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Groinal response
Does anyone have groinal response which gives them this urge to relive tension? But you don’t because of the original thought being inappropriate.
Does anyone have groinal response which gives them this urge to relive tension? But you don’t because of the original thought being inappropriate.
This is very normal! Especially the urge to then do something to get rid of it. Lots of people talk about this. There’s so many YouTube videos. Chrissie Hodges is best for informing and educating but not reassuring :)
Groinal responses generates from fear and anxiety If you fear it or get anxious it will actually come
Ugh this happens to me too. I don’t hate it any less, but fortunately this is normal. The groinal response is an automatic bodily response that we can’t control. I promise they don't mean you like your intrusive thoughts. Sensations are feelings and thoughts/ feelings are not fact. You got this!
A therapist of mine told me to accept those intrusive thoughts popped up and focus on the feeling of the stimulation
@Yourmindislyingtoyou Thank you
Yeah what if you get the urge to relieve yourself using porn but then you get scared that a family member might pop into your head and you do something to them , to try to get over it I tried to tell myself I’m not sexual aroused so it’s not true and kept watching porn to make sure but then I got an image that I don’t want my question is since you can’t keep fearing things should I keep watching porn even though I picture my family member to try to not make it a big deal or make sure I don’t like them
I don’t like these thoughts but my mind keeps trying to make me like them by doing trick questions like why are you not aroused if you have these thoughts and that scared me, so I tried to get aroused to prove it wrong but ended up feeling unwanted groinal responses and now they won’t stop I’m scared and feel like shit idk what to do should I keep doing it so I don’t feel it anymore or should I treat it like a urge and try to ignore this feeling
I don’t really wanna go into detail about what it’s about cause I feel like it’s super embarrassing, but there’s this one specific type of intrusive thought I get that I struggle extremely with ignoring/sitting in discomfort with. Does anyone have tips for managing something like this?
Can testing for groinal responses cause them to happen? For example i will think of an intrusive thought in the past or create a fake scenario in my head and i will start to feel something down there every time. It’s it a learned response for the trama of this thoughts? Or i’m an actually a P. Dose anyone else experience this with POCD or should i look into get more help?
i've never been comfortable enough to post anything on here but today i thought i would try. i want to start off by saying i am not diagnosed with ocd but i have strong reason to believe i may have ocd. i want therapy but don't know how to tell my parents because this topic is one that makes me highly uncomfortable to the point where i can not breath. but here goes... starting in july of this year i began noticing symptoms of ocd. i was scrolling on instagram when a photo of a baby popped up in my feed. i was reading the caption when all of a sudden i became aware of my groinal area and i felt movement. i felt immediately sick to my stomach... wtf was happening to me? i then closed the app and sat there for a second thinking to myself "did i just get aroused by looking at the photo of a child?". i tested myself(one of the worst things to do, giving my ocd power) and reopened the app to look at the photo once more. i was obviously going to feel movement down below if i was hyper fixating on that area for ANY movement at all. and i did. i then started having cold and hot flashes, sweating, the room spinning, feeling as if i was going to throw up and pass out at the same time. was i a p3do??? did i like children?? of course the answer is no. but my ocd is twisting those thoughts and feelings into something more than they are, just thoughts and feelings. for the past few months after my first episode with ocd i have become more accepting of the fact that these feelings aren't meaningful. these do not align with what i truly believe which is why i feel so sick when they happen. but i will admit there are days when it is really tough for me to discern my thoughts from my intrusive ocd thoughts. i am constantly hyper aware of whatever is happening down there and its really frustrating and exhausting. it has now moved beyond pocd, every interaction everything i see i subconsciously am testing myself to see if i am aroused which leaves me to constantly feel a state of physical arousal. i know i should go to therapy but i am worried to tell my parents. like "hey mom and dad i have been having weird thoughts and feelings regarding children i think i need therapy" they would be horrified. i feel guilty and awful, my parents don't deserve that. i just don't know what to do. for a few years i had actually been wanting children of my own when im older, i had been thrifting the cutest baby outfits and thinking of how cool it would be to have a mini-me. now i feel as though that won't be possible. and i just don't know what to do.
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