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Just saying
If you're in pursuit of happiness, don't anchor it to a person or a specific event. Instead, connect it to a meaningful goal.
If you're in pursuit of happiness, don't anchor it to a person or a specific event. Instead, connect it to a meaningful goal.
I would say don't even connect to a goal because once you've accomplished the goal what happens to the happiness? And then you've got to connect it to another goal to be happy again? I don't think happiness should be connected to anything or even something to be in pursuit of. You'll never find it that way. Instead understand that happiness is not static, it ebbs and flows just like any other mood. Do you things you enjoy and things make you smile, but don't chase the state of happiness.
My goal is to be happy š
i generally obtain happiness by trying my best to be a good person. both just because i like being good, and also because it also results in a lot more friendships and just generally a better time for everyone
It is proven that if you write your goals down they are statistically more likely to be successful. Feel free to write your goals down here. I want to run 1km without stopping, I want to lose 5kg and I want to improve my credit score. Just a bit of funamd we'll see what happens.
I want to move on and accept my past mistakes, but I feel like truly forgiving myself isnāt acceptable. My therapist says not to judge my past self but seek to understand. But if what Iāve done has gone against my moral values, how exactly do I do this? Iāve learned my lesson, and I just want to move on. But that feels like letting myself off the hook. Any tips or advice??
I'm struggling. Not going to seek the reassurance I feel I NEED.
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