- Username
- Crazy.Cat.Lady
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I sing Death of A Bachelor whenever I have a panic attack so don’t worry. Also don’t worry about the intrusive thoughts, I had a dream just last night when I was getting a drink that if I murdered my parents nobody would know because if I burned the bones there would be no evidence. That is how dark it got. But don’t worry, just resist and also whenever you see a knife and you have recently had intrusive thoughts don’t pick it up... I once did and didn’t release that I was walking towards my Mum’s room and I caught a look of myself in the mirror and I looked psychotic. But don’t stress!!! Try meditation, it can really help you to relax your mind! If you need to chat I’m always here and so are the rest of us!!!!
I have murdered my husband’s ex in my dreams multiple times ? and as much as I hate her (I know hate is a strong word, but its a long story), I would never do that to her or to anybody
@tqh lol dream revenge. This made me think of Freddy lol do you like horror movies like Halloween, Friday the 13th? And have you listened to Backstreet Boys? If you like both of them you should listen to “I want to kill you that way” by slashstreet boys on YouTube. It’s HILARIOUS!!
I love scary movies (when my ocd lets me enjoy them ?) and I LOVE Backstreet Boys haha so I’m gonna watch the video ??
@Tqh let me know what you think. It’s really amazing.
@Tqh yay!! Finally I get to share this video with someone. Lol
I loved it! It’s hilarious! they have really good voices though ??
@crystalwolf1053 it’s scary isn’t it? I’ve attacked my ex three times because of my bpd, afraid that I would lose him to someone else and I felt if I can’t gave him then no one should. But he understands me. I didn’t go through with it because I started picturing his mother crying. He loves his mother and I love that about him. I know if I was a mother and had a caring son who was just trying to help his ex to get better and that ex killed my son I would be beyond heartbroken. I’ve also had thoughts of killing my parents. I even drew pictures of them but it’s so crazy! So these things make me scared. At times when it was really hard I wanted to die but I realized I’m too coward so let nature take its course. I even thought maybe if I hurt my ex then the police would shoot me to death. But that’s only when my ocd is so severe I’m just a bowl of emotions. So what if I acted on those emotions. I don’t know. I’m sorry I’m probably not making any sense. Thank you for listening, rather reading lol this.
@Tqh I’m happy you loved it. I watch it everyday. It’s really soothing (their voices lol). I love Michael and Jason’s voices, I love Jason’s dance, I love when Michael puts his hand on some girl’s face, I think leatherface has a funny part. What’s your favorite part? I’ve listened to this so much I forgot the original lyrics lol
This past week has been rough. I am obsessing so much about my boyfriend. I obsess that I might lose him to another man. Or that I may not love him anymore. I don’t want these thoughts but I can’t stop them. They feel so real. I never had a reason to think these thoughts. We get along so well. I never asked for these thoughts but they just came and now I can’t stop them. I have been crying and very emotional this past week. I finally found a guy that I loved and now I’m afraid I’m going to lose him or have lost him and there is no reason for that fear.
As far as ocd , I’ve been feelings okay . But I feel like shit still. I can’t stop thinking about my ex friend who I also like . I am so envious too . It hurts that we’re no longer friends and we haven’t spoken to each other since our fight . It’s been 3 months almost . Bht last we talked , it was more of a confrontation and that’s when things got heated and things really ended officially for both of us. I happen to be obsessive of him not ocd related ik by heart. I am genuinely into him and I can’t seem to stop comparing myself to him as well. Which is why I am jealous of his own lifestyle and overall just him as a person. He’s the beauty faced, free spirited clear minded free guy who goes out does all sorts of things like traveling, clubbing , partying, just an active person off /on social media . He’s free spirited ! I’m surprised we even bonded and stayed close contact with each other . Me on other hand , the mentally ill , insecured , gay kid who suffers from ocd while also balancing social anxiety and everyday struggles of low self esteem . But just overall being mentally or emotionally unstable . I am hoping to reach out someday and reconnect with him and make things better. Meantime , I just have to suffer with the fact that he’s doing all fun and cool things without me . I am also into him too :( but I feel insecure so much because of my self esteem . I want to glow up so bad . I worry how one day he will find someone else 😔despite of not ever being in relationship with him . Nor has he known about my feelings I have for him. This puts me in a worse emotional state . I feel fragile all aside from constant struggle of ocd . This has been issue for me last couple of days is coping wit the loss of a friend . Anyone have advice ??
So, this long story will have to be cut down a bit but here’s my story and my plea for some guidance… My childhood was not that great. Although I am grateful to have had a better childhood than others who are way less fortunate. My dad was an alcoholic and suicidal, my mom was toxic and vengeful. This lasted up until I would say my 10th birthday. I was also molested by a family member that to this day no one believes that it happened and would rather me keep this info to myself. I searched for attention from the wrong people. Being bullied, I decided it’s best to be the bullier. So, I started getting in trouble at school, home, with the cops. Everything. Me and my mom started to develop a resentful relationship. I met people online who were older than my age at the time, who had zero business talking to me. They manipulated me and made me feel horrible. I got caught and went ten months without a phone. This time was peaceful. I then went into my sophomore year of high school and entered a relationship I was not comfortable in. At this point, I was healing from previous trauma and was not looking for a relationship to be in. But, I did it anyway because I was afraid to be alone. This relationship was the worst relationship….and I mean the WORST relationship I was in. It was narcissistic and abusive. It broke off abruptly with no closure, no explanation, and leaving me empty and suicidal. I dated during this time and made it clear that I was not ready for a relationship yet. I decided to take a break from dating because although I do not have feelings for my ex, I was now experiencing anxiety and PTSD from what happened. I fell into a deep depression that I did not know when I will be getting out of. I met my boyfriend while continuing to heal about a month after. It was an instant connection and of course I questioned it but I didn’t think much of it. I caught feelings for him pretty quickly which is something that is rare for me. We had insanely similar personalities. It has been the best relationship I have been in. I could even go as far as to say this will be my future husband. We are also long distance and will be closing that distance soon. Something inside me though… keeps bringing up my ex. Small thoughts, small feelings, and knowing I don’t love him. Now, I sit here. I am questioning my love for my partner, asking myself what is so special about my ex that he occupies my mind but weirdly not my heart… It hurts. I just want these thoughts to stop. I have become suicidal before, I am scared to become this again. Why do I feel like I love him when I never loved him while we were together? I know my brain is tricking me, because I know I love my partner. But I am scared I still care for someone who abused me. I am scared I now love two people at the same time. I am scared that the one that I am with isn’t the one for me and this happiness means I am faking it. Is it all an illusion? Why can’t he just go away?
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