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Remember OCD comes and goes or waxes and wanes throughout your lifespan. I want everyone to be comfortable with that. To be “ok” with it and aware of it. Don’t let ocd run over the top of you anymore. Make adjustments and tweak and tune your life to get the best out of it. You’ve got this....
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How do you control the feelings/emotional part of it?
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@Evelyn4416 This is the hardest part, on top if shame for some subtypes
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@luchalysol Definitely :( like you can try and manage the thoughts to keep at bay but sometimes when the thoughts aren’t even there the feeling is still there in your chest and it’s like how do I deal with that?
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@Evelyn4416 Yes! Like its hard to imagine, even after recovery, that you even had these thoughts. It forever changes you.
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@No_brainier99 It changes your life. Ocd is chronic
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Probably moreso than someone in their 30s and older. With the huge cultural shift in the country in the last 20 years regarding sexual orientation, gender identity, etc., it probably begins in the early teenage years for many individuals.
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It seems to be the case. I honestly recall having mild symptoms at 12.
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Same here. I could see examples of what could be OCD back to when I was 11 but I didn’t have my huge onset until I was 23
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@Evelyn4416 It wasn't until 26 for me. Its so weird how it all makes sense when we look back right?
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It’s not easy. I would cry for no reason just driving down the street. The emotion would just break loose. You need to be aware that people with ocd have a more sensitive nervous system. You have to get control and manage it a little a time and not beat yourself up over it. Ask anyone on here... it’s not a cake walk. The emotional part gets better through learning how to reduce and manage stressful situations and an understanding of why it’s happening. You must work on it and be aware of it at all times to keep it in check.
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That panic attack feeling and bottled up energy is a result of overwhelming anxiety that builds up ifvyou don’t catch it and deal with it at immediately.
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Thanks for the reply, it definitely is practice
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Age Range: Males (6-15 years) Females (20-29 years). •Equal occurrence in both genders. •Obsession with dirt/germs: Avoid using public restrooms. •Hypochondriacal concerns: make repeated visits to the doctor for reassurance. •Obsession with guilt: have a pathological sense of responsibility. (Depressed because they don’t want to feel this way but can’t stop because of guilty feelings). •Excessive use of alcohol or sedatives, hypnotic or anxiolytic medications . •Avoidance of situations; keep to themselves mostly; stay at home (so others don’t see odd behaviors). •Those with mild cases may be quite successful in life because they are overly conscientious and are perfectionists. •Obsessions may not be as obvious as compulsions.
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If I ever have to have heart surgery some day, I think that I prefer that my surgeon be more of a perfectionist than not. ?
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I never had any type of doubt or ocd tendencies during puberty or in my late teens. Since the start of 23 fucking hocd.
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I think it does vary on the person. I can see how it could be dormant in someone until it’s triggered by something or some sort of event.
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@catmom I agree. Mine was dormant until the beginning of this year. I had tendencies growing up, but never full blown ocd. Not gonna lie, Id rather deal with my depression and ptsd (diagnosed) than this. But I do think my ocd was triggered by my ptsd due to a recent event
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@catmom Definitely! If anything I had minor religious OCD (tendencies perhaps? Intrusive thoughts but not for days on days) growing up but when I was 23 I had a couple horrible anxiety episodes that turned my world upside down (had a lot of big changes happening in my life during that time) and I think that triggered my OCD onset to what it is now
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United States, mean onset: 19.5 years ◦ 25% start by age 14 years (Kessler et al. 2005; Ruscio et al. 2010) Onset after age 35 years is unusual Males have an earlier age at onset than females ◦ nearly 25% of males have onset before age 10 years (Ruscio et al. 2010). Onset of symptoms is typically gradual. ◦ Acute onset has also been reported.
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David Beckham has admitted that he suffers from obsessive compulsive disorder. The footballer has spoken for the first time of his addiction to rearranging hotel rooms and lining up cans of soft drinks to make "everything perfect".
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But why at this age range? Is there something hormonal or any other thing that causes this? Please give your opinion or if you have facts feel free
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I think OCD is usually more apparent in later teen years. I remember having OCD tendencies when I was in elementary school, but I didn’t realize the severity until I was 16 or 17.
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Can we create or trigger an event in our lives through which we can purposefully make this stop?
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DIAGNOSTIC ONSET AND COURSE: 1%-4% of children and adolescents. At least 1/3 of adult OCD subjects had the onset of symptoms in childhood (Rasmussen & Eisen, 1992). Children and adolescents share similar features with the exception of age at onset and OCD symptom expression. (Mancebo, 2008) Consistent across lifespan (Stewart, 2007)
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Anyone else over 30 and dealing with thoughts that feel debilitating? I know I’m not alone, but I’m curious who else is with me.
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Sort of a rant that probably sounds stupid and I’m kind of seeking reassurance… I’m still a relatively young teenager so I know I’ve got time to work all this out but I’m really confused about my sexuality. (I’m a girl) I’ve never been in a relationship (I don’t know if I want to be which is why I’m writing this) and sometimes I feel like I’ve never really had a crush and I just convinced myself that I did because I wanted to feel normal… but then maybe that’s false memory ocd??? I don’t really want to be in a long term relationship with a guy and idk about girls but idk if that’s just cos of my age??? Some days I hate the idea of ever dating, marrying or doing anything sexual. Other days I wish my mental / physical health was better so I could date someone! Everything I feel goes up and down a lot and idk why!? I have bad sexual intrusive thoughts that make me unsure whether anything that I think is real and my parents recently split up after not getting along for a few years. I don’t know if it’s my age, my ocd, my parents bad relationship, my sexuality (am I attracted to guys, girls? Am I ace!!!!???) Or something else but I have no idea who I am and I KNOW I’m young and have time but some other perspectives might help???? Can I ever be in a relationship if I have ocd like this? Also I’m really struggling not to compulsively seek reassurance and I don’t know who to talk to about all this irl I know I probably shouldn’t share this with random strangers but also idek if I care anymore 😭
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I have no idea anymore. I guess this all started with me worrying about whether I was gay, then whether I was a P, then worried about being just attracted to teenagers. After that I started freaking out about not feeling “grown up” enough. Like “I’m an adult wtf is wrong with me for seeing someone who is probably younger and thinking they’re physically attractive. Then I started overthinking not finding older adults (like 30 or 40) very attractive. Like ofc I’m probably not gonna find them attractive, they’re not anywhere close my age. Maybe the desires are half real. Maybe as a 21 yr old young adult I do find older teenagers (16+) somewhat physically attractive. I still think it’d be weird to date one. Maybe that’s the normal reaction I’m supposed to have. If not, please let me know. I just don’t wanna do anything illegal one day and I’m super scared I will. I can’t tell if the fear is my just being afraid of the law though, in which case I might actually just be a bad person. I hate that my brain is just rationalizing thoughts now. I feel like I can’t do the ERP thing of “just accept that the thoughts are there but don’t engage.” Like what? How can I just think a thought that might be so integral to my identity and just ignore it? If it’s all true and I don’t like people my age anymore then I have to know and plan around that, that could change my entire life. I’m rambling, my b.
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