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- hamiam
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- 1y ago
question about psychiatrist
my new psychiatrist was very adamant and persistent about knowing the exact content of my intrusive thoughts. i refused to tell him because it made me uncomfortable. is this normal??
my new psychiatrist was very adamant and persistent about knowing the exact content of my intrusive thoughts. i refused to tell him because it made me uncomfortable. is this normal??
@hamiam, As anonymous says above, I think this partially depends on what you’re seeing the psychiatrist for. If the psychiatrist is leading your ERP (exposure and response prevention) therapy then it may make sense that they would need to know so that they could set up the right exposures. In my opinion only, generally speaking, with any doctor it’s best to be as open as possible So they get the full picture. With that said sometimes doctors are not the right fit and it may be appropriate to look for a new one. It is important for you to feel comfortable, As this is your recovery. I’m not sure if you’ve already asked the physiatrist why they want to know this information. if you haven’t, perhaps ask them specifically why. Therefore, you can get a better understanding of what they’re looking to do with the information.
I think two people you have to be as clear as possible is your doctor and your therapist, I know it’s uncomfortable but they need to know what type of thoughts you are having to see what route to take. Ocd and anxiety has many different categories. I’m sure they have heard it all before. Again, if this is just for medication I don’t think you necessarily have to specify but if this is your erp doctor then you should be open
But your question says psychiatrist so just as long as u are letting your regular therapist know about ur thoughts then I don’t think ur psychiatrist need to know the extend too much I agree
This can be such a difficult question to answer. I think that they need the information to make a correct diagnosis. I would caution that it is important to ensure that they are very much aware of OCD and the sub-types, taboo themes, etc. You could ask them some questions to see and ensure that they are. I would say don't be afraid to ensure that they really understand OCD-https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/how-to-find-an-ocd-therapist
I just read a horror story about someone with POCD revealing their thoughts to people and getting shunned and now im getting anxious😭. I had wanted to tell a few of my loved ones about it in a very careful way, but now am not sure if it is a good idea (one works in mental health and another does have severe mental illness). I genuinely wonder if me doing this would be exposure or be compulsive or if it’s a bad idea overall
I had a terrible graphic intrusive image. So why didn't I feel nothing? I should have been disgusted immediately. I was just passive, it didn't effect me as much. I'm currently obsessing about the fact that I didn't react. I don't know if I should be afraid of this. I know I didn't like that, but when things like these happen I feel like I never have enough confidence, like to simply say "no I was disgusted, I don't like this, I would never do that" end of the story, without any second guessing thoughts. I can never have that statement confidently without feeling that it might not be true. And sometimes when I try to answer to the "OCD question" my brain double downs and says "well what about this? how about that? would you like it that way? you've never thought about it that way!" My brain asks me "would you do it if it was like that? have you ever considered what would it be like? maybe you would like it?" What do I do? I think I know what should I do, but I don't know if it applies to this, if it applies to me at all, as sometimes I think that these are not OCD symptoms or it isn't OCD at all.
I don’t really wanna go into detail about what it’s about cause I feel like it’s super embarrassing, but there’s this one specific type of intrusive thought I get that I struggle extremely with ignoring/sitting in discomfort with. Does anyone have tips for managing something like this?
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