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Iād argue that itās like being an alcoholic. Itās an addiction of sorts. Youāll always have OCD but with work, you wonāt necessarily always be a victim of it. I say this because I improved my OCD by leaps and bounds over the years but after a year of quarantine I definitely backslid. Because you have a history of these thought patterns/behaviors, itās very easy to engage them again. Giving in just a little too much to the tendency can result in a loss of momentum and if you experience some type of trauma it will definitely bubble up. But I do agree that with the right tools you can come very close to living as if youāre OCD free! Things that have helped me battle my OCD outside of therapy (therapy is important) - a healthy diet - keeping my body moving throughout the day - an early morning routine - having some type of creative outlet (painting, jewelry making, playing an instrument etc.) For me itās like all this energy is stored in my brain and I need to get it out in other ways. Feeding myself fresh foods gives me the best kind of energy to expend physically. It did wonders paired with cognitive therapy/ERP.
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I think you can get close to cured but it's so important to remember it can come back because if it does and you're not prepared, it can be really destructive. like someone can recover from depression but they still need to be aware if they slip back into symptoms
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Right, I think it can be super helpful to accept that it may come back, and that we have to keep up with doing the tools and techniques weāve gained to help us.
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I get what youāre saying. I agree that you can get to a point where OCD isnāt an issue anymore. Iāve been there. But usually when we are looking at chronic it refers to long lasting and recurring, which OCD is. Bouts of OCD can last for years. Iāve gotten completely better and then so much worse so many times. I think itās important for people who are better to still recognize they have OCD because it does comes back. Itās recurring. It may not come back as much as it did when it initially happened, but it comes back. Thatās what makes OCD so hard and āincurableā. When you think itās done, itās not. I do think it helps patients and therapists to be more hopeful about treating OCD and reaching a place where it isnāt an issue anymore, but idk I think itās good to know that it can come back too and be prepared to use the tools you learned in therapy to cope.
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Iād say becuase OCD is a neurological disorder Iād consider it chronic, but thereās a lot of people who can get to points of having no active symptoms. The predispositions in the brain donāt go away, so doing therapy, and gaining tools to help can maybe get it to a point where it feels cured I think. Which is really all I can hope for.
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I didnāt even think of the neurological aspect. Itās great you brought that up. Even with the active behaviors and symptoms gone thereās still that chemical em balance in the brain. The OCD may not be active, but youāre right those predispositions in the brain are still there. Itās really cool you thought of that :)
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Hi, don't you think that this might be reassurance seeking? :) You can be symptom-free and happy, and i think that should be good enough.
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Oh I didnāt even think of this being reassurance before I commented. Good on you for catching that.
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@stop. My "trick" is to notice when something makes me feel anxious, and i start to engage..that's when i step back and wonder if it's reassurance haha
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@m666 Thatās a good trick. Iām usually so impulsive that by the time I realize its reassurance or a compulsion the deed is done.
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@stop. It took me a bit, i was the same as you and it's hard sometimes, but practice makes it easier and easier with time:)
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I've read this again and i've come to realize that you probably didn't write this (unless you are a therapist/work in research), so i want to say apologize. It is common for people with OCD to think about this question as compulsion, which is different from when people study it in a scientifc way.
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- 24w
Common posts on here are "i had a thought" "why am i thinking this" "what if" and these are all OCDs way of making you doubt yourself while taking you round and round in never ending circles at the same time. Regardless of the theme you are facing, there is no "figuring out" or "making sense" of a thought, because it isn't a real situation - it's a passing word or image or scenario without any meaning attached. You can't control your thoughts and the more you "don't want to have them" the more they will appear. For instance, tell yourself not to think about "apples", it will be the first thing that comes to your mind, because that's just how our minds work. Once you categorise a thought as "bad", every time it comes into your mind, your anxiety level will go up and this makes the thought seem real. Because if it "Feels" this bad, surely it must mean something or must have happened - But none of this is true. All we have to do is naturally notice thoughts as they come up, and rather than try to assess or ruminate over the content, we can almost shrug them off. It's the only way to accept thoughts as simply thoughts and nothing more. Anxiety drives the intense feeling and the more attention you give to thoughts, the more power they have over you. No random thought can change your real intentions. OCD is never ever satisfied, so the only way forward is to accept the uncertainty of never knowing "for sure" and to class the unwanted thought as irrelevant. OCD says "quick..bad thought..feels horrible.. what does it mean.. fix it". But in reality there is nothing bad here or nothing to be fixed, it's a false alarm. Once you learn to respond to a thought calmly by working on anxiety, it gets easier over time. It's your perception of your thoughts that needs to change, you believe they mean something about you, but random things pop into our heads all the time - both things we like and things we don't. OCD also latches onto what we care about most and it always comes with a feared consequence, so think about what yours is, e.g "what happens if my worst fear comes true" you can then practice imaginal exposure which is imagining your worst case scenario over and over until you become desensitised to it and no longer fear it - therapists use this technique in sessions. Everyone in the world has thoughts, the thoughts are not the issue, you just get more of what you focus on, up until the point that you can change your attitude towards the thought. If I asked you if you went upstairs today you would have an answer straight away, however if I asked you a question related to your OCD theme, your anxiety would increase and you would doubt yourself, because that's OCD doing the thinking for you. Once you give it less power it becomes a less significant part of your day. It's so easy to give into compulsions as they feel like a "quick fix".. but as I mentioned, ocd is never happy, which is why it wants us to continue to check and seek reassurance. Once you start reducing and gradually stopping compulsions, whether this is rumination, checking, or a physical action (whatever you falsely believe is "keeping you safe" from your feared consequence) you will see it's not necessary to do them, and that the time consuming little things you have taught yourself to do have no effect on what actually happens in real life. Thoughts prompt feelings and feelings prompt actions - meaning - thoughts cause anxiety and anxiety drives unnecessary actions. As a side note, I overcame contamination ocd (I was in a very very bad way and now the theme doesn't bother me anymore). I still have OCD and it can affect me slightly at times, but i can manage it in a way that it doesn't interfere with my day and without the need to carry out compulsions. Please practice, because I promise it helps, it's super scary at first and extremely difficult but the end result is worth it. ERP therapy is also very helpful.
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I have had ocd for decades! Could I still be cured???? (Of you can call it that?) I have seen different therapists but it never had fully left me...not by any stretch of the imagination. I do want to be free of this ocd and its power over me and all the bad that it brought into my life!!! Some days I am strong and feel like I am fighting it put other days...many days...I don't get things done or if I do I take a long time to-do the things I need to get done. I feel like I know this is just then ocd stopping me and that these are just thoughts but nobody in my family understands and though they have shared my journey and hated it a I do.....it just feels like I want so bad to be the best person I coukd be but I avoid places, people, things, that have any reminder of my ocd.......and so it restricts me from getting better and completing tasks the way I used to. Now UI might go and make 2-3 trips cuz I am worried to shop at a place and therefore it takes my time up. The avoidance I do is bad! When I actually don't listen to my ocd and don't avoid something...I feel great! ,However, it happens so rarely!!! I.dont know how finding a therapist through NOCD will help me. It is not in person and two be honest I almost think I need medicine to push me along. I don't have anybsteady and consistent improvements. However, I don't think I want to be on medication for the rest of my life! I am very confused!
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I don't have an official OCD diagnosis, although I am near enough certain I have it after a long year of distressing intrusive thoughts and compulsions that have strongly affected my life. Unfortunately though, I do not have the opportunity or the finances to get checked or go to therapy for a good few months at least. Due to this, I have taken it upon myself to teach myself techniques to tackle it and to reduce and not engage in compulsions, as I did not want to take the risk of getting even worse before being able to get help (and desperation lol). For the first time in the past year I feel like I'm finally making some progress in getting better since incorporating these techniques into my life as my symptoms have become more manageable (minus the obvious bad days) at the time being. Is self-recovery actually possible? Has anyone managed to recover without a therapist's help?
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