- Username
- bebesrecovery
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Talk to your parents And put your foot down with your friends . If they are good friends they will listen to you And boys are lazy and sometimes a bit dopey - I’m a boy by the way before I start world war 3 Just try and tell him you need him and make him realise how serious it is And if you can’t do that then keep using this app to talk and relate to other people going through similar things as you Good luck ☘️
Sorry to hear that. Do you think you can get therapy or online therapy?
@spyro I have therapy fortnightly but my therapist cancelled my last session and I’m not due another one for a week
Haha the boys comment made me laugh ? Thank you very much
No problem here anytime ????
It’s one thing to vent about problems every now and then, but if you monopolize all of your time with others discussing your thoughts and problems, people will lose interest and it’s not really fair to them. I hope each of these people provides some support and encouragement, but it’s actually harmful to you in the long run if they continuously provide you with reassurance or act as a sounding board for going over your obsessions again and again. Cutting down on social media is probably a good idea. So is going out. These are both positive suggestions that show me people are trying to listen and do care. Even if they’re not always sure how to help. If you could pull yourself away from your obsessions long enough to enjoy some light hearted friend/boyfriend time, I think you’d actually really benefit from it.
What do you do if you feel like you can’t get away from some people who call themselves ‘friends’ but you know that they don’t actually care for you and are no good for you? Since my mental health has been getting worse over these past few months, I have felt like I’ve hit rock bottom. My best friend of twelve years has more or less been avoiding to come and see me. I clearly know that it’s because of the way I feel at the moment & it’s not easy to be around me but I more or less try to hide it all when I’m around people anyway. I feel like most people around me are so bad for me, they add no good into my life and it sure does show when you are going through a bad time who your friends are! Any advice?
I wanna know if anyone can relate. My family doesn't think my depression or OCD is real. They haven't said it in that many words but they've said along the lines of 'you just need to shake yourself and you'll be fine'. BUT I have my boyfriend who listens, who seems to care and I am very happy I have him but I just feel like I'm a tremendous burden on him. I don't have many friends and any friends I do have are always busy, are work friends who don't care or are only friends with me because of my boyfriend. I feel weak and lonely. I need to know what to do.
My house is a complete disaster, yet I’m too depressed to clean it because I know it won’t come out perfect like I would strive for it to be. I know I’m just going to get aggravated and give up on myself, so I’m afraid to even try. On top of that, my relationship is falling apart. I’m always anticipating the worst and acting out on it. I barely leave the house or have any friends anymore. I’m sinking back into a dark place, the dark place I was in almost 3 years ago when my mom passed away, somewhere that took a great deal of strength to get out of, yet I’m sinking and drowning again. My boyfriend seems to judge me now instead of being a supporter, I think it’s because I get angry and he takes it personal. In all reality, I’m mad at myself most of all because I can’t dig myself out of this nasty headspace. I feel isolated and trapped. I’ve let everything go. Is there anybody out there who can talk to me? I feel so alone.
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