- Date posted
- 6y
- Date posted
- 6y
For sure!! I think reassurance when one truly doesn't know if something should be worried about or not is very helpful (even necessary? in my opinion!) I think it's only not helpful when it becomes repetitive, where someone get the reassurance they need but continues asking over and over. Also as long as we are still on the lookout to acknowledge and ignore intrusive thoughts then we are still overcoming ocd.
- Date posted
- 6y
Yes!!! But it takes a lot for me to really believe it and fight it. That’s amazing you were able to do that and leave it be!
- Date posted
- 6y
Yea I’ve def felt that way before. There are actually obsessions which have completely disappeared for me after reassurance and someone sharing an objective/logical perspective. Just like one medicine doesn’t work for everyone, reassurance isn’t bad in every case. The conclusion that reassurance is bad came from research which is based on scientific theories and hypotheses, not a scientific law. Which means that there can be exceptions to the rule^_^
- Date posted
- 6y
Reassurance can works in short periods of time, mostly in the beggining of the disorder. But the thought will be back because your behaviour over that doesn't change. With time, reassurance just makes everything worse and you start to loose all sense of control in your life.
- Date posted
- 6y
In most cases:) It’s been 3 years since the obsession I was talking about disappeared.
- Date posted
- 6y
Don't trust reassurance. Is just common that if you have an obsession with some theme that is stronger than the others, you keep worrying about it more than the others. For example, I suffer soocd, so I can't really get contamination ocd at all. Or any other type of ocd, even if all of them start with the same behaviours and make you feel like shit anyway. You have your obsession to fight. And is normal that with treatment you can overcome other negative thoughts easily.
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- Date posted
- 25w
Does anyone else experience a moment of clarity where you feel strong relief that the intrusive thought isn’t true, only to then immediately start questioning if you’ve only convinced yourself that because you don’t want the thought to be true? I’m pretty confident it would take some crazy mental gymnastics to actually successfully convince myself I didn’t do something that I deep down knew I did, but every time I resist the compulsions and try to sit with the uncertainty or tell myself to think about what is logical, I usually briefly know that this probably didn’t happen but am unable to move on out of fear I’m just in denial and have convinced myself of that.
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 20w
Would it be logical to think “if I never worried about this before, it must be OCD”? I am trying to not reassurance seek, but when I can approach things logically, it really helps me. I have been dealing with varying themes since July and I try to be pragmatic about things. I’d like to stop things in their tracks if I can.
- Date posted
- 19w
What did I do if I really want reassurance
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