national gf day

ik it’s dumb but it does hurt seeing every single one of my friends and my bfs friends post their gf for national gf day but i don’t get a post. it’s v cringe. i know. but it’s triggered me into thinking my bf is cheating on me and idk how to not be so upset with him over something so dumb. i just feel like im being played and our relationship is fake from this STUPID thing. like now i think he’s hiding some alternate life from me and it’s making me question if i know who he is. FROM THIS STUPID MADE UP HOLIDAY THATS AB POSTING A STUPID STORY. i can’t help it. and maybe maybe not mindset is just making me more upset bc it’s so insanely difficult to sit with this kind of uncertainty. i know hes not, but at the same time NO I DONT AND I CANT STOP THINKING AB IT.

Username: 123g123g

Date posted: 20w ago

Maybe he just sees it exactly as you said, as something “stupid”. I don’t think it’s stupid but maybe he thinks that he doesn’t need to make a “stupid” post about you when he probably thinks you already know how highly he thinks of you and appreciates you. I’m sure it’s not because he’s cheating on you or because he doesn’t love you. Maybe he doesn’t need to project his love for you to the whole world because he knows you know he loves you.

Username: ChibeeChibee

Date posted: 20w ago

I just posted about this as well 🤣🤣😆 Girl, I didn’t even know National Gf Day was a thing until the end of yesterday LOL It’s ridiculous. A social media ploy to make women insecure about their relationships. 🙄 So many female influencers online are not on our side.

Username: sixela99sixela99

Date posted: 20w ago

@chibiyu for real. i’m learning that social media is a big trigger for me so stuff like this just actually drives me insane. like it’s MADE UP. it’s a FAKE occasion that highlights showcasing your relationship status to the world. ITS NOT REAL. half of the people i saw post are in AWFUL relationships and im in a REALLY GOOD ONE. my rocd is just on fire right now and yesterday i was just totally unable to rationalize anything because it was so in my face. every. single. post. i was able to get over it but now im just mad that a lack of a picture made me think the awful thoughts i did. my brain is unfair to me. I hate knowing there’s no reason to be worked up while at the same time being so so stuck in it.

Username: Hieronymus Hieronymus

Date posted: 20w ago

@chibiyu “So many female influencers are not on our side” You’re so right, you’re so right. Influencers esp on TikTok are so anti woman with the stuff they pull and they have the gall to pretend they’re all for women’s rights when they push for a deeply backwards lifestyle.

Username: JBird88

Date posted: 5y ago

Guys I did a compulsion and stalked my boyfriends ex girlfriends Facebook page. And my anxiety got the better of me today .... and I’m heart broken cause they shared something special. I just wanted to say that... I just am in a low state right now.

Relationship OCD

Username: loola

Date posted: 4y ago

How do I not let myself get obsessed with the thought that my boyfriend will be attracted to other girls sometimes? I know it’s harmless when it’s just a thought in his head but It feels so hurtful and disloyal to me

Relationship OCD

Username: lenxiety

Date posted: 2y ago

Hey everyone :( it’s been while since I posted but I’m having hard time with my relationship cause of my ROCD. I keep worry about small details like the fact my bf recently changed his voice note messaging to expiring after two mins. I know his best friend talks to him 24/7 and he is always sending my bf voice notes (sometime his friend talks about illegal things) but is this something I should worry about? I feel like over analyzing his behaviours to see if he is hiding something from me or being disloyal. My heart knows it’s not in his character but I’m still worried :( any advice would be great. (Also have PTSD from being cheated on in past relationship)

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