- Date posted
- 5y ago
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Dear Sheila, This theme is extremely common - it is called scrupulousity and it is related to perfectionism. Even though I am not religious I have it and it is one of the most debilitating forms of OCD from what I have seen. Self-forgiveness is not the solution here for people like us, believe me, I have tried and it just increases the obsession. You need to find an OCD specialist and do some strong ERP and treatment to tackle your perfectionism. It is commendable that you strive to be a good person; however, you are a human and are subject to learn through trial and error and a huge percentage of kids are curious about sex and some sexual exploration is completely normal.
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I'm not sure what you mean about the sexual curiosity as a child part but I am a Christian with OCD and what is sometimes called "scrupulousity" is a major theme of mine. The guilt is debilitating. I know that the Gospel actually is meant to free us from guilt because we have been given right standing with God apart from our own merits because of Christ, but my OCD doesn't care what I know. I haven't found a good way to fight this yet but I'm keeping my head above water fortunately.
- Date posted
- 5y ago
It’s so hard to have ocd as Christian. Always keep in mind that ocd attacks what you care about most. Which means jesus is very important to you. He came here to forgive all and to give us all hope. We are all sinners. But he saved us, he saved you and has plan for you and it’s for good not bad so keep praying and keep pushing forward he will reveal his plans for you. Be strong. God bless.
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Yep. I totally get this. Like, with HOCD, I was always worried about if I would go to hell. Or if, like right now, what if I do something that’s wrong and God gets mad? I totally feel you. In fact, I think a lot of my OCD themes come from my faith.
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Yeahh I'm a Christian and get this too
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- Date posted
- 25w ago
18+! When I was child I was VERY hyper-sexual I’m not sure when it started. All I remember I was being very sexual with other kids at the time, I think I thought it was normal and nobody was stopping me either at the time so I had no idea I was in the wrong. I think I had to be 13 or 14 where it hit me out of nowhere that I was wrong. The floodgate of anxiety was horrible I had so much guilt it was eating me up. I had to stay home, I quit going to family gatherings, quit hanging out with new friends I’ve made, I cried a lot. Til this day I think about it everyday and the amount of guilt on my chest. If I could go back and change it all I would. I wish I could have a better understanding of me and why I was doing it. It’s the guilt and anxiety I deal with every single day. I never meant to hurt anyone.
- Date posted
- 8w ago
I been going to church looking for answers about my false memories if they are even false and overall ocd. Everything that I'm learning about ocd ultimately I get told that it's due to sin and that's why I feel overwhelmed and have the urge to confess on things idk if they are real or not. I just dont know whats my truth my mind Is saying one thing but I need a lot of confirmation if what im thinking its true thats why i been seeking confirmation going to church. Would appreciate a response or if anyone is going through this 🙏
- Date posted
- 28d ago
Hi everyone. I'm wondering if anyone has any tips for dealing with religious OCD. I'm a Christian and I struggle with Harm OCD but then somehow, my religious beliefs got mixed into this where I am suddenly asking all these questions on whether God/Jesus is even good. And as a result, I feel so distant from my faith which makes dealing with my harm OCD so much harder 😢 Any advice would be appreciated.
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