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Yes, the key is allowing the thought to sit there and do nothing about it. Continue with your day whether it’s Cleaning/cooking/watching TV. Although it may seem so hard, with time the thought will pass, and if you keep doing that after a while the thought will bother you less and less. The thoughts I had that scared me months ago, still bother me somewhat, but not nearly as much as they did. The only thing I can’t get passed currently is the past memories that OCD has attached itself too. But I’m working on it. We’re all going to make it eventually, just keep on living and fighting.
It's so easy to say, you should just go about your day and not act on your thoughts or ruminate about them. I'm finding this really hard. I have to agree though, the longer you stay with the thought without doing a compulsion the less scary it gets...
Thank you for replying. Sometimes when the thoughts are really bed I just want to lay in bed and play on my phone hoping they’ll stop but I try to stay strong and have courage. I find it hard to keep going with my day sometimes I just feel so powerless against them. I believe you and me and all of us can get through this. Keep working on it, OCD is smart and tries to attack all aspects of our lives. But we’re still in control
I like the way you guys think I try to do this but its hard but keep positive no matter what
I know it can be really hard. I’ve always been the super positive person whenever someone was going through something I’d give super uplifting advice but for some reason it’s harder to take my own advice. I just feel I can’t trust myself or anyone else
It's difficult but just remember everyone we will get through this it may not feel like it but we will
It does sound so much easier than it actually is. Like recovery and ERP are such simple concepts, you just expose yourself until the anxiety goes down, but it’s just so hard sometimes because the fear feels so real. But yes, we just have to keep fighting and we will definitely get through this!
Does anybody struggle with POCD? I’m putting things into place lately to let my thoughts be there and not having to listen to them and I do admit I feel a little better and the thoughts are less and anxiety it less when I’m around people but there’s an urge in the back of my mind to ‘make sure’ and to think and analyse about things just to ‘check’ I definitely know for certain that this isn’t true, this is making recovery quite hard! Any tips please? Also I find sometimes reading things on google can be unhelpful and disheartening, which I need to stop doing! Thanks for reading ?
I need some advice on this, I was diagnosed with OCD a few years ago and I managed to be free for a few years by don’t giving attention to the thoughts and by giving my full attention to the outside life and not was going on inside my head. After stressful event OCD is back and again I feel that is something else. I am currently for the first time on CBT therapy but I am still on the early stages. My therapist told me that changing my attention to something else when the OCD is at its full blown is good technique but eventually I will need to face the thoughts and try to challenge them. The problem is that the moment I turn inside it’s like I have a train of thoughts that self doubt everything. When I am on this state I cannot challenge anything on the opposite I doubt that I have OCD and I try to understand if my symptoms suggest that I have something else and the fear and anxiety gets worse. I fear that I have something else and that I am a bad person. My big problem is when I am working. I work in an office and I need to sit in front of pc for 7-8 hours. The moment I start working these thoughts kick in and I feel that I cannot find any escape. I cannot do something else to turn my attention somewhere else and find my self doubting and searching was going on with me. And slowly slowly I get so scared that I come to face where I pass something like an anxiety attack. Is there any technique that it can help me to avoid what is happening to me, do no reach the levels of anxiety attack. I try to hear loud music, to concentrate on the pc but it didn’t work. I feel like I am trap somewhere that I need to sit still and just suffer with the thoughts until I reach the level of the full blown anxiety attack. Thank you for listening, any advice is well appreciated.
I have SO-OCD and I’ve been doing really well and making progress but I’m tired of the repetitive thoughts some are truthful and some aren’t I have more that aren’t or a truth that is being twisted around. Anybody have any good ways to stop the repetitive thoughts?
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