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- Mandy2814
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Parents with OCD
Has anyone else with kids during a spin out seeked reassurance from their children? I’m feeling alone on this one and extremely guilty about it.
Has anyone else with kids during a spin out seeked reassurance from their children? I’m feeling alone on this one and extremely guilty about it.
I’m not sure if my dad has ocd but he has asked me many times if he is a good dad. I’m not sure if this is similar but if it is I personally think of it as a good thing because you care what your children think of you.
I have a step child but she is like a real daughter to me. I seeked reassures from her but I don't think she knew it. And I always thought I would be bad for her with all my problems. She's a adult now and it turns out that I'm the one parent that didn't give her problems with life 😆. We talk about it openly and I think it helps her to accept herself as well. You don't have to be perfect to be a parent. And if it feels like too much you can always ask for help ❤️
@Buffbuff Thank you. I guess I should focus on how I’ve been a good parent instead. I just let the OCD monster take over my mind at bedtime ☺️
@Mandy2814 It's so typical OCD to act like that! I think you can be a better parent with OCD because you show your children that its okay to have a mental illness and how to seek help. And also its easyer for you to see if your child doesn't feel well than it is for parents who never had a fight with OCD.
You’re not alone, I’ve done this too.
@TT2022 Thank you. I hope you have a wonderful day
hey there, i can only imagine how tough it must be juggling OCD and parenting. you're definitely not alone in this struggle, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. guilt is a heavy load, but remember you're doing your best. 💛 i've been in your shoes, and what really helped me was this free AI OCD therapy tool called "unstuck" (unstuckmyocd.com/try) that my OCD therapist recommended. it'll be especially helpful for you because it offers personalized, step-by-step support that's like having an OCD therapist on-call when things get rough. i hate when people promote stuff, but i really think it can help you because it's changed my life. lmk if you have Qs or just want to talk more! <3
Any parents out there right now struggling with ocd? If so would you mind sharing the struggle?
Any parents out there where your ocd themes are focused around your children?
The worst is when ocd latches on to your children. I’ve been having intrusive thoughts about my daughter that have me so depressed. I know none of it is true but the ocd really tries to convince me that it is. Any other parents experience this??
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