- Date posted
- 28w ago
Just saying
If you're in pursuit of happiness, don't anchor it to a person or a specific event. Instead, connect it to a meaningful goal.
If you're in pursuit of happiness, don't anchor it to a person or a specific event. Instead, connect it to a meaningful goal.
I would say don't even connect to a goal because once you've accomplished the goal what happens to the happiness? And then you've got to connect it to another goal to be happy again? I don't think happiness should be connected to anything or even something to be in pursuit of. You'll never find it that way. Instead understand that happiness is not static, it ebbs and flows just like any other mood. Do you things you enjoy and things make you smile, but don't chase the state of happiness.
My goal is to be happy 😊
i generally obtain happiness by trying my best to be a good person. both just because i like being good, and also because it also results in a lot more friendships and just generally a better time for everyone
Existential crisis pls help guys🫶 I’m finding that everything is pointless What’s the point of reaching my goals? Is God even real? Please help guys!!!!!
I’ve been feeling so disconnected lately, like I’m not even living my own life. It’s like I’m being controlled by someone else, and I have no say in what’s happening. It’s hard to put this feeling into words, but it’s like I’m here physically, but mentally, I’m just... not. Every day feels like a struggle. I wake up afraid of what’s coming next, almost like I’m bracing myself for the next bad thing to happen. Sometimes, I don’t even want to get out of bed because it feels pointless, like I’m stuck in this loop of fear and doubt. I keep questioning everything, life, my purpose, my choices, and it’s exhausting. I just want to feel like myself again, to feel like I have control, like I’m really here.
I know that at times it’s hard to be thankful for who I am and what I have in life. Would you like to help me think more positively with the top 3 things you love about your life? It can be the people you’re surrounded by, a hobby, a food, animal, plant, TV show, weather, etc.
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