raj123
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Micky ♡Micky ♡
- Date posted
- 3y ago
im also 16 struggling with the same thing :[[ but! i have 2 friends that have been dating since middle school!! and are both juniors in highschool now and have an amazing trusting relationship. it might be hard to believe but highschool romances CAN work out :]] its hard not to doubt yourself and your relationship with your partner after the honeymoon phase, but its normal to feel a bit different after that ends. have hope!! :D i hope that could help a little
raj123raj123
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Thank you so much, it helped me alot ! It gave me confidence in my relationship. I know that the confidence wont last for more than an hour but thank you alot :)
Micky ♡Micky ♡
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@raj123 ofc!! whenever you start to notice youre getting anxious or you start obsessing, just try to remember that not everyones relationship is the same!! it might not work for others but that doesnt mean it wont work for you :]]
raj123raj123
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@icedmilkk But I dont have rocd😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Micky ♡Micky ♡
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@raj123 you might not, but sometimes you might obsess over a theme you dont necessarily have :0!!
raj123raj123
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@icedmilkk I have had hocd in the past, but now it's fine ig. I mostly dont have rocd too. Idc if I have rocd or not but I wanna be with my gf forever 😭
Micky ♡Micky ♡
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@raj123 i totally understand that feeling!! i love my partner so much and i wanna be with them forever too, but i get so worried about 'puppy love'!! its a sucky feeling :[ but itll get better with time. youve already gotten to 4 months!! and past the honeymoon stage :D
raj123raj123
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@icedmilkk Yessss that thingg!!! I finally found someone with similar thoughts. So how long have you been w your gf??
Micky ♡Micky ♡
- Date posted
- 3y ago
@raj123 i have a bf but we just hit one month :]
Bunnylovee Bunnylovee
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Yes. It can last. I’ve been with my boyfriend since we were 16 and 17. My ROCD started 3 months into the relationship. We are now 27 and 28! ROCD still flairs up sometimes, but anything is possible if you want it enough.
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I’ve been with my fiancé since we were 16, and we have been together for 11 years now.
Katelynn18Katelynn18
- Date posted
- 3y ago
In my opinion it depends on the two people and what they desire in the future. I’m in high school myself and I’ve been in a relationship from 12-15 which was 3 years however stuff happened and that’s the past. However I do know people who dated in middle school who are still together senior year of high school and I know people who are older and have been together since high school. There is never a possibility that it won’t happen
Related posts
Hailey25
- Date posted
- 24w ago
Someone pls help w ROCD
I’m really frustrated with myself. I got diagnosed with ROCD about 2 and a half weeks ago and now it’s taken over my life. I was just with my boyfriend who is absolutely amazing and I was obsessed with 2 and a half weeks ago and then a switch flipped and I started questioning everything and have gone numb. I noticed immediately something was wrong and booked an appt with my therapist who sent me to an OCD therapist who I meet with on Wednesday for the first time. I’m frustrated because when I’m with him I know what I should be feeling and can acknowledge how great he is and how good looking he is but I feel this block in my chest keeping me from feeling things. Anyone have any advice or has ever felt this way? I know I’m new to this and haven’t started therapy yet but my god it is so draining and the guilt I feel is insane. Let me know please🙏
King silly
- Date posted
- 24w ago
I turn 17 in two days
I turn 17 in two days and I’ve been in a panic that I’ll still have attraction to 14 year olds, because I actually do not know if I do or not, I just can’t tell. I don’t know how I’m gonna tell. idk if I will or not, and it’s all super confusing to what I really want, it’s like “do you like 14 year olds at that age??” And I say no? But it feel like I’m also lying, and that I actually do? idk what to do? My brain keeps justifying it to be fine cuz it’s only three years but I really don’t like that, so I’m worrying that I will feel attracted
Mariabae
- Date posted
- 17w ago
what if im in denial
maybe i dont want to accept the factvthat i lost feelings, maybe i never actually loved my boyfriend and i hust wanted a relationship , i dont want reasurance, but in very scared i dont love him, because it feels real. im scared
Be a part of the largest OCD Community
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond