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- 6y
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- 6y
Yeah man I have hocd and it's a really pain to work. What I do is I accept the fact that I have no choice but to work. Set up financial goals or other goals. And try to socialize at work takes your mind off things. Now the way it impacts me is sometimes I'll talk to myself at times cause OCD is so loud and I'll argue with it and fortunately no one has heard me yet. But when I get bad anxiety I'll slow myself down and tell myself it's OCD. And work through it.
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- 6y
I spend 15-20 minutes in the bathroom at work every time I go in there because of my COCD. I am terrified of being written up. I've washed my hands ten or fifteen times in a row at the break room sink and my coworkers have seen, which increases my anxiety. I go back and forth between an aisle and our demo sink (I work at a Trader Joe's) to wash my hands during the day (or sanitize my box cutter, hair etc) and people have definitely seen. You are not alone at all. It follows me everywhere. I'm sorry for what you're going through.
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- 6y
also i don’t tell anyone about my OCD but i’d suggest to tell your employer. I ended up telling mine because i was almost fired for never taking out the bathroom trash, but i ended up telling her the truth about why i seriously couldn’t do it and she was understanding! every boss may not be like that but i would be upfront bc it’s helped me a lot (:
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- 6y
I can't write as free as I used to before hocd but I still have hope.
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- 6y
i didn’t think i’d be able to work since i had to quit my job at a restaurant since my COCD was too bad and having to deal with lots of unclean things i couldn’t take it.. but now i work at a smaller shop and my stress level has gone wayyy down since i feel more comfortable and there’s not as many people there, so therefore i feel less contaminated. depending on what you struggle with id honest suggest a more lowkey less stress job if you’re able bc it’s helped me a lot and although i still have to deal with unclean things, there’s much less of it and i’m able to slowly handle it and get better!
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- 25w
Does anyone have OCD regarding always feeling like you are not good enough at your job? I'm 58 years old now I've had OCD since childhood. Every job I've been at I never felt as good as my colleagues. I am a nurse but I worked at that for 15 years I had a breakdown of sorts in 2017 and went on disability. I now work part time as a a swim instructor for kids. I always was afraid of killing someone when I was a nurse. Then I tried dog grooming but I was afraid I would do it wrong and hurt the dogs. At least now the stakes are lower. But my OCD is the same. I work with colleagues who are about 40 years younger than I am . I am afraid of teaching certain classes bc I feel like I wouldn't do as good a job as someone else. I know I can do it but it's like I have a fear of not giving them their money's worth. I've been at my current job for 2 years . I've gotten very positive comments from my managers but I can't seem to believe them. I feel a lot of shame bc I lost a lot of my life to OCD and I am at an age where people are starting to retire after long and successful careers and here I am working at an entry level job. I'm planning on trying to get out of my comfort zone and teaching some of the classes I'm afraid of .it's really hard. I'm always scared what if I lose my benefits and had to work again as a nurse how would I do it.
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- 24w
I had avoided a lot with school specifically, but I did do it in other areas of life as well. School for some reason has been the biggest trigger that sends me into avoidance and it has been for the longest time. Does anybody relate? If so, what did you do to help besides therapy? In high school I used to sit in the bathroom stalls for hours so I could avoid going to classes. I was struggling to keep up because my OCD makes me perfect my school work so much so to the point where I’d never turn it in because I’d never be satisfied with what I’d produce. I’d get so incredibly frustrated with myself and the fact that I could never meet my own standards, never mind the rubrics given. I took ages analyzing all my writing, all my answers, all my google slides and I burnt myself out. So I stopped trying. I stopped turning in work because I’d never be satisfied. I’d cry because I felt I wasn’t good enough. Then I’d be missing assignments, getting them done but not submitting them because I was too ashamed. So, I avoided classes because I’d be in trouble or be called out for not getting anything done. Unfortunately this habit bled into my first year of college last year, and OCD coupled up with depression, made going to the dining hall and attending classes even worse. So I avoided it all together. It’s so hard being a freshman in college, so so hard. I unfortunately failed out of that school but I tried to medically withdraw either semester. No, I wasn’t partying, or drinking or smoking or hanging with the wrong people. I was a college freshman struggling with ocd and depression. I’m trying to not make excuses for myself either because I’m well aware this is my fault and I’m trying to reverse it now at community college. Right now I’m trying to get those Fs turned into Ws from my old school so I can fix my gpa. I want to transfer, I want to be a forensic psychologist, I want to be independent, I want to be ok. It’s gonna take me so long to transfer from community college but that’s on me. I’m willing to put in the work. I’m so embarassed, please help me.
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- 11w
Hi Everyone - has anyone else had problems with executive functioning - forgetting things, multitasking, attention, not following directions closely, etc. ? If so, what do you do to help? I brought this up to my therapist and she mentioned that I wouldn’t need a therapist Or specialist/coach to work on it - as it would be skills we know to do (take notes, put on reminders, etc). However, I’ve been struggling with OCD for years and none of these “tips” have helped enough. I have had trouble multitasking/ remembering details/forgetting things with jobs and had to quit. It even applies when I am at home - one thing goes in one ear and out the other. I also do not have or been diagnosed with ADHD or any other disorders (just depression from OCD). Does anybody have suggestions? Is it just to manage my OCD better and these things will get better with that? I don’t recall how I was when my OCD was “good” or in better shape (Up until age 18) to gauge this as I didn’t have a job or other life responsibilities. Only thing I can think of is maybe I am so caught up in my head that is causing these issues, aka the severe OCD. Thanks!
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