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- 3y
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I think that's the goal with ERP; eventually, you reach a state where you're not as panicked about your obsessions anymore. It takes a lot of faking it, though. I wish I had had therapy back when I had OCD more severely - I think it would have been of more benefit and I wouldn't have struggled as much as I did.
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Yes, that’s what I try to do! I try to pretend to not care about the obesssions anymore until I actually don’t care.
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It actually kinda works, as long as it isn't a compulsion disguised as this.
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that was my question haha i wanna do it and pretend it doenst effect me until i get to a point where i’m not pretending and it doesn’t effect me but i don’t want it as a compulsion so i was just wondering
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@Anonymous20222 You'll kinda just "feel it" if it starts turning into a compulsion. As long as it doesn't give you instant relief, i believe you'll be fine
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- 20w
when i’m not thinking about a compulsion so i do things “regularly” does that mean it’s not OCD? i’m just confused is it all in my head? am i just faking it in my head all this time? sorry for posting so much my mind likes to go spiral lol
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more advice for sexual/pocd sufferers I read somewhere that if you hyperfocus too much on your body's reactions to intrusive thoughts, you're unwillingly just making it intensify the sensations. Your body, after enduring severe anxiety and stress from sexual obsessions, will now just react to anything sexual that comes into your mind, whether forced or randomly. It can happen in any way. OCD makes anything possible, and is driven by fear. Knowing this I realized, it doesnt matter at this point, and to let it happen. And you guys should too. Remember what your real values and desires are. It can feel as real as it gets, but it is still not you.
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Has anyone had success “faking it until you make it” with discomfort? I’m having compulsions to check all my passwords and accounts and logging into every website I can recall from grocery shopping to tv subscriptions etc and coming up with all these insane scenarios that something’s not right and I’ve forgotten something I’ve done wrong and don’t know if I have or haven’t and if I can’t find the answers then my life is ruined and it’s stolen 4 months of my life. I’m exhausted. I am choosing to just stop and I am around family today and feeling like I’m dying insane. Has anyone had success faking it until you make it with compulsions? I’m really battling real event and false memory here and the lines are so blurred. I need help, my family can’t take my reassurance seeking anymore and I’m at my breaking point with feeling alone. I’ve lost every person I trust in this battles support for now. I know they love me but they can’t take it and I’m really down today and the compulsions and obsessive thoughts aren’t stopping and I don’t know how to just be in everyday life right now when my mind is so loud.
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