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That’s not you anymore try your best to improve
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You have to accept you might/might not have done something. Or if it’s something like, for example, a volcano erupting and killing hundreds or thousands, accepting you can’t do anything to stop that volcano because it’s a natural disaster.
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Congrats on recovering! My biggest fear is being a bad person (moral scrupulosity ocd). Any tips on how to get over such a strong obsession?
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I’ll say it once: bad people don’t care they are bad. Now you must accept that you might/might not be a bad person and continue with your daily life. Obsessing makes things worse. And if you do something bad, don’t make excuses. Do better and get better.
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@Nica Thank you for the response. Have you ever struggled with this and did it ever get better for you?
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I suffer from all sorts of ocd types. I believe I did something wrong and then suffer with extreme guilt until I can confess or reassure everything will be okay. Until another worry pops up. Idk what to do with this extreme guilt
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Seek out advice from one or two people but other than that, stop yourself from seeking reassurance. You know it only makes things worse.
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I also struggle with extreme guilt. My therapist told me it’s actually a compulsion in my case but I’m still figuring out how to stop it. You aren’t alone though. Guilt is absolutely horrible.
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once you’re healed from pocd do you start feeling like everything’s back in place like it used to be? such as like now you can look back and laugh bc you know that you’d never do that & that it was all ocd trying to trick you the whole time?
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I don’t think the theme is what you should try to focus on overcoming but the ocd thought patterns.
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Nothing has ever been “back in place” since I have a bunch of other mental illnesses, including childhood trauma from abuse. Don’t look at “going back to things were” or “being cured” because that won’t happen. You’re a different person and you’ve changed, but that doesn’t mean anything bad. I’d be more concerned did you never changed in your life.
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Do you feel like a completely different person after recovery? I mean, do you look at past you and think, who was that? (Don't worry, you won't give me reassurance of any kind if you answer, my theme is completely different)
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I’m the same person I’ve always been, just recovered.
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@Nica Okay thank you for the reply!
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Hello and thank you! What about horrible Rocd and intrusive thoughts of being betrayed, cheated on, left alone? I am being tortured by these thoughts for the past 6 years... it's too much and it doesn't go away no matter how I try...I feel that I will never be able to manage it and stay like this for ever...
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You have to accept you might not know about being cheated on unless there’s LEGIT evidence. ROCD is tough but obsessing over these things won’t do you any good. It’s taken 6 years of your life. I suggest doing ERP therapy for it as soon as you can do you can see some relief and learn coping mechanisms to handle it.
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Thank you for your response! It seems so difficult to accept uncertainty as I feel insecure and really love my husband and I am afraid something bad will happen and destroy my relationship. I know it is stupid and pointless to think like that because life is uncertain and things are not sure or always right but it's the first time in my life I feel so accepted, loved and protected that I wouldn't want to imagine my life without him. I know it doesn't make sense but that's Rocd...
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False Memories?
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You have to accept something might/might not happen and/or you did or didn’t do something and go about your daily routine.
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How do you feel is the best way to handle intense intrusive images about an on going event you're attending when it's the last thing you'd ever want?
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Like what type of ongoing event?
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@Nica A funeral
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@capn Funerals are always hard because of the mourning you’re going through. Give yourself some grace but let the thoughts be there. There’s plenty of people that have intrusive thoughts during funerals because it’s so difficult to bear.
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@Nica Thanks for the response
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How did you get over the POCD theme & what was your recovery like? or do you still get those thoughts?
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I still have it and will always have it but I have accepted the uncertainty of OCD overall and I let the thoughts, feelings, and images be there. They alway go away eventually. POCD is the worst of them, so I suggest getting into ERP therapy as soon as possible.
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@Nica im in therapy through this app! im hoping to one day feel okay again no matter what my thoughts are:/
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@Anonymous_234 Keep working on it! It took me a few years to recover 😁
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how to know if it’s ROCD or just a dead relationship
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Have you recovered from Health Anxiety? I'm always worried about being sick, not having enough energy, fainting, or my body somehow shutting down. It's taking over many aspects of my life.
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You should absolutely do you yearly wellness checks and do what your doctor says, but if your doctor says you’re healthy, then you have to trust your doctor and live with the uncertainty that you might get sick and/or die at any moment. Because really, that’s everyone’s reality. But we can’t change Ernst. We have to live life to the fullest.
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@Nica Thank you for your response. I really appreciate you helping us all on this thread. It feels nice to know recovery is possible, especially when it feels like it isn't.
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I want to write a book about faith and the cross of ocd. And how that looks with faith. I myself am Catholic but I am going to be writing open to all denominations. Because we are all brothers and sisters carrying our cross of OCD to get to heaven. Could you please comment a question you have? A struggle you have? or something may be a good topic to bring up in a book to represent or help those with ocd and searching in faith. Thank you.
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Hi everyone! My name is Tara, I’m a therapist here at NOCD. Before becoming a therapist, I worked various jobs in arts, textiles, prop styling, I worked in restaurants... I basically did what I could do with an undergrad in art living in Brooklyn, with a secret hope that I might someday pursue a career in mental health. Fun fact, I held onto that hope for 10 whole years before I decided to take a risk and apply to grad school! I wanted to become a therapist because I just knew that this was a field where my mind could work at its best and do the most good. Anyone else here with ADHD may understand. I simply cannot retain long term focus on something if I don’t absolutely love it, and I absolutely love this work. Having a job where my sole purpose is to connect with others and help them tap into their inner strength is an actual dream come true. I specifically love working with Exposure and Response Prevention and treating OCD, since the whole point of ERP is to show you you’re braver than you think you are. And it works so, so well. If you have a fear, and you think you “can’t” approach it, know that you most likely can. It might take some time to prove that to yourself, but with time and a steady dose of discomfort, you’ll get there. I’m sure that “discomfort” part didn’t sound appealing but let me ask you this - does OCD make you feel uncomfortable? Why not put some of that discomfort to work, in your favor? If you’re struggling with OCD, or you think you might be, know that you probably already have what it takes to thrive in ERP. You’re here. You recognized that you were struggling, you decided to find help, you downloaded the app, and you started reading through posts. I’m sure somewhere along the line, you felt at least a little uncomfortable, and you decided to take the next step anyway. That’s ERP in a nutshell :) Please ask me anything about OCD, your current symptoms or ERP. I’ll be responding over the next 2 days to questions.
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Have you ever had a thought so unsettling it stopped you in your tracks? That’s how postpartum OCD started for me, triggered by my grandfather’s passing. After he died, a terrifying question popped into my head—What if I’m not a good person? From that moment, I became afraid of my own thoughts. When I had my daughter, a new fear took over: What if I could hurt her? I avoided being alone with her and constantly sought reassurance, but nothing eased the panic—until I found NOCD and realized I had OCD. Therapy was terrifying, but learning to face my fears instead of running from them changed everything. One day, when I was alone with my daughter, the thoughts came, and I simply responded, Maybe I could. Maybe I couldn’t, and moved on. That’s when I knew I was getting better. OCD no longer controls my life—and if you’re struggling, know that recovery is possible. I’ll be live on the app around 6:00 PM CT answering any questions, so ask away!"
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