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- 3y
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- 3y
100% ocd. I've had that before where I got stressed about not having anxiety. Not having anxiety is just a sign that you're getting better. Keep going strong. Realtionships are scarey, but ocd is scarier if you allow it.
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- 3y
I finally u Understand that this is really OCD and that I truly do love my husband. Don’t let this destroy your relationship with your your guy because OCD wants to strike at anything that you love. And obviously you love him so I guess I would suggest just letting those feelings go by don’t or thoughts go by and don t get on the train! Stay on the platform. Just watch the train go…….. ocd steals from you. It s a miracle my husband never divorced me eve tho I kept saying g divorce, divorce…… ocd. May God bless you dear friend.❤️❤️❤️
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- 3y
I’m in the same position girl! I have a boyfriend in the air force and I see him in October. It’ll be over a year since I last saw him. I never doubted my love and attraction to him until I started having sexual orientation OCD since June. There’s a lot of things that I’m worried about and think about but I kinda just came to the conclusion that I won’t truly know how I feel until he comes. Even then people since have ROCD. It’s hard and confusing but we got this :)
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- 3y
It is ocd. I have had this for 30 years and
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- 23w
I’ve had so many moments of clarity with my OCD that I love my boyfriend and I’m beyond willing to go through this to be better and be with him. in the back of mind I’ve in a way known I was at least somewhat sexually attracted to women (I’m a woman) since the start of the ocd it was always like “okay. Fine, but I don’t want to date a girl” I only just realized this after the ocd started, I never really argued with this. my ocd has always revolved around if I’m romantically interested in women and not men. I’ve done so many compulsions through this year and a half and 9 times out of 10 have come to the conclusion that I don’t want to be with a woman romantically. I always end up feeling like I know I love my boyfriend. But the doubts don’t stop about whether I want to spend my life with a woman instead, my heart literally breaks to think of not being with my bf and imagining him with someone else. I don’t want to be with a woman I know deep down somewhere underneath the anxiety that that’s not what I want. It doesn’t feel natural for me, unfulfilling. I want to tell my boyfriend about the possible sexual attraction to women (ik it’s still ocd related) but I’m scared that once I tell him, I’ll realize that I actually do want to be with women and not with him. Ugh I’ve spent hours today ruminating about this after being solid in my commitment with him for a little while, I’m stuck in this loop and idk how to get out right now
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- 21w
I struggle with rocd, and a big intrusive thought that I have is that I’m no longer in love with my partner. I am going through a depression right now, and I am struggling to feel any kind of passion towards anything at the moment. I am withdrawing from the people I love because I just feel like I want to be alone. When I’m with people I just feel exhausted by it. I guess my question is, has anyone ever felt like this from depression? Does it take feelings of love and attraction away? I can’t tell if this is my ocd or depression or a combination of both. But it’s starting to impact my relationship which makes me panic because losing it is my worst fear.
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My psychologist tells me because my thoughts are based off of facts/ broken boundaries which is why I am having thoughts of am i in love , am I settling , and feeling guilty I should let him go to find someone who wouldn’t doubt him that I do not have rocd. She states rocd is intrusive , irrational thoughts not based off of real facts and I may have ptsd not ocd. He kissed someone else before we were official and he finds a certain type of female attractive that I find disgusting . So I spin about these issues all day long to the point I’m so unhappy with him and had to break up . It’s been over a month now but I’m still severely anxious and depressed The thing is I can’t stop thinking about this 24/7 with severe anxiety and depression and nothing is helping me . Can someone please tell me their thoughts
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