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- Anonymous
- Date posted
- 3y ago
I’m sorry, he sounds like he’s really deep into his obsession. I had a similar concern/fear that I have ocd and I am going to realize I am obsession (which also made me suicidal) . Erp therapy through this app helped a ton. Remember ocd causes a lot of doubt for the person and it’s no surprise that it may have latched onto something like this. Ocd can have somebody completely convinced about their obsessions sometimes, and with the child obsessions it can be very traumatic. He may have also been spending a lot of time on the app preforming compulsions like reassurance seeking, rumination, reasearching his obsessions..etc. which probably made his ocd worse. Sending my thoughts, and wishing the best for your family
I’m so sorry you all are going through this. I highly recommend you reach out to his current therapist for this information. They would be able to help you the most.
If email would be better suited I can provide me email as I am lamen when it comes to phone applications/software. Kind regards. Stephen
You have to start nocd app treatment and also research about ocd and don't give reassurance to child tell them that there are so many like him struggling with this ocd
Dear respondents, Thank you so much. I am just a father trying to help my son get back to how he was before. So a few questions for my wife and I as we are trying to learn and educate ourselves. Does OCD mean this is not true or can it be true? If it can be true with sexual obsesseions why are therapists not implying for clients to go out and experiment with the same sex? If this is doubt about sexuality wouldn’t going out and experiencing the same sex be a better indicator for people struggling with HOCD. Please forgive an terminology i have used I am not an OCD sufferer and trying to help my son If this is accessed and viewed by professionals or would be nice to speak to enable us to help me son Kind regards
They have free support groups and evening q&as on this app where a professional could help answer your questions and concerns
Thank you. How would i reach out to the support groups. Isabella what is the OCD condition about? Can someone realise this is true. My son’s therapist have indicated this doesn’t happen or hasn’t happened but my son has read this can be true. My wife and I am are so confused in ourselves what is true and what is not. Could you kindly educate briefly. Kind regards
To sign up you can click the link I sent. It’s a support group for parents whose kids have ocd. And to answer your question no I don’t believe someone with ocd can realize their obsession is true. I’ve seen people claim that they have but I doubt that those people even had ocd to begin with or they may have been so deep into their obsession that they accepted it as truth. There is no research or evidence for ocd obsessions coming true. I would listen to your sons therapist, there is a lot of misinformation online.
+ ocd obsessions are egodystonic and go against a persons values, beliefs and identity.
I downloaded the app as my son (age 35) is suffering from ocd - not working and not willing to take medication or therapy. After two years of begging him to do something for himself we are at the point of banning him from our house, but then he is on the street (which we would like to avoid). Illinois has poor mental health care solutions and the Health Dept folks say “have the police remove him”. Not exactly helpful. Certainly we are not the only ones in this situation. My son is highly intelligent but can not overcome this disability. Any suggestions are welcome
Hey, everybody. My name is Evan, and as you can imagine, I'm here because I'm honestly struggling. I've never received diagnosis, but for most of my life, I've dealt with exactly: a new issue relevant to new periods in my life, be it sexual orientation (currently identity as bisexual), mental disorders, and most recently, pedophilia. Two weeks ago, I've had a great, irreplaceable relationship with all my nephews (four, all under five-years-old), always happy to see them, play, connect with them. Since last week, I've had episodes where I'm checking myself, testing and evaluating myself for signs of pedophilia, but of course, as discussed on the website, groinal activity occurs in response to sexual OCD regardless of true values or sexual preference. Despite knowing this, it always feels as though I'm afraid I'm as actual a pedophile in denial because each time my obsessions kick in, it feels more intense. I'm scared, and frankly so full of sorrow since I'm purposefully isolating myself from my kids, and even though I've always loved kids and taking care of them, I don't know if I can ever be around them again. What can I do?
I don’t know what to do! My 13 year old son has suffered with intrusive thoughts for years. He feels guilty of things he’s done in the past when he was super young and obsesses over it to the point that he has to come clean about everything!! He fears that he may be a phedophyle at times because of intrusive thoughts. He’s on Zoloft 75 for it, it was getting better for a bit but it’s getting aggressive again! He is so kind and such a good son and person. He is in counseling but his counselor doesn’t specialize in OCD. I don’t know if I should have them change his medication, idk if there’s a medication that will help him more. I’m so scared I suffered with intrusive thoughts as a kid and teen, I never got help but I’m good now.
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