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Iâd argue that itâs like being an alcoholic. Itâs an addiction of sorts. Youâll always have OCD but with work, you wonât necessarily always be a victim of it. I say this because I improved my OCD by leaps and bounds over the years but after a year of quarantine I definitely backslid. Because you have a history of these thought patterns/behaviors, itâs very easy to engage them again. Giving in just a little too much to the tendency can result in a loss of momentum and if you experience some type of trauma it will definitely bubble up. But I do agree that with the right tools you can come very close to living as if youâre OCD free! Things that have helped me battle my OCD outside of therapy (therapy is important) - a healthy diet - keeping my body moving throughout the day - an early morning routine - having some type of creative outlet (painting, jewelry making, playing an instrument etc.) For me itâs like all this energy is stored in my brain and I need to get it out in other ways. Feeding myself fresh foods gives me the best kind of energy to expend physically. It did wonders paired with cognitive therapy/ERP.
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I think you can get close to cured but it's so important to remember it can come back because if it does and you're not prepared, it can be really destructive. like someone can recover from depression but they still need to be aware if they slip back into symptoms
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Right, I think it can be super helpful to accept that it may come back, and that we have to keep up with doing the tools and techniques weâve gained to help us.
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I get what youâre saying. I agree that you can get to a point where OCD isnât an issue anymore. Iâve been there. But usually when we are looking at chronic it refers to long lasting and recurring, which OCD is. Bouts of OCD can last for years. Iâve gotten completely better and then so much worse so many times. I think itâs important for people who are better to still recognize they have OCD because it does comes back. Itâs recurring. It may not come back as much as it did when it initially happened, but it comes back. Thatâs what makes OCD so hard and âincurableâ. When you think itâs done, itâs not. I do think it helps patients and therapists to be more hopeful about treating OCD and reaching a place where it isnât an issue anymore, but idk I think itâs good to know that it can come back too and be prepared to use the tools you learned in therapy to cope.
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Iâd say becuase OCD is a neurological disorder Iâd consider it chronic, but thereâs a lot of people who can get to points of having no active symptoms. The predispositions in the brain donât go away, so doing therapy, and gaining tools to help can maybe get it to a point where it feels cured I think. Which is really all I can hope for.
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I didnât even think of the neurological aspect. Itâs great you brought that up. Even with the active behaviors and symptoms gone thereâs still that chemical em balance in the brain. The OCD may not be active, but youâre right those predispositions in the brain are still there. Itâs really cool you thought of that :)
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Hi, don't you think that this might be reassurance seeking? :) You can be symptom-free and happy, and i think that should be good enough.
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Oh I didnât even think of this being reassurance before I commented. Good on you for catching that.
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@stop. My "trick" is to notice when something makes me feel anxious, and i start to engage..that's when i step back and wonder if it's reassurance haha
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@m666 Thatâs a good trick. Iâm usually so impulsive that by the time I realize its reassurance or a compulsion the deed is done.
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@stop. It took me a bit, i was the same as you and it's hard sometimes, but practice makes it easier and easier with time:)
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I've read this again and i've come to realize that you probably didn't write this (unless you are a therapist/work in research), so i want to say apologize. It is common for people with OCD to think about this question as compulsion, which is different from when people study it in a scientifc way.
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- 10w
I don't have an official OCD diagnosis, although I am near enough certain I have it after a long year of distressing intrusive thoughts and compulsions that have strongly affected my life. Unfortunately though, I do not have the opportunity or the finances to get checked or go to therapy for a good few months at least. Due to this, I have taken it upon myself to teach myself techniques to tackle it and to reduce and not engage in compulsions, as I did not want to take the risk of getting even worse before being able to get help (and desperation lol). For the first time in the past year I feel like I'm finally making some progress in getting better since incorporating these techniques into my life as my symptoms have become more manageable (minus the obvious bad days) at the time being. Is self-recovery actually possible? Has anyone managed to recover without a therapist's help?
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- 9w
The subject of OCD matters to the sufferer because it feels like confirmation that they are fundamentally unlovable and unwantedâas if even existence itself doesnât want them. They feel like an error, carrying a deep sense of guilt and shame, as if they were inherently wrong. They suffer from low self-esteem and a deep internalized shame, because long ago, they were fragmented and learned a pattern of fundamental distrustâespecially self-distrust. But the real trouble doesnât come from the content of the most vile or taboo thoughts. It comes from the fact that the sufferer lacks self-love. Thatâs why, when you begin to walk the road to recovery, youâre taught unconditional self-acceptanceâbecause thatâs what all sufferers of OCD have in common: if you arenât 100% sure, if there isnât absolute certainty, the doubt will continue to attack you and your core values. It will make you doubt everythingâeven your own aversion to the thoughts. You have to relearn how to trust yourselfânot because you accept that you might become a murderer somedayâbut because you enter a deep state of acceptance about who you truly are. Itâs not about becoming a monster at all. Itâs about making peace with what lies at the root of the fear. Making peace with the guilt. With the shame. Making peace with yourself and the person you fear you might be. Because that fear is not rooted in reality. Itâs not rooted in any true desire to act. Itâs rooted in your identityâspecifically, in what might threaten it. Thatâs what confirms the belief that you are fundamentally wrong. And OCD fuels that belief by using intrusive taboo thoughts to attack your very sense of self. But then I wonder: letâs say, for example, someone fears being or becoming a sexually dangerous personâhow could that person practice unconditional self-acceptance? I would never accept myself if I were to harm anyoneâthe thought alone makes me want to cry. I know itâs not about whether or not someone acts on the thought. Itâs about the core fear underneath it. So how do you accept yourself when the thoughtsâand the feelings around themâfeel so completely unacceptable ?
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- 8w
I have this idea that if i stopped my current ocd it will comeback again in another form. Forexample, when i was 9 by the help of a doctor i stopped washing my hand every 10 mintues but then ocd switched into another theme, which is religious, and when i stopped that it again changed. And now i have prefction and mental ocd. So my question is why bother trying fix something isn't fixable? It takes a while to notice that the thing you have been doing is ocd, double the time to treat it, is there a permenant treatment or is it just tourture ? P.S sorry for my english i'm not from the U.S
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