- Username
- nikkii
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Drinking and Drugs is not Real fun. Its destructive and is a result of unresolved issues, it may seem like its fun but those who do it are suffering.
i’m not sure it this will notify you guys but thank you very much for your replies :) i know i shouldn’t care much about it and i really never did until my boyfriend’s friend asked me about it and bc of that question, i started being aware of how i didn’t have those experiences so it looked like i was boring. i don’t really care for stuff like that and especially having anxiety and ocd i don’t really have such desire for it if all it’s going to do is affect me negatively. again, thank you guys for your words:)
You're welcome don't let anyone pressure you into doing things that you don't want to do or that isn't good for you by calling you "boring" or making you feel like you're "boring". Getting intoxicated to have fun is one of the most boring things anyone can do and shows that they lack a personality.
You’re welcome 😊 Do what you want and live yo life your way 😎
I went to CC and used good grades there to get to a top university in my state. It saves THOUSANDS of dollars, and by getting good grades in CC, you can apply to clubs or be invited to PTK and transfer with guaranteed scholarships which will make you save more money than going immediately into university from high school. OCD often has a comorbidity of anxiety, depression which can lead to substance abuse.. so be cautious.
drinking and doing drugs isn’t what makes highschool fun. real fun in highschool is about the moments and times you spent with friends, family, crushes, at dances, school trips, summer break, etc. drinking and drugs isn’t what makes the moment or what makes “fun”.
Why would doing drugs and getting shitfaced like other people do supposedly be the highlight of your college experience instead of... getting a degree?
There’s nothing wrong with community college 😂 I went to a CC for 3 years, then went to university.
@Nica definitely nothing wrong with cc! i just feel behind socially with people in my grade
I felt like that after high school. Now i don’t care since I know a lot of it is just expectations. I didn’t drink or party because that’s not the kind of person I am. I’m 26 and happy with my adolescence
Had my high school graduation ceremony and it should have been a happy moment. But I don't have much family of friends so it was kinda lonely. Also I felt I have no future compared to everyone else. I'm overwhelmed with mental issues and and not the smartest. I feel like I'm never going to recover and have a successful life
To the ones in college, has OCD put a huge impact on our school work. Honestly I’ve spent more time thinking than actually doing assignments this year... it’s eating me up because now I feel like I’m behind and a disappointment
Anyone else get deeply sad and jealous seeing other people thrive life ? Meanwhile we’re here stuck struggling with our ocd and just mental health in general . I’m envious of what some people are able to do that I can’t :( and I don’t mean it in a hateful envious way , but just a more sad kinda way that I wish I could do stuff they can simply like driving . I’m almost 20 and I know most of ykk have probably seen many of my posts about this , but it truly puts me in a difficult state of mind . I didn’t have mental capacity to do things at younger age:( I missed out on a lot . Seeing these 16-17 year old kids achieve things way more efficiently than I did just makes me feel shitty about myself . Everyone having fun on weekend and I’m not . I don’t have many friends either .
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