Soocd :(

From my experience, just try using ERP by saying maybe, maybe not. Then just carry on with life. The more attention you give the thought, the more it will try to bother you. I’ve struggled with this too because it is against my religion to have same sex attracting so I’ve gotten scared. Just try not to ruminate.

Im not an ocd expert or therapist, but i dont know if its the best treatment to constantly tell everyone with soocd that any sexual excitement they get from looking at someone of the same sex or watching same sex porn is just a false attraction or feeling. I think what does better to bring the anxiety down is firstly exposure, which most people who have soocd dont want to do, and secondly accepting the idea that you may enjoy sex with someone of the same sex. But most likely you prefer sex with some of the opposite sex. Obsessive compulsives have a hard time accepting that idea. People without ocd might say yeah i could enjoy that but i prefer sex with opposite sex.

Same! I’ve gotten to the point where my brain says everyone is attractive no matter if I can fully see the person or not. I don’t need the false commentary of OCD😭