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I find that when on holidays or in a situation where I am supposed to be relaxed that things will spike big time. I’m currently on holiday myself and finding my OCD goes high. As impossible as it can be, try and resist the obsessing and mental review etc. It’s so hard to let dark things and fear go mulling over them and trying to find answers (as I do!) apparently is making it so much worse for ourselves. Maybe this theme has returned cause you’re on holiday or in a situation out of the norm, I suppose by the by people would say why it’s come back is might not be very significant but for us going through it, it’s so frightening, try not to be too hard on yourself and know that the forum is here
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Big time, it’s so hard to relax especially when away and sometimes at home too and then even if we do relax a bit our OCD can make us more anxious for having relaxed, total bully stuff! We just have to keep on trying and working on it, it’s a long road for me so know you’re not alone :)
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It’s a blinking long road for sure!! But we’ve just gotta keep moving! Hope you manage to try and have a nice holiday
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Thank you @hopetogetabitbetterandhelp for replying! It kinda makes sense because I’m out of my usual routine and trying to relax! I’ve never known how to relax properly since my ocd came along big time!! I’m missing two weeks of therapy whilst I’m away too which I think has thrown me a fair bit but I’m just gonna keep trying with my erp techniques and ignoring everything
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I've found that when I'm trying to relax or really enjoy myself, that's when OCD comes in and says: "I'm here to ruin this for you." That's why it's so important to understand that OCD is not fair, nor or is rational in any way whatsoever. When wanting to relax, enjoy yourself, do happy things, just keep in mind that OCD likes to amplify in these times. All it takes is a little more effort on your end to not ritualize or give into the obsessions!
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- 7y
It’s all about accepting that OCD may not be okay on vacation
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Once you can accept that maybe obsessing is okay, that’s when it becomes easiee
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That’s exactly how it is for me too, I find it so annoying sometimes but it’s just another one of OCDs bully tricks. I’m trying my best not to ritualise!
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Hey Laurie @mark is going through the same thing as you and has posted just above you.
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- 22w
Anyone else with HOCD get thoughts of like "people in denial try to distract themselves" or anything along those lines when just trying to move on from the thoughts. Having a pretty bad episode this morning at least anxiety wise.
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- 17w
I’ve completely lost myself. I can’t focus on my studies, I can’t go to the gym. Dang it I can’t even be around my male friends normally anymore. I got no idea why or how this happened but the only thing I know for sure is that I never questioned my sexuality neither doubted it. I never cared in general. I just liked girls. I keep testing and keep testing and keep testing my arousal but no matter how many times I see but I don’t feel the same way for guys that I do with girls my mind will always try to make me believe that I am gay. It’s like it’s forcing me into an identity I never asked for. But at the end of the day like my psychologist told me. Sexuality doesn’t change. So since I never felt anything for guys in my life it’s ocd. I’ve been up and down for 5 months now and while the last week I was feeling way better. Monday now and I’m back to zero. I just want to go back when everything was normal. I can’t keep living with this.
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- 9w
i had recently been triggered to have so-ocd. its been on my mind non-stop. (i am a heterosexual female) and my mind has been all over the place questioning if i have been in denial the entire time. ive always had people tell me they sort of got that vibe it it never really affected me until my own mother had her suspicions. so i would constantly get triggered un public around the same gender, while knowing my true sexuality. ive always been attracted to men but as of recently ive been having super bad anxiety to where i cannot eat or sleep and feel weak all the time. it was like that for a week or so. now im in the calm where i have been trying accept the uncertainty but it still isnt fair as im getting triggered. im a little worried because it feels like i have been lying to my parents the entire time although ive never had the desire to be with the same gender. and i keep getting intrusive thoguhts that make me feel anxious and uncomfortable. its all starting to affect my friendships as im constantly getting triggered with the intrusive thoguhts. i feel a little less anxious compared to how i was a couple days ago. im really scared on why im having these thoughts now when i have been having romantic feelings for a guy the past year or so. ive also been struggling with false attraction and loss attraction to men. it makes me feel uncertain of my life the entire time
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