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- emilieb
- Date posted
- 7w ago
Intrusive thoughts
Recently I’ve been having scary intrusive thoughts about hurting myself or others. I’m so scared, what do I do?? I wouldn’t hurt a fly.
Recently I’ve been having scary intrusive thoughts about hurting myself or others. I’m so scared, what do I do?? I wouldn’t hurt a fly.
it's important to remember that these thoughts are common and do not define who you are. Be kind to yourself and remember that thoughts are not the same as actions. You are not your thoughts. Self-compassion can help you cope with the fear and anxiety these thoughts may bring. Practice mindfulness or grounding exercises to stay present and manage anxiety. Breathing exercises and sensory grounding techniques can be helpful in these situations and meditation. Take care of yourself by egaging in activities that you enjoy and that help you relax. This can include exercise, hobbies, spending time in nature, or listening to music that soothes you. Don't engage with your mind, just observe your thoughts. They are just thoughts and are meaningless, which is why we call them intrusive thoughts in the first place. The more you try not to react to your thoughts by terrifying your mind, the less your mind will produce thoughts. Remember, you have to believe in yourself and practice this technique until it becomes a habit.
I have this too. Just know it is all OCD. you aren’t crazy nor unnormal. I have thoughts of both all of the time and i’m diagnosed with Suicidal and Harm ocd. I would never actually hurt myself or anyone else. I wouldn’t hurt anything. just remember to breathe and know it is all just ocd
Hi. I struggle with intrusive thoughts a lot and I don’t know how to deal with it. They scare me so much I end up crying. I have many panic attacks because of them. I don’t want to sound crazy. I swear I would never think these things but sometimes when I’m near people or something a random thought “I hope you die” comes in my head. And I would never wish that on anyone. And the worst part is, it happens with people i love and care for so much. I know these thoughts aren’t me. I swear they aren’t but I still get so anxious about them. They make me feel like I have to tell the person it involves and I don’t want to do that. I’ll sound crazy. I’ll sound horrible. I’d never wish that on anyone. I care for everyone and everything whether I know them or not. Idk what to do. I obsess over these thoughts even tho I know it’s not me. Currently crying writing this.
I have been dealing with intrusive thoughts for a long time, and while most of them don’t affect me anymore, there are ones that really concern me and make me feel panic. They make me feel like I could actually act on the intrusive thought and I’m just holding myself back from it. It’s really scary and I don’t know who I am anymore.
What do you do when you have a thought and you’re not sure if it’s intrusive or not? I just had one that was so strange and bad, and I can’t believe I just had it, but I’m almost afraid it’s not intrusive and there really is something wrong with me. I hate this.
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