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- 3y ago
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- 3y ago
I personally haven’t talked to any therapists on the app yet but here’s what I learnt. It’s temporary. Everytime you get the thoughts, you feel like there’s no hope and you can’t possibly imagine how you’ll get out of this, but remind yourself that you’ve thought that before and you got through it. Time is the only cure in these moments. Don’t try to fight it. Just take a second to recollect yourself and drink some water it helps. That’s the only tip that’s really been getting me through this. Also remember that your thoughts aren’t your secret desires, it’s literally you biggest fear. So for example if you are super protective over your loved ones, you might get intrusive thoughts that you might hurt them which is completely false because they are so precious to you. YOUR THOUGHTS ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND OR THE SECRET PART OF YOU IT IS THE OPPOSITE OF YOU. Remember that. Also, if some days you feel ok while the thoughts are here, you might think that you’re getting too comfortable with them and that you actually like them but again that’s not true. It’s like having a monster under your bed but after a while you get used to their presence but it doesn’t mean you enjoy it.
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Thank you very much for your kinda words I definitely am a believer that time heals many wounds.
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- NOCD Alumni
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Hello, I had severe OCD and PTSD that flared in Nov 2019. I did ERP with a therapist Jan 2021 and OCT 2021 to Feb 2022. I am now doing ERP on my own. I went from being stuck in fear on my bed and literally feeling fear pushing back on my body physically when walking or trying to go places, had OCD 24/7 and several panic attacks daily to where I am now. Being able to say F you OCD and move on, rarely getting triggered, working again- part time for now and rare panic attacks.... Do the work!!!! IT IS WORTH IT! Oh and spending much of the day happy with a smile on my face and not obsessed. lol Good luck to you on your journey. Continue on even when it's hard and even when you are unsure what the future holds. ALWAYS hold onto hope!
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
Hello! I was very deep into OCD. I couldn’t eat or sleep for a month and it was truly awful. I felt like I was an exception and I would never recover from OCD. I felt like I was weak and I couldn’t do exposures. The fact is it was just OCD telling me this. I started doing ERP, a little step at a time. I kept building on my progress, little by little. These little steps started to build on top of each other and soon I was seeing progress. Doing ERP is tough and it’s not a linear path. Sometimes you fail, sometimes you fall off the path. You just got to pick yourself up and keep going. You can do this!
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- 3y ago
I’m working with a therapist 3/week i deal with contamination ocd and anxiety. I feel like it is helping it took about 3- 4 weeks to see change I’m on week 7 still struggling with some stuff but better with some erp is a process and the more you do it the faster it goes I definitely could and should do more. I think working with a therapist is super helpful it will give you tools to use and set up a plan and gives you someone to talk to who will give you advice that will actually help🤍
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- 3y ago
I am starting treatment Tuesday. Was there any note taking needed for treatment in order to learn how to perform the response prevention? I do not know how to stop mental compulsions and I know that is the important part for success
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y ago
There are lots of stories that people can tell you, but each person’s recovery is different. There are a lot of factors involved, and so I would not judge your recovery against another person’s recovery. For example, I have found the most important piece to recovery is my commitment to erp. ERP is hard work, it can feel counterproductive, I am feel worse before I get better, but the truth is my commitment to my recovery is the key to my success. For you it may be something different that motivates your recovery, and that is okay. And honestly, to answer your question that there is success and all you have to is this or that is reassurance and not something we want to do. Compulsions make ocd stronger. I hope this helps.
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- 25w ago
I really just need to vent. I recently had a relapse and while some days it seems like I’m feeling better, others are so difficult. Today, I’m breaking down at work in the bathroom and I feel so awful about that. Aside from the really scary thoughts I’m having about my health and my family members, I’m starting to feel really hopeless about the future. Like I’m never going to get better and that I’m going to get stuck in this ocd cycle forever. I know that’s not true because I’ve been able to make progress before, but the desperation and frustration that comes with a relapse make it so hard to remember that. I started medication and it’s only been about 3 days but I’m really scared that it’s not going to work or that I’m going to have to go through a lot of trial and error. I just really need to hear from people who have worked through their health ocd. I need hope.
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- 21w ago
Hey guys, I hope you’re well! My names Matt, and OCD has struck me again 😂 When I was 10 years old I had to attend therapy as I was having excessive intrusive thoughts. P.s. I didn’t even know this was possible at the age of 10! I then completely forgot about it, until 2.5 years ago when I started experiencing ROCD. I really couldn’t understand why I was feeling/thinking this way however, I soon after remembered my struggles as a child and then realised my OCD had returned. Also, my mum has serious OCD so I guess that could be why too. I had a a really hard battle with my emotions and mood due to this however, the last 1.5 years had been really good and I managed it well. I got married and had the best day of my life. 3 months ago, a thought about having an affair in my head appeared, and BOOM, it’s back again. I’m struggling a lot right now however, I’ve accepted that this could be a re occurring theme throughout my life, and it’s time to learn to deal with it again. I’m back on medication and have started ERP therapy, so hopefully it’s on the up from here. I’m not here to list off my triggers and thoughts as this would be me seeking reassurance however, I’m here to show that recovery is certainly possible!
- Date posted
- 15w ago
Hi everyone, I’m reaching out here because I know this community understands the daily battles of living with OCD. Recently, I hit a really dark place and tried to take my own life. It’s been hard to admit, but I’m still here, and I’m trying to find a way forward. OCD feels relentless sometimes—the intrusive thoughts, the constant doubt, the cycles that never seem to end. It became so overwhelming that I didn’t see a way out. I know I need help, and I’m working on reaching out to professionals, but I also wanted to connect here. To those who’ve been in a similar place: What helped you keep going? How do you manage the darkest moments when OCD takes over? I feel like I’m holding on by a thread, but I’m holding on. Any advice, words of encouragement, or personal experiences would mean so much to me right now. Thank you for reading this, and for being part of a space where we can be honest about our struggles.
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