Hello all, I’m new and have been suffering from OCD for a while now, my latest theme is a relapse of my HOCD. I was just wondering do any of you have this constant attraction to nearly every mildly attractive member of the same sex? And also when you are looking at someone you know you are attracted to do you feel nothing? That is what seems to be happening to me lately and I’m worried. Any advice would be great!!!

That happens to me, I see a girl and my mind instantly thinks are you attracted to her?? and I’m not attracted to her. Another thing is I’m still kind of attracted to boys but it’s not the same. Also I only think girls are pretty I’ve never thought anything else, like with boys I think they’re really cute and I want to date them but it’s not like that with girls

Yeah, I’m stuck in the HOCD theme right now too and it’s got my head all tangled! It’s almost like the sexuality I was born with went “see ya” and ran out the door ? I still notice cute guys in the room immediately. But then because I’m so convinced that I don’t like men, my mind goes from thinking they’re attractive to finding them almost disgusting. Because if I think they’re cute, I’ll get a sexual thought about them to check if I still like men, but my brain wants me to so badly think I’m not attracted to guys, that I find the sexual thought gross. It’s hard to explain. I know in my heart I’m not attracted to girls. I never have been. Not like my attraction to men. It’s all really confusing and I feel numb from it. As always, the best thing to do is just accept the thoughts. I’m in that battle too right now, so I can’t say what definitely works or not.

You said you’re new to this app, I think you’ll find there’s a lot of HOCD in this community and with that, a lot of advice.

I’m going through this exact same thing. And my doubts only get worse when I’m getting better. If the thoughts are lessening, the doubts are increasing it’s like goddamn just give me a break. Are you ever just tired of being so tired of this. I know I like men but my mind has now made it weird for me to say that because Now I’m convinced I like “women.” So it feels like it’s wrong for me to say I like men cause I’m having ocd twist my memories and making me seem fake.