- Username
- Tam1990
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Pure O
Do you guys ever get like a thought that is so delusional and false. And still find yourself thinking about it over and over again as if it was real? I’m going through that now😔🤦🏻♀️
Do you guys ever get like a thought that is so delusional and false. And still find yourself thinking about it over and over again as if it was real? I’m going through that now😔🤦🏻♀️
Yes, it can feel like being in a rollercoaster that never ends. But you can get off the ride! When you have those thoughts, let them be there. Don’t engage with them or try to solve them, just say “interesting” and keep doing whatever you were doing before the thought popped up. Are you in therapy for OCD? If not, I recommend giving NOCD a call for their free consultation. They helped me so much!
@Amber R Thank you for your advice❤️ I’ll try not to engage as of now I am not in therapy yet.
I’m not an expert and passing along some information acquired in my OCD journey. When you fight against the thoughts, you’re signaling the brain to mark them as being important. We all have horrible thoughts. Those not having OCD will just shrug them off and not let them bother or give meaning to them. That’s contrary to those of us with OCD. It takes practice not to respond to the thoughts or to follow them down the rabbit hole of trying to figure them out or seeking 100% of certainty. Instead lean towards the uncertainty (maybe, maybe not). I know it’s easier said than done and you can do it!!!
@Dee C Thank you it takes a lot of strength to let the thoughts but there. But I’ll try by not trying so hard🥰
YES! For the past three weeks i’ve been thinking someone from the cellular service stole my information. It’s been keeping me up and stressed for the longest but i’m starting to convince myself that’s false because who would want to do that.
@mtkenumb on top of that, i’ve gone as far as stalking the manager and trying to find every detail about them that will help me think they’re a good person.. it’s been affecting my relationship as well because i have had the worst anxiety
Oh wow yeah my anxiety is this bad! Like I know there’s no way that this thing happened. Like the logic side of my brain knows but ocd doubts always drag me back under. I hope we both get out of this “funk”.
Anyone who deals with Pure O, have a negative thought come into your head and you spend hours justifying in your head why that thought is wrong? Any suggestions what to do in this situation. For example, someone pointed out a minor mistake I made and I spend the next few hours in my mind trying to justify why she is wrong or why it doesn't matter what she said. I hope you understand what I'm trying to explain. Hard to put this stuff into words.
Does ocd ever really make you believe that deep deep down it’s all true and real? I hate that damn feeling. You just can’t trust your thinking.
Has anyone ever had an intrusive thought or false memory about a person and then some time later in the future that person says something like what your thought/false memory was about happened to them and you immediately think it was you even though you know it was just ocd and now you doubt and question yourself?
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