Is anyone there to listen? I want to get this off my chest

Thank you does OCD cause you stress ??

Hey Andre…any advice on my post? I was wondering if there is anything that can help I still feel terrible

Hey, don’t give up. Don’t ever give up. I know it’s hard at times to belive in yourself, but I will ask everyone who reads this comment to give this a heart if you agree with this statement “when your at times you can’t believe in yourself, at the very least believe in me because I believe in you.” I don’t know you, but please know I love you and I know people love you as well. Please show this courageous women some support and let’s get this heart thing up if you agree with me.

but I wanted to write this to you. Everything you said is not weird, why is it not weird? Because you were a child. I’ve learned in many of my psychology classes that when children are young, they see things on shows, they explore, they’re curious and they do things like you just said. I do feel that you need to give yourself a bit of lenency and remind yourself that you were 9 years old… I went through something similar where I did sexual things as a child and it bothered me. I felt disgusting and as soon as I mentioned it to my mom, she said “honey, that is normal, you were a child” and ever since then it stuck with me. You see, when we are younger we say things, do things, etc and we truly don’t understand why we do them. It’s the same thing with I stole a piece of candy at the grocery store when I was little. My mom easily would have bought it for me but I wanted to steal it because it was fun and I didn’t want to ask my mom. I look back and I realize how silly that was. And how this correlates to what you said is that you were a kid. Kids do random things all the time because they are growing. They are developing and learning…

You are so loved and valued. Please know that.

@Animallover065 Thank you so much for this. Do think what I did would count as SA what doesn’t let me sleep at night is the tiktoks I watch of people if happend to when they were young by other children but their stories are always more intense in the sense that PLEASE don’t read further if it triggers you. But in the sense that they were touched touched inappropriately and everything like that and that they have trauma from it. Does mine count as SA when the idea of liking it was in my head and my cousin didn’t even know? And doesn’t even remember because it was in my head and not really an act idk if you get what I mean. This just doesn’t let me move on I just don’t know what to do I don’t want to be the reason why someone has trauma I don’t want to be that person I just hate myself for this

@Andrewmz I’m really really struggling and I cannot tell you how much your comment just helped me. Thank you for this. You don’t know how much this means

@riiii Your very welcome, just remember your okay. OCD cannot physically harm you, it’s just makes you feel like your not in control. It makes you doubt literally everything. But again it cannot hurt you. I have faith in you, you got this! 💗

@Andrewmz Thank you. I have faith in you too!! I hope you’re well and I hope you keep going . Thank you for being there for me!

@riiii Of course, we will get through this together! ❤️

@Anonymous Thank you so much 💗 so are you!

Hey! Thanks for being here I just really want to talk about a real event that I’ve been struggling with for a long time and it’s gotten worse. I would have to go into detail but i don’t want to trigger anyone so if you can’t that’s ok:)

@riiii Go for, maybe just turn the post to a trigger warning

@Anonymous Any idea how I can do that? The option isn’t there anymore since I’ve already made the post

@riiii Here to listen!

@riiii I'm not sure, go for it anyway though 💙

@Anonymous Hi I made a comment under this post. Let me know if you can see it

@Anonymous Comment under this post. Thank you so much for listening

Yes you’re right. Reassurance doesn’t help but I just really need to talk about it it’s making me completely miserable

@riiii I am here to talk! Although you should not seek reassurance, sometimes many people just want to get things off their chest and that’s okay❤️

@Animallover065 Hi I commented under this post. Thanks for listening I really really needed this

Hey I think I saw your comment but it seems like it was deleted ?

What’s going on?

It’s like that annoying song Baby Shark that gets stuck in your head and you just keep singing it over and over again in your head, until you don’t even realize that like an hour later you didn’t even think about it anymore. Think of intrusive thoughts as annoying sings. They go away the less you pay attention to them. Your good Shelley ❤️

Hey! I struggle with this a lot. Honestly the way I try to control is to remember it’s just a thought and an intrusive one. It’s not real and it’s not who you are. Sometimes it’s hard to remember that but just try your best block out the thought after you have had it. I usually just focus on something else. Like tv or walking etc. You got this!

Thank you I think I've have gave them some thought already as this is new to me I'm struggling ... My thoughts have no really triggers can that happen like they hit me mostly when I'm at home

Are you the same person? Confused 😅

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