- Username
- allyjaz
- Date posted
- 5y ago
- Username
- Ridethewave Ridethewave
- Date posted
- 5y ago
What always settles me down is remembering that feelings will ebb and flow. Our feelings are constantly changing, just like how you'll wake up one day in a good mood, or wake up in just an okay mood. Feelings are unreliable measure for love and therefore becomes irrelevant in a relationship. Love is a choice :) if you and your man vibe and you enjoy his company and want to be with him. Then that is enough. Checking will only cause you more stress
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- vturner6vturner6
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I’ve gone through this before, unfortunately it’s an episode and it will pass even though it feels like it won’t. It’s normal for people who don’t have OCD to feel like they don’t like their partner sometimes, but when we have OCD we over analyze it.
- Username
- NatedogNatedog
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Yeah literally had the exact same thing it ruined my relationship with my now ex as my ocd and other mental illness took control of me just trust me that if it is anything like I went through you have to find a way to talk about those thoughts and feelings on here or talking to a therapist as talking to him constantly about what you are confused about and not knowing because of the thoughts that are pushed into your head because of ocd will make it worse I found as my head made me need to say it when I shouldn’t as it created a cycle and fed it in a way I guess. But yes to your question ocd can make you constantly worry and second guess how you feel you just have to know that before you had this invasion of thoughts you loved him and he was special to you as otherwise you wouldn’t be with him so just reassure yourself with the fact that you just gotta work through this and then you will slowly get more of your real thoughts about him which are the opposite to what the ocd wants you to think however I know it is hard and I have only recently since being separated has my ocd connected with our relationship cleared slightly so I see some of what I truly feel eventhough my ocd still fights I think it sounds crazy Ik but I think I’m right lol
- Username
- rlrrlr
- Date posted
- 5y ago
yes i experience this too
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- Username
- brhtpurple
- Date posted
- 4y ago
I’ve had doubts my whole relationship with my boyfriend. Things like “you don’t find him attractive. You don’t think he’s funny. You’re lesbian because you don’t love him. You don’t love him at all. You think he’s annoying. You think his face looks weird. You want to be with other guys. He doesn’t make you happy.” But I always cry and get upset at the thought of losing him. Is that ocd, or something wrong with the relationship. It’s so hard to tell if this is Rocd or if this is one of those, “you never loved nor were interested in him in the first place.” Type things. I want to be interested and in love with him so bad, but I feel like all these thoughts get in the way. :( I don’t get that crazy “you love him so much,” feeing everyone talks about. Like yeah I know I feel for him and love him for who he is, but I don’t feel crazy deep in love :(
- Username
- itwillbeokay💛
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
can ROCD make you feel like you don’t love him? i do love him and even on good days there’s always has anxious feeling in me that brings on the what if’s and makes me feel like i don’t want to be with him. i have been diagnosed but i still question if i want to be with him. there was a time in my life where this was not even a question and i knew that he was the one i wanted to be with but my theme switched to ROCD a couple months ago and it feels like i’ll never be the same
- Username
- geochristina
- Date posted
- 2y ago
ROCD
Please does anyone else have the same thoughts and feelings as I do who suffer with ROCD (bearing in mind I love my boyfriend, he’s the kindest most loving boy and I love him with all my heart) we spend all day laughing with eachother! I’m constantly like: You don’t love him, this isn’t right with him, you’re horrible for stringing him along, break up with him, break up with him, did you ever actually love him, you’re probably a lesbian, you don’t find him attractive, there’s nothing between you two Then in other moments when I’m not feeling this I literally could cry with how amazing he is! 😢🙈
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