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- Anonymous
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I’m sorry, he sounds like he’s really deep into his obsession. I had a similar concern/fear that I have ocd and I am going to realize I am obsession (which also made me suicidal) . Erp therapy through this app helped a ton. Remember ocd causes a lot of doubt for the person and it’s no surprise that it may have latched onto something like this. Ocd can have somebody completely convinced about their obsessions sometimes, and with the child obsessions it can be very traumatic. He may have also been spending a lot of time on the app preforming compulsions like reassurance seeking, rumination, reasearching his obsessions..etc. which probably made his ocd worse. Sending my thoughts, and wishing the best for your family
I’m so sorry you all are going through this. I highly recommend you reach out to his current therapist for this information. They would be able to help you the most.
If email would be better suited I can provide me email as I am lamen when it comes to phone applications/software. Kind regards. Stephen
You have to start nocd app treatment and also research about ocd and don't give reassurance to child tell them that there are so many like him struggling with this ocd
Dear respondents, Thank you so much. I am just a father trying to help my son get back to how he was before. So a few questions for my wife and I as we are trying to learn and educate ourselves. Does OCD mean this is not true or can it be true? If it can be true with sexual obsesseions why are therapists not implying for clients to go out and experiment with the same sex? If this is doubt about sexuality wouldn’t going out and experiencing the same sex be a better indicator for people struggling with HOCD. Please forgive an terminology i have used I am not an OCD sufferer and trying to help my son If this is accessed and viewed by professionals or would be nice to speak to enable us to help me son Kind regards
They have free support groups and evening q&as on this app where a professional could help answer your questions and concerns
Thank you. How would i reach out to the support groups. Isabella what is the OCD condition about? Can someone realise this is true. My son’s therapist have indicated this doesn’t happen or hasn’t happened but my son has read this can be true. My wife and I am are so confused in ourselves what is true and what is not. Could you kindly educate briefly. Kind regards
To sign up you can click the link I sent. It’s a support group for parents whose kids have ocd. And to answer your question no I don’t believe someone with ocd can realize their obsession is true. I’ve seen people claim that they have but I doubt that those people even had ocd to begin with or they may have been so deep into their obsession that they accepted it as truth. There is no research or evidence for ocd obsessions coming true. I would listen to your sons therapist, there is a lot of misinformation online.
+ ocd obsessions are egodystonic and go against a persons values, beliefs and identity.
I downloaded the app as my son (age 35) is suffering from ocd - not working and not willing to take medication or therapy. After two years of begging him to do something for himself we are at the point of banning him from our house, but then he is on the street (which we would like to avoid). Illinois has poor mental health care solutions and the Health Dept folks say “have the police remove him”. Not exactly helpful. Certainly we are not the only ones in this situation. My son is highly intelligent but can not overcome this disability. Any suggestions are welcome
Hey, everybody. My name is Evan, and as you can imagine, I'm here because I'm honestly struggling. I've never received diagnosis, but for most of my life, I've dealt with exactly: a new issue relevant to new periods in my life, be it sexual orientation (currently identity as bisexual), mental disorders, and most recently, pedophilia. Two weeks ago, I've had a great, irreplaceable relationship with all my nephews (four, all under five-years-old), always happy to see them, play, connect with them. Since last week, I've had episodes where I'm checking myself, testing and evaluating myself for signs of pedophilia, but of course, as discussed on the website, groinal activity occurs in response to sexual OCD regardless of true values or sexual preference. Despite knowing this, it always feels as though I'm afraid I'm as actual a pedophile in denial because each time my obsessions kick in, it feels more intense. I'm scared, and frankly so full of sorrow since I'm purposefully isolating myself from my kids, and even though I've always loved kids and taking care of them, I don't know if I can ever be around them again. What can I do?
I don’t have OCD but I think my son has it. Yesterday he totally snapped because I assumed a bag of chocolates could be shared by the entire family. This triggered so many reactions on him that evolved into him throwing the bag of candy to me….. I got upset and told him that his OCD didn’t give him the right to be disrespectful specially to a caring and understanding parent. Now he says he hates the whole family and that he won’t talk to us in 2 years. I don’t pressure him. He finished a GED but he hasn’t done anything in about a year and a half. I understand life is difficult for him and I give him time. It’s so difficult for me to understand why such small issues take priority over other life changing issues such as being productive, finding a job, friends, etc. He told me so many bad things yesterday . He also changed his name and has had different obsessions throughout the years like spitting, calories intake obsessions, exercise obsessions. Etc. Can somebody help me as to what to do? Should I ignore and wait for this to pass or try to communicate and possibly make it worse ? This situations also affect his brother and the entire family, I have tried everything but nothing seems to work. If I recommend this website to him I’m afraid it will unlock more obsessions that he currently doesn’t have…… I’m lost and my hope is almost gone Not even sure if his condition is OCD or something else ….. he won’t go to a doctor face to face (just via video call) nor take therapy and during the calls he completely disengages with the doctor…… I need yo do the talking.
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