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As someone who has bad thoughts , obsessive out of fear will it “manifest”? I don’t want to be a criminal!!
As someone who has bad thoughts , obsessive out of fear will it “manifest”? I don’t want to be a criminal!!
Hi there! The simple act of perseverating over a thought will not cause it to manifest into reality. You have full control over yourself! I also believe that manifestation has a lot to do with intention. Your thoughts and intentions contradict each other, so either way, nothing will happen. That being said, coming from someone who has experienced countless thoughts about harming people in various ways, nothing has ever happened. Please reach out if you need anything! You are strong and will conquer this!
@MrBobaBear Oh my god thank you!! I’ve really needed to hear this because honestly it has confused me and scared me even with intention!
@Kumiakumia Of course! I am glad that I could alleviate some of these worries! Again, I am always here if you need to chat! Small TW: I have dealt with harm OCD and POCD many times and can say with confidence that these themes no longer effect me. Please take care!
@MrBobaBear If we could chat where would it be?
@Kumiakumia What is most convenient for you?
@MrBobaBear I don’t know, what’s most for you?
@Kumiakumia Well I have snapchat, telegram, and imessage, but that is about it. I can also download specific applications if need be. Whatever feels best for you! I understand some prioritize confidentiality and that is perfectly okay:)
@MrBobaBear Snapchat could be fine :( give me urs
@Kumiakumia @salvestrr I am sorry for any inconvenience:(
@MrBobaBear Ok added :(
I think someone said that a human brain can generate between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts per day. They are completely random as a result of pulses of electricity in our brain are randomly generated. Some of those thoughts are bad, criminal, stupid, taboos....etc. and some are good ones that speak of generosity, love, compassion, happiness..etc. Keeping in mind that those bad thoughts doesn't define who you are... Why?... because it was thrown into your brain without your control. So how can something is not in your control define you? We ALL get those random thoughts as long as they just electric pulse, I can ignore the bad ones, and harness ONLY the good ones, but generation of those ideas are not my choice and can't define me. Have a great day all
@hanysm@gmail.com I guess that worries me because I know my brain does focus on the worst
Your brain generates both bad and good thoughts randomly, so again having some bad thoughts crossing our mind, doesn't mean we are bad. As to why focusing only on the bad one, that's a different story. A technique that saw worked, is balancing every bad thought with its opposite. For example, if the thought is something is going to happen, there is also the thought of it not happening. Also, try not to think byound now and around you. Reduce social media and cell phone exposure. Go for walks in the sun, maybe by the water. Get a hobby, talk to your loved ones, or better concentrate on making new friends.... The tools to defeat this, is out there. Let your obsession be finding those tools, and experimenting with them. Have a wonderful day 😊
i’m so scared im going to lose control and end up locked up or something. this is so exhausting!! i worry that what i have isn’t OCD and that im genuinely insane and im gonna end up in big trouble or that the urges i have are going to actually happen. i dont want to think these things ! i feel like a horrible human being!!
Im sleeping over my boys house and im having bad thoughts to hurt him and it’s like I can see myself acting on it. I never want to hurt anyone… I hope someone can comment or give me advice as I lie in bed watching crime documentary. It messes with my OCD creates false fantasies
Just trying to accept the uncertainty and move on.... I don't want to be bad.... I want to be a good person.... But I feel like a bad person sometimes I get horribly disgusting thoughts when I'm angry and think the most horrendous things
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