from time to time, I felt like they were consuming my life. By 12, I was having daily panic attacks about death and war, feeling untethered from reality as depersonalization and derealization set in. At 15, I turned to drinking, spending the next 15 years drunk, trying to escape my mind. I hated myself, struggled with my body, and my intrusive thoughts. Sobriety forced me to face it all head-on. In May 2022, I finally learned I had OCD. I remember the exact date: May 10th. Reading about it, I thought, "Oh my God, this is it. This explains everything." My main themes were existential OCD and self-harm intrusive thoughts. The self-harm fears were the hardest: "What if I kill myself? What if I lose control?" These thoughts terrified me because I didnât want to die. ERP changed everything. At first, I thought, "You want me to confront my worst fears? Are you kidding me?" But ERP is gradual and done at your pace. My therapist taught me to lean into uncertainty instead of fighting it. Sheâd say, "Maybe youâll kill yourselfâwho knows?" At first, it felt scary, but for OCD, it was freeing. Slowly, I realized my thoughts were just thoughts. ERP gave me my life back. Iâm working again, Iâm sober, and for the first time, I can imagine a future. If youâre scared to try ERP, I get it. But if youâre already living in fear, why not try a set of tools that can give you hope?
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How long did it take to make this? And is it actually possible?
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December 14, 2024, marked two years since my first ERP therapy session with my NOCD therapist, Mixi. And October 2024 marked a year of being free from OCD. It was not an easy journey, confronting my fears face to face. Exposing myself to the images and thoughts my brain kept throwing at me, accepting that I might be the worst mother, that my daughter wouldnât love me, and that I deserved to be considered a bad person. It was challenging having to say, âYes, I am those things,â feeling the desire to run, but realizing the thoughts followed me. At the start of my therapy, I remember feeling like I couldnât do this anymore. Life felt unbearable, and I felt so weak. I longed for a time before the OCD, before the flare-ups, before the anxiety, the daily panic attacks. I thought Iâd never be myself again. But I now know that ERP saved my life. The first couple of sessions were tough. I wasnât fully present. I lied to my therapist about what my actual thoughts were, fearing judgment. I pretended that the exposures were working, but when the sessions ended, I went back to not sleeping, constantly overwhelmed by fear and anxiety. But my therapist never judged me. She made me feel safe to be honest with her. She understood OCD and never faltered in supporting me, even when I admitted I had been lying and still continued my compulsions. My biggest milestone in therapy was being 100% transparent with my therapist. That was when real change began. At first, I started smallâsimply reading the words that terrified me: "bad mom," "hated," "unloved." Then, I worked on listening to those words while doing dishesânot completely stopping my rumination, but noticing it. Just 15 minutes, my therapist said. It wasnât easy. At one point, I found myself thinking, âWill I ever feel like myself again?â But I kept pushing through. Slowly, I built tolerance and moved to face-to-face exposuresâsitting alone with my daughter, leaning into the thought that my siblings might die, reading articles about my worst fears, and calling myself the things I feared. Each session was challenging, but with time, the thoughts started to lose their grip. By my eleventh session, I started to realize: OCD was here, and it wasnât going away, but I could keep living my life despite it. I didnât need to wait for it to be quiet or go away to move on. Slowly, it began to quiet down, and I started to feel like myself again. In fact, I am not my old self anymoreâIâm a better version. OCD hasnât completely disappeared, but itâs quieter now. Most of the time, it doesnât speak, and when it does, I know how to handle it. The last session with my therapist was emotional. I cried because I was finishing therapy. I remember how, in the beginning, I cried because I thought it was just startingâbecause I was overwhelmed and terrified. But at the end, I cried because I was sad it was ending. It felt like I had come so far, and part of me wasnât ready to say goodbye, even though I had already learned so much. It was a bittersweet moment, but I knew I was walking away stronger, equipped with the tools to handle OCD on my own. If I could change anything about my journey, it would be being open and honest from the beginning. It was the key to finding true healing. The transparency, the honestyâit opened the door to lasting change. Iâm no longer that person who was stuck in constant panic. Iâm someone who has fought and survived, and while OCD still appears from time to time, I know it doesnât define me. I'd love to hear your thoughts and comments. Have you started therapy, is something holding you back? Is there something you want to know about ERP therapy? I'll be live in the app answering each and every one today from 6-7pm EST. Please drop them below!
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