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Surrender to your thoughts
I remember my therapist talking about surrendering to your thoughts does anyone want to expand and explain this.
I remember my therapist talking about surrendering to your thoughts does anyone want to expand and explain this.
I think that means that you don’t really give any sort of attention to your thoughts. Like just acknowledge them and be like ok and move on. Just like sit with the thoughts but don’t engage with them, don’t try to argue with your thoughts and be like maybe or maybe not
I also find this hard to understand like when they say just let your thought enter your head well if I do that next minute I’m full on rumination and I’m a thought loop lol
hey there! it sounds like you're curious about a concept that can be really pivotal in managing ocd. surrendering to your thoughts, or accepting them without trying to fight or judge them, can be a game-changer. it's all about letting those thoughts be, without letting them control your actions or reactions. 🌟 i'm dealing with a different ocd theme myself, so i totally get the journey of finding what works best for you. i've found some cool resources that have been super helpful. one of them is the "unstuck ocd therapy tools" app. it's pretty neat because it offers ai-personalized guidance and exercises right when you need them. my local ocd support group actually recommended it to me, and it's been a valuable tool in my toolkit. also, the ocd stories podcast has been a great listen. it shares experiences and insights from others who are navigating their own ocd journeys, which i've found really comforting and informative. hope this helps a bit! ✨
I want to share some thoughts that might resonate with those of you grappling with intrusive thoughts or lingering regrets from the past. First and foremost, it's essential to remember that our thoughts are not definitive representations of who we are. They often stem from random electrical impulses in our brains and can feel overwhelming at times. It’s important to acknowledge that these thoughts do not define us. Instead, they are just passing moments that we can observe without judgment. Secondly, it’s crucial to realize that past events would have unfolded regardless of our actions. We often believe we are the main cause of certain outcomes, but many events occur independently of our choices. Think of your life as a storybook; while you can read and reflect on the pages, you did not write the narrative that led to those moments. This perspective can help alleviate feelings of guilt and self-blame. Lastly, let’s remember that we are all human, and making mistakes is part of the experience. It’s vital to forgive ourselves for past errors and recognize that these experiences contribute to our growth. The mere act of reflecting on our mistakes shows that we have learned and evolved. To foster healing and personal growth, consider incorporating some positive habits into your daily routine: Get Outside: Aim for daily walks in the sunlight. Nature has a remarkable way of uplifting our spirits. Pursue Hobbies: Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. This can help redirect your focus and energy. Volunteer: Offering guidance to others who may be facing similar challenges can be incredibly rewarding. It not only helps them but also reinforces your own lessons learned. By taking these steps, you can create a meaningful path toward moral repentance and personal development, freeing yourself from the burdens of the past. Remember, healing is a journey, and every small step counts. Embrace it with kindness and patience towards yourself. Have a great day all 😊
is anyone else not able to realize that their thoughts are irrational?
I’ve been sharing on here a lot. My therapist is out this week. But in the last few days, it feels…like I want to do the thoughts. Like I had the realization that I could just do them. And want to?!! Like…I don’t understand. I wanted my dog here and alive and now I guess…I don’t anymore? Like it feels like I’ve become everything it’s told me. The non stop thoughts and urges and images and feelings…have won. I’ll be fighting it, but like…get this sudden impulse feeling of like “why are you holding yourself back?” and like..I check to see if I still love her and want her and it feels like I don’t. Or like I do but I want to do the thoughts more. Or I’m with her and my feelings are like “just do it you could just do it.” I feel like I’m just holding myself back and it’s getting too tempting. I don’t understand. I’m going to give my pup away and just…I don’t even know. There’s no way out. I can never go back to normal with her.
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