Mooooni
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- 1y
I ruminate for days. I can use someone to talk to
Ruminating and I hate it. I feel like crying. I can use advice and someone to talk to
kw670kw670
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- 1y
We're here. Let's go!
hereandqueerhereandqueer
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- 1y
feel free to talk to me!
Mr.ocdMr.ocd
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- 1y
Were here for you
Mooooni Mooooni
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- 1y
Thank you guys so much for replying. I’m struggling with a new theme. I’m a little embarrassed to share it too. I was hanging out with someone the other night and I left pretty late from their place. They only had four hours of sleep before work.  I’m ruminating on what if something bad happened to them on the way in and back from work because they didn’t sleep enough and it was all my fault.  Logically, I know it’s not my fault since they decided to stay up late and I had no idea. So my ruminating is on what happens if they died, what happens if something tragic happened. I don’t want to reach out to them because I feel like it would be a compulsion, but I’m very tempted to. I’m trying to sit with these thoughts and do erp Now, in general, I have to tell my friends to call me when they make it home just because I have these ruminating thoughts
arm_0arm_0
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- 1y
@Mooooni text them and just ask how was work for your comfort !
Mooooni Mooooni
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- 1y
@arm_0 You’re right but I’m scared if I do and I don’t get a response then I’m afraid I’ll be anxious. We just met and I’m not sure how this person is. If he ghosting me but then I think oh well, at least I tried
Mooooni Mooooni
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- 1y
@arm_0 Also, I need to get over my fear of texting people. I never reach out to guys who I’m seeing or dating because I’m afraid I’ll ruminate about it. This is such a new theme
arm_0arm_0
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- 1y
@Mooooni face your fears! i promise it’ll help in the long run ❤️ i’m sure if something happened you would see it on social media and i bet he’d reply back and think it was sweet you care!
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