- Username
- Anonymous
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I just moved in with my boyfriend and that triggered my rocd episode. I’ll be honest I didn’t cope well. Not until I got strict with myself and got back on my medication (which is helpful for me but may not be for you) and stopped my compulsions. It’s hard but once you get into the routine it isn’t that hard any more. Having self compassion while also being strict with yourself has really helped me
What medication r u on?
@hirokilledme I’m on Zoloft. But what works for me might not work for you! So definitely consult with your doctor if you are thinking about getting on medication and they’ll try to find a good fit for you :)
That just happened to me last week, I don't know how to cope yet but I relate
I don’t know how to cope yet either but I’ve been stuck in a bad episode for a bout a week. It started coming in waves about 3 weeks ago now it’s full-on bad again. If I find anything that works I’ll let you know. I’m always here if you wanna talk. Stay strong ❤️
Been dealing with that with Covid and the recent surge in cases. My condition has worsened that that’s why I’m here.
a major breakup triggered my ocd, and it’s been hard to go back to before that 🥺
i think that’s how my OCD got triggered as well and i can 100% agree with you it’s been hard to return to how it was before that
Me too! It’s so difficult. If you wanna talk, I’m here.
Just happened a month ago and it caused me mental complusions because i keep thinking in a horrible person even though we didnt end things negatively it was just for the best type of thing but now i worry so much everyday about being a good enough person.
Same here. I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago and about 3 weeks ago my OCD started getting really bad again. I hope you find something that works. I’m always here if you wanna talk about anything.
Most of my OCD is triggered from major life changes or traumatic experiences and they will last months then change
Yes moving to a new city with my partner triggered my ocd initially, then again this summer, the death of a close loved one triggered my ocd again along with new themes from all the stress I was under
Same thing happened to me! 2 years ago I moved across the country with my then boyfriend. Everything shut down a couple months after we got there and being alone away from my family and friends and working from home all the time really made my OCD unbearable. After moving back home and doing therapy through NOCD it got a million times better. Then 2 months ago I broke up with him, and now it’s just sort of setting in that I probably won’t ever see him again. And my OCD has been horrible. I’m so sorry for your loss! The whole community is always here for you if you need to talk about anything.
I never used to have a hard time making friends. Then I went into high school and had a terrible year socially. It made me start to wonder if something was genuinely wrong with me, because suddenly I couldn't seem to strike up a conversation with anyone. I transferred schools, but by that point my confidence was already through the floor. Tenth grade was Act I, but ninth grade definitely set the stage.
My boyfriend freaked out when he found out I had OCD. He never looked at me the same way again. He broke up with me a few days after - we had been dating for 2 years. Has this happened to anyone? How did you cope? It’s been a few years since this happened and I still feel so embarrassed to this day.
I feel like OCD ruins so much. My boyfriend broke up with me because of it. It got to a point where I made him do compulsions (ex: open and close the door a certain amount of times). I have OCD in combination with PTSD so I would get triggers often. He got to a point where he got up and left me while I was at work and cut contact completely. I don’t know how to feel and I feel like a failure. It’s been two months and my OCD has been nonstop telling me I was an abuser or narcissistic and that’s why he left. Everyone tells me I’m a broken record… but they don’t know that this is torture for me, too. I wish I could start over with my ex, but I can’t, and that bothers my OCD, too. Lack of control. I also seem to have memory issues in that relationship, I can’t remember what happened or not, and I’m not sure if that’s part of my OCD.
Does anyone else find when a huge change happens in their life their ocd comes crawling in?
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond