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- Neuron0405
- Date posted
- 12d ago
Reassurance
Posting for reassurance and not getting comments due to that is so hard. OCD is so hard..
Posting for reassurance and not getting comments due to that is so hard. OCD is so hard..
It is hard. When you post and you don't get interactions, try to see it as an ERP exercise. It's an opportunity to sit with the feeling of anxiety or loneliness, and to respond to thoughts with "maybe, maybe not." Remember that there are 8 billion people on the planet, and billions have lived before us. I know it may not feel like it, but the odds are heavily in your favor that you aren't alone in any way, no matter what your thoughts or compulsions are. ❤️
@djflorio Thank you!
We know reassurance is bad for us (even if it feels good in the moment). Take no one responding as the sign that people DO care and you are not alone! Every other app and social media person reassures because they don't know what you're actually going through (OCD). They think reassuring you about the specific topic you asked about will be helpful, but the people on this app know it won't be. It can feel isolating not having those comfort answers we are used to. Honestly, it's like detoxing. It's miserable until one day the addiction becomes more and more distant. We can handle the discomfort of this because we've handled the discomfort of our obsessions for much much longer. Hang in there!
@Morgan_Haz Thank you!
@Neuron0405 Of course! It definitely doesn't help when we don't realize what we are asking even if reassurance. It's the sneakiest thing for sure!
@Morgan_Haz Yes!
what are you seeking/needing reassurance on?
@alyssa_h Hi, just in general, I’m not sure how to go about when one posts and there are no replies/interactions; feels even more alone
So i am a Catholic. My brain keeps saying that if I don’t make big posts on social media it means I am embrassed or ashamed of my religion. I am not at all!!!!!!! Idk why but I don’t want to make big posts about my religion. I always post on social media but my brain guilt trips me when I dotn make some posts. It keeps accusing me. I keep having anxiety like i am doing something so bad. For instance today it said that if I don’t make this post with a paragraph about my religion it means I am embrassed or ashamed. I am not so confused bc i am not not posting it becaue i am embrasses or ashamed or shamed wheatver. It’s not becaue of anything bad if i was ashamed or embrassed i would know but i am not. I always make posts me not posting a whole paragraph dotn me being ashamed or embrassed or don’t want to be judged it i was worried i would be judged i woudl t make teh posts i just don’t want to i guess seem like I am over doing it? Not that u can ever but idk i am not ashamed or embrassed i don’t care if people judge me for my religion or my posts i just don’t want to overdo it? I guess I don’t want people to be like “she posts a lot about that” or stuff. Is that normal? It’s not becaue i am ashamed or embrassed. M’y ocd won’t leave me alone. I guess I don’t want it to be in a ocd way? Someone help- if ur not religious don’t reply to this. But me not wanting people to think taht i post too much about it isn’t me being ashamed or embrassed u know. Because I don’t care about being judged for my religion.
I already make a post about this but i need to hear more thoughts on this. Let’s be clear- i am not asking for reassurance i just want to know how to deal with this ocd. Basically, my ocd keeps doing this thing were, for instance if i don’t - make a religious post - report a religious post -Post certain tik toks (Examples of many) It accuses me of being ashamed or embrassed of my religion. I AM NOT!!!!!!!!!!! It makes me post so much (not too much) but I don’t want to NOT in a bad way- i just don’t want to all the time. I feel like religion isn’t all about that and it keeps accusing me. Just now i saw a photo of Priests. They were wearing a certain hat. I ddint want to repost it becwsue 1. Not bc of anything really 2. I am sad to say I ddint like the hat- i felt bad about it, ocd make me do compulsions over it. I now like and appreciate the hat. I make the repost. But I just feel like ocd is making me think if I don’t do soemthing I am ashamed or embrassed and it is getting out of hand. How do i separate ocd from this???????
Hi all, my ocd has been flaring up lately and I’m not sure why. I think it may be due to stress and anxiety involving school and the hurricanes (I live in Florida) anyways I keep having random intrusive thoughts involving my real event and a lot of false memories are popping up, they feel so real it’s like I can feel everything in them even though I haven’t actually felt them. It’s so weird, like sometimes I will watch a movie and be able to feel the texture of snow or a piece of clothing even though I’ve never felt it before. I have noticed when I get those “phantom” ? touch feelings that they cause a lot of false memory intrusive thoughts. I’ve also been having intrusive thoughts that because no one interacts with my posts on here that everyone hates me and knows about me and thinks I’m horrible and disgusting or that someone is talking about me behind my back and telling people to stay away from me and then I’m a horrible person. I hate OCD so much, I hate that I ruminate constantly on little things and mistakes I’ve made and things I can’t let go. I just hate it so much. Does anyone else struggle with these thoughts or even the “phantom feelings/touches” I’m not sure what to call them sometimes I also get them with certain foods or smells even if I hadn’t had them before or smelt them before. It’s so weird
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