- Username
- Serena
- Date posted
- 6y ago
Thank you. I kind of know resigning and running away is not the answer. It’s just these days my mind is constantly thinking a lot of things that make me feel uncomfortable. I still haven’t figure out whether to resign. Cuz, when I am feeling ok and OCD is not bothering me. I will say even if I resign my job I will be able to find a new one. But now, the anxiety thing is playing the tricks and it keeps telling me that if I resign that means I cannot work. So, kind of in a dilemma. I will calm my mind and figure it out.
In my opinion, it seems like resigning would be giving more power to your OCD. But also, maybe there’s a way you can talk to someone at the company and ask for a bit of time off? During this time, you could really sort out a plan/how you will be handling living with OCD and Anxiety. I know there’s a large stigma and most companies don’t seem to place much importance on mental health, but it’s just a suggestion!
Does Zoloft help you with your ocd ??? Any real side effects tiredeness? What dosage? Here for you ?
I’ve learned from my treatment and experience that medication can help you get by, but does not by any means treat the issue. Therapy, specifically Behavioral Therapy has been a god sent to me and is now what I’m getting my Doctorates in. Only you know what is best for you. For me, the moment I gave in to that need to be home, everything got worse and I couldn’t dig myself out alone. For my future, if I feel like I need to take a break, I plan on having intense treatment set up and ready for me, because the moment I decide it’s okay to lay in bed, I would never get out of it on my own. That is, of course, just MY experience. I think everyone is entitled to a break. Those without mental illnesses need them too. But for those of us with one, my big advice would be to have set plans to get you out of the house at scheduled times. Consider talk therapy for a start. Speaking to someone who understands the brain and human behavior is so refreshing to me. Whether you take a break or not, I definitely recommend giving it a try. Sending lots of positive vibes your way. I’ve been in your shoes and hope you are able to find a solution that works best for you. ?
Thank you. I agree resigning is not a good choice right now. I faced similar situation when i was in college but things turned out to be just fine. I guess I need to push myself a bit more. Learn to work with all the thoughts in my head and the pain and anxiety those thoughts caused. I used to do it easily and the anxiety faded away gradually. It seems a bit hard now, but I guess that’s not the excuse for quitting. But, sure. If I feel like I need a break, I will ask for help. Thank you guys.
Exactly! Just push yourself more and don’t place so much focus on how you’re feeling all of the time. Do the things you can do to make you happier/feel better and take one day at a time!
Anyone have issues with growing up/older? Idk if its an ocd subtype, but i freak out thinking about growing up and having to enter the “real world”. At first i thought it was only anxiety, but i think it might be a form of ocd. I know everyone is/gets nervous about the future, but idk. I feel like i have no motivation to see the future, like at all. Lately been hard to see myself in the future? If that makes sense, like i dont see myself making it to lets say, next week? Or idk. Nothing suicidal (i dont think?) but like more like hopelessness and it makes me nervous? Gonna start seeing a therapist soon, so I’m kinda glad about that. Also started on zoloft a month ago, and it was working after the 3-4weeks, but recently ran out and havent been able to get it refilled (2-3days now) and I’m nervous I’m starting to get withdrawal symptoms? (I was on 50mg pill) i feel like im not doing anything with my life, as i had to take the semester off and have no job right now and idk. Luckily my family is pretty understanding but i feel horrible and kinda like a big burden on them ? I know its a long post, thanks for those who read all of it.
When my ocd is bad should I stay home from work? Or does that just reinforce the fear? I've even considered quitting my job because of this. On my bad days I've almost cried at my station and it took all my power to not. I just feel terrible and robbed of who I was before.
Hi all. Bare with me as it is 5:30 AM and I just woke up with lots of anxiety. If something doesn’t make sense I apologize. Within the last few months work has been unbearable for me, but it hasn’t always been this way. I work 40 hours a week at a small town bank, I’m a people person, so I used to not mind it. Of course I was never bouncing out of bed thrilled to go to work, I mean who really is? I started to get really negative and just lazy. I realized that but just thought I just really hated it. It wasn’t till a day when my thoughts were racing and swirling that I realized I didn’t really hate it that much, it’s just my OCD! This summer has been hard for me cause I started therapy and really trying to WORK THROUGH my problems rather than suppressing them. I’ve been a rollercoaster of emotions. We also just moved into our first home this year so working 40 hours a week and having to come home and keep a house clean is a lot. I value my relaxing time so when I can’t do that I get very overwhelmed. I don’t know if this falls into my ROCD, my boyfriends family all works very hard, him included. They all value ambition and hard work. I’m thinking that that the stress maybe could be from thinking that if I just quit my job he’ll think I’m lazy and leave? Also with building our first home this year it brought on a lot of ROCD, and I think this is just common sense however after working 40 hours a week I cannot be the only one cleaning our home. It’s a lot! It’s a constant argument and I always threaten to put my 2 weeks in which I always feel shitty about after because I feel like I’m manipulating him (he NEVER tells me that I am, he just doesn’t listen lol) I just know this is related to my OCD in some way but I can’t place where it fits. It’s so hard because it really puts a damper on my mental health all together and I don’t want to be a miserable person at work. This is just a part of my OCD I haven’t been able to get ahold of yet. If anyone has experienced this I would love some advice. I might not LOVE my job, but I NEVER hated it like I do right now and I’ve been stuck for a bit now. Thank you and have a great Monday :)
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