Janice
- Date posted
- 7y
NOCD
- User type
- Staff
- Date posted
- 7y
You don't sound stupid at all.. this is a very important topic. Here's a great article on seeking reassurance for OCD. Hopefully some other people can give their input on this too! https://ocdla.com/reassurance-seeking-ocd-anxiety-1952
PetShopBoysrockPetShopBoysrock
- Date posted
- 7y
Think about this way: everytime you seek reassurance, you are temporarily reducing your anxiety and making the “OCD beast” grow stronger. So while it may help you feel better in the short term, all you are doing is completing the OCD cycle. Soon enough, another obsession/thought/trigger will occur and you’ll be desperately needing that anxiety-reducing reassurance once again. What if you can’t get reassurance at that time, then what are you going to do? It’s so important to learn how to face fears on your own, deal with the anxiety on your own, and accept the uncertainty/doubt that comes with it. This is how you can really recover and start living life regardless of the OCD being there or not.
LizzieLizzie
- Date posted
- 7y
My psychologists told me to use “self talk” which is a form of self reassurance. I’m confused too!
BrookenoelBrookenoel
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- 7y
You’re fine dear! Reassurance is a big compulsion of mine and many others. A lot of times the ones like reassurance and rumination don’t seem like compulsions but sadly they are. In a sense a little reassurance can go a long way with ocd, I think the occasional “it’s all okay” while having an anxiety attack is normal and natural, especially if it’s a bad one, but if it’s stuff like “no I love my partner, no I’m not gay” etc. those are what you could call the “bad” ones. If that makes sense
Mjs110160Mjs110160
- Date posted
- 7y
Many psychologists who don’t understand OCD make it worse
Mjs110160Mjs110160
- Date posted
- 7y
Reassurance can make your ocd grow really severe
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