- Username
- Wildcat14
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Trying to rationalize/analyze /compare are functions of cumpolsion that make it worse. The fear isn't about the obssesion but the obssesion about obssesion that I'll never have piece of mind, or that I will always notice this. I carried a script in my pocket with the words "I'll never have piece of mind" And kept glenci g at it every hour or so. This way OCD learned that there is no way to know if I will be calm or not so why fight it? Additionally carrying an index card with "I'll never have piece of mind from this" in your pocket cuts the urgency to Analyze/compare/try figuring it out because it's already solved. I already solved the Hyperawernes by saying I'll never get quiet and it's closed in my pocket so OCD learned to stop sending you signals. Sure enough it will find something else
OCD and checking emotions. It can get very confusing. Additionally since this that involves the body you can try body meditations Google mind body excersises. Something crazy I did was I placed a spoon of peanut butter in my mouth and basically you can't be scared and discusted at the same time so I kept the penqut butter in there untill it was discussing. You should Google introspective exposure. Try closing one side of your nose and not the other
Sounds like you need some books. I suggest reading up on OCD and ACT is you haven’t already.
ACT? I think I’m fairly well versed in OCD since I’ve been diagnosed and am seeing a therapist but I don’t know about ACT.
Moe5 yes, wow, amazing. I don’t think I’ve ever talked to anyone who has experienced this exactly. Thank you so much for your suggestion! It absolutely is the fear plus comparison of “I felt fine before but never will again” or “how am I feeling now”?
I have been dealing with severe contamination OCD for awhile now and for the past several months it has been around laundry. I have been working with my ERP therapist here and taking baby steps since this is at the top of my hierarchy. I was slowly making progress however my husband once again has triggered me back to the start and this is not the first time he has done this. I simply asked him to let me do the laundry and I had a system, I will say an odd system however that was working for me while I continued with the baby steps and keeping my anxiety at a manageable level. Now I just feel so angry, at myself, at him and at my OCD. I have already replaced the washer twice. I just feel like I can't catch a break and now I am forced to sit with the anxiety, not by choice because I can't afford to replace it again! 😢
I’m under a lot of stress right now between getting sick , getting my period , moving to a new apartment , and going on vacation next week. I feel like it’s made me distant and my partner focused OCD has gotten so much worse along with ROCD and SOOCD. I feel like I’ve been so hypercritical of my boyfriend and feeling nothing towards him and that stresses me out because last week when I was clear and my OCD had calmed down I felt so lovey dovey towards him. Now I just feel like a menace so I’m wondering if this happens to anyone else?
my OCD has been SO MUCH better since october but today it has flared up again. I accidentally took a sip of my coworkers drink that I thought was mine because it was right next to me unintentionally just a little sip but enough to send me into a spiral of thinking that I’m going to contract some kind of illness or that their saliva was in the drink and I drink some of it and now it’s inside of me 😖 once I let them know, they joked and said “ well I don’t have cooties and I’m sure you don’t either “ but I can’t help to think that something bad is going to happen over just that little sip. and I kept spitting/rinsing my mouth out multiple times just to be safe but still don’t feel any better.
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