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- 5y ago
I put my hope and faith in Jesus and I can't look back. He has given me eternal life for when after I die and I'm not gonna doubt that. If I did, I would probably stay thinking about dying like all the time!
I have it every now it then. It used to be really bad at the beginning of this year. I was always looking up “death” related things (how long people live, can you die from this or that, etc.) they just kinda slowly stopped whenever I started taking lexapro but they come up every now and then I just don’t stress about them as much anymore. I kinda just convinced myself that the spirit world is real and that my soul will live on.
Sadly yes. I obsess over this constantly and it’s been one of the worst fears I’ve ever had to experience. I was blindsided by it too as it came outta nowhere ??♂️ but I think the best thing to do is to tell yourself to focus on the now- you worrying about it isn’t going to change whether there is or isn’t one !! And also tell yourself that even if there isn’t one , you could still live a happy life , specifically because by changing your way of thinking you could literally change your brain which would make life so much easier and there would be far less anxiety. Just do things just to do them , which is objectively purposeful in and of itself. You could also take the focus off of yourself , and think about other things that are independent of you , whether that be nature , another person , etc. but to be completely honest with you , and you should still accepting the uncertainty of course , I think the evidence for an afterlife is extremely strong and compelling. But tell yourself that you can’t know for sure and you won’t know , so it’s best for you to enjoy the time you have now :)
Yes. It is a constant, intense obsession for me.
Constantly! This might be the oldest obsession I can distinctly remember. Even as a kid, I was always having weird existential worries about death, eternity, or wondering if I actually existed... Perhaps it’s rooted in a fear of the unknown, or what’s out of my control, but it’s something I’ve still to this day never been able to shake or have peace with.
Existential Anxiety Anyone else question their life’s purpose or wonder if there is an afterlife. I have been obsessing over the idea that we are mortal and it’s stressing me out. I want to live in the moment and enjoy my life, but I can’t stop obsessing over these thoughts. Can anyone relate? What helps?
So I’ve been having the same intrusive thoughts since Christmas there’s been some time when it pops up and I say that I’m not that person and I would never do that and I carry on my day which I call a good time but then there’s some bad times when it just sticks in my head and I feel bad inside and guilty and hate myself for thinking of this and idk if it’s me or ocd and whenever say I’m watching a movie or something has my attention then whatever I was doing ends then my mind immediately goes to that thought as if I’m trying to think about it which I don’t want to or that that’s the only thing i can think about. And I worry that this thought will be in my head until I die
Why is OCD so confusing? My obsessions upset me so much because the truth about them is quite concerning and depressing to me. So how is treating OCD going to help me when it feels like a REAL problem to me. What if I am never able to accept the uncertainty of my issues. It doesn’t even feel like an OCD problem to me…it feels like a reality problem. I’m not happy with reality and the truths about existence, so of course it’s going to make me sad. I guess it’s just my own mind though. My concerns and thoughts are REAL. If I could go back to not thinking about these certain things, my whole perception on life, myself, reality as a whole would be fine. I feel like people tell me it’s OCD but I don’t agree..yet I don’t actually know what the real problem is. What if I can’t accept reality? It’s such a terrifying feeling to have. I feel so crazy.
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