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- 3y ago
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- 3y ago
i actually questioned my sexuality before and it makes me feel sick because honestly what if i am just in denial
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- 3y ago
I can relate. But do yourself a favor and stop asking this question because it does not matter. Asking yourself these questions and searching for answers in your brain will not get you anywhere. You can do this. Don’t let the thoughts bully you.
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- 3y ago
I’m convinced I’ve always questioned too even though I literally remember having another ocd theme as a really little kid where I was convinced the doctors made a mistake and I was actually biologically a boy (incredibly ridiculous and based off of a lack of knowledge of human anatomy) and I was crying because I thought it meant I had to marry a girl (I know this is problematic in so many ways now but it was the very early 2000s)
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- 3y ago
When you keep reminding yourself about being straight before HOCD, you are reassuring yourself which will only bring the OCD thoughts back thus perpetuating the cycle. All your mine will do is bring you the same question yet it will use anything from a different perspective (and I mean anything) to try to make the answer to that question uncertain. Your best bet is to try to not engage or answer any question your mind posses and if your mind tries to throw a thought at you that you suddenly worry that it could be true, tell you mind "sure, fuck it why not. Hey who's to say???" If you are persistent with that mind set (and even then it's not easy as I slip up from time to time), it becomes easier to disarm the thoughts...
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- 3y ago
ty so much
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- 24w ago
Hi everyone, Lately, I’ve been feeling confused and anxious about my sexuality, which has been challenging to navigate. I’ve always identified as straight and am currently in a happy relationship with my boyfriend. However, I’ve recently started questioning if I might have some attraction to women, which has caused me a lot of anxiety. To be clear, I’ve never experienced romantic or physical attraction toward women in real life, but I have watched lesbian porn in the past. Now, I can’t help but worry that this might mean I’m attracted to women after all. On top of this, I’ve noticed a decrease in my sexual desire for my boyfriend, which only intensifies my concerns about both my sexual orientation and my relationship. This confusion is something I’ve never dealt with before, and it’s starting to take an emotional toll. If anyone has experienced something similar, I would really appreciate any advice or insights on how you worked through it. What helped you find clarity? Someone mentioned that my anxiety might be OCD-related, though I’m not familiar with OCD in this context. I’d love to hear from anyone with experience in navigating these kinds of thoughts or anxiety. I’m open to any personal stories, resources, or guidance on how to approach this situation, both for myself and in communication with my partner. I want to better understand what I’m feeling without being overwhelmed by fear. Thank you in advance for your support!
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- 23w ago
Does anyone with so ocd get scared or feel like they r just going to suddenly realise they r gay. Like all of a sudden you’ll be like omg I’m gay and then I get scared like ong it’s happening to me Can any relate to this
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- 22w ago
Ok so I’m a 17 year old female, and I’ve always thought I was straight. But I just really want to know how you would know the difference between so-ocd and actually questioning your sexuality. I have nothing against the LGBTQ community (in fact I am very much a token straight friend, lol) but I saw a video about comp-het recently and it sort of felt like what I was experiencing. I don’t want to be gay, I want to be with men, I want to like men, I’ve always liked men, but now I’m questioning whether or not that’s real? Because people can be gay but not want to be right? I’m single and I always have been. I think women are gorgeous, but when I try to imagine actually having any sort of romantic or sexual relationship with a woman it feels wrong, at least most of the time it does? Sometimes I’m less sure, and I’ve never been particularly boy crazy. I’ve liked maybe 2 or 3 people in my life, (not to say I’ve never found other guys attractive, but it doesn’t seem to be as often as most people) I have no particular reason to be afraid of being gay, very supportive family, safe area ect, but I don’t want to be, does that mean this is ocd, I don’t know what’s going on every time I say I’m straight I feel like I’m lying, but that might just be because I think about it so much. The idea of being with a woman doesn’t feel like something I would want, but is that just because I don’t want to want it? People online say things with so much sureness, if you feel like this it means this. Ect.
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