- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y
Hard Mornings
Is there anything that you all do that’s not a compulsion or ritual that helps with your OCD and anxiety in the mornings?
Is there anything that you all do that’s not a compulsion or ritual that helps with your OCD and anxiety in the mornings?
Boy do I understand how hard mornings can be. My mind starts “thinking” as soon as I open my eyes🤪. I have learned to get up immediately, grab a coffee, I like to have some quiet time with my coffee and set my intentions for the day which always starts with 1. No compulsions, 2. Meditate/prayer 3. What I need/have to do: work, etc, exercise, then I get moving, get ready, start my day. My mind wants to have me “figure things out” but I just keep moving forward into my day, what I have to do. So I guess the short answer is I get up and get moving (laying in bed never works out for me as my mind wants me to ruminate.
Mornings can always be tough, especially with forming rituals. Something I make a point of doing now is not letting myself get into too many patterns in the morning, as that's where most of my rituals were. It was hard to initially break, but once I was able to stop some rituals/compulsions, I would make a point to try and disrupt them any chance I got. For example, I had OCD about the order of putting my clothes on (shirt, pants, socks,) and filling my pockets a certain way. Now, I try to do them as out of order as possible to not let my OCD get a foothold and to tell myself it has no effect on my day. I'll leave my radio on different levels everyday, and even the same level a couple days in a row just to really not let any patterns form. It's all about what works for you, and knowing you have control over yourself and actions
I give myself a mental pat on the back for each step taken no matter how small. For example: getting out of bed, brushing my teeth, making a cup of coffee, etc. I do this as a choice rather than laying in bed thinking about ocd/anxiety. Hope this helps you!!!
@Dee C I actually does help. That’s a great mindset. I will try it.
Gratitude and mindfulness because mornings are so hard.
Does anyone have any experience with this? I wake up early with severe, severe anxiety and nothing seems to help. I try embracing the anxiety, breathing, and exercising. But these things only seem to help a little. Fortunately, I do think the length of the attacks are getting shorter (mainly because I'm still trying my best to live normally in spite of them), but they are still lasting a good 5-6 hours. They are quite debilitating. Does anyone have any advice for dealing with these? I've read much about potential solutions (being okay with the anxiety), but I was looking for some personal antecdotes. Thank you
Each night I go to bed determined to stop compulsions and start beating this disorder. Then I wake up and it smacks me in the face first thing and I’m doing a compulsion before I know it. I told my therapist that I would try to handle it like we do in session, but I’ve already failed. It seems like I can’t bring ERP into my “real” life.
Hi! I’m new to the NOCD community, but I’ve been dealing with OCD since I was 12. I’m almost 29 now, and my biggest issue is health anxiety. It’s gotten to the point where getting work done is nearly impossible because i can’t stop spiraling. I’m lucky that i work remotely, but also makes it easier to be in my own head… Asking for advice - how do you all deal with the intense anxiety and are able to make it through a 9-5 work day? Any suggestions on how I can actually be productive? Thank you!
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