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- 6y
- Date posted
- 6y
Your life is not over. You know in your heart you haven’t. Write down some reminders to yourself that you haven’t. OCD has a way of catastrophizing our thoughts. When you’re catastrophizing, this is a clue that this is your OCD!
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- 6y
I think you’re seeking support, not reassurance :) I would recommend journaling. This way, you’re able to make sense of your thoughts, maybe even see how irrational they are written. When you find yourself doubting, go back to the notes you have written yourself. I would also suggest sitting with the thought, labeling it as “irrational”. If you feel uncomfortable, that’s okay, OCD does that. But with time, the thoughts will become less scary and you’ll be able to shrug them off.
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- 6y
Thank you ): I know it is bad to seek reassurance but I just feel like a monster and my whole life is a lie so I needed some advice on how to stop this
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- 6y
I deal with false memories. I know the people on here saying to tell yourself you haven’t done it, are trying to help but that easily becomes a compulsion and something I do all the time. The only thing that helps me is to tell myself. Ok maybe I did. Maybe I didn’t. I know that sounds daunting but it’s dealing with the uncertainty because honestly even if you know you didn’t, you are always going to be uncertain about that. Ocd has us questioning and doubting everything. No ERP therapist is going to reassure you or tell you to write down why you didn’t do it. That is feeding into the ocd. Rather they are going to have you exposure yourself to the thought/ false memory. Don’t feed into the ocd to try and find out if you did or why or how, it only makes it worse. Tell your ocd that maybe it did maybe it didn’t but you are choosing to deal with the uncertainty and live your life the way you want to and with the values YOU choose. Much love to you ❤️
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- 6y
false memories are the worst thing I've ever dealt with. Trust yourself and just accept the uncertainty and it will fade away to nothing.
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- 23w
How do you know the difference :( I genuinely cannot keep living in this torment. it all started with an ‘intrusive thought’ where I had like a hazy flash of something reading an article. and I remember thinking ‘what if’ and ‘what is this’ and then that intrusive thought turned into me ‘remembering’ something else. which caused me panic. then I started trying to find evidence because it contradicted what I remembered this entire time. this was last year in like september. fast forward to march this year, it came back up- but this time stronger and with more ‘details’ and what nots. and I’ve been ruminating on it since then trying to remember and connect and It’s like I’ve added all of these details. but are they real? or is this just my OCD? I just feel like if it were real I would have never been able to keep it to myself. but also what if it was so traumatic that I blocked it out? because it all makes NO sense for me to do something like that. but it also fits what I was thinking at the time. idk
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- 22w
I have false memory real event ocd, I’ve been married 13 years and I used to constantly bring up past mistakes from when we were dating and it RUINED our marriage, but I got medication and therapy and things got better untill a few weeks ago where everything crumbled. I have a memory that is 13 years ago of me being intimate with my husband (than boyfriend) while being intimate I have a memory of sending a text to a male who obviously liked me but I didi not while my husband was under the covers . And I keep thinking over and over how disgusting and inappropriate it was to do that especially doing it in the middle of being intimate 😞. I have confessed this to my husband last year and he didint believe me saying it’s probably a made up memory and would are not a slut and wouldn’t do that. Now i have guilt all over again for weeks and it’s taking such a toll on me it’s all I think about and try to remember every detail I’ve thought about it so much I don’t even know if it’s 100 percent true. But I can vividly see it when I close my eyes. How do I get over this guilt without confessing? Confessing would absolutely destroy my husband.
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- Date posted
- 18w
I have had the same false memory/instrusive image of me doing something horrible to someone when I was 12 and they were younger. It is a memory based on a real event. I truly don’t know if it’s real or not but obviously, the more I think about it the more I think it’s true. This has led my mind to become slightly paranoid. I worry that if this horrible image in my head is true then one day the person I might have hurt will come and k*ll me. I’m really scared I feel like I won’t feel better as long as this “memory” is in my head. Does anyone have advice?
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