- Username
- JohnKit
- Date posted
- 43w ago
Hocd
I feel like hocd happened to woman not man because every time I’m on this app it always girl talking about hocd and not guy
I feel like hocd happened to woman not man because every time I’m on this app it always girl talking about hocd and not guy
Another guy here with hocd
Same man, it fucking sucks. It’s so hard for me to watch tv, or listen to music without making a gay connection. From the moment I wake up to the moment o go to bed it’s all that’s on my mind. It sucks. I look in the mirror sometimes and say “I’m bi” or “I’m gay” just to see how it feels and I always hate it. But the fact that it disturbs us is enough to show that we don’t like it. Like have you ever looked at a girl and thought “why do you like her? So you’re straight? Look at you straight boy” no because when we think a girl is hot we think she’s hot then move on. People who are actually into men aren’t scared of the fact that they could be gay, there more scared on what people will think of them. I’ve had that same feeling with certain women in the past. But never when I think of men. That’s how I know my difference. You just have to find that line
@Anonymous Fr man like I can’t do anything without having it connected to gay shi it piss me off I can’t even do anything ngl I use to do that to tell my self that I’m bi or gay just to see how I feel but it just come and go you know I hate it
Lmfao nah man Hocd doesn’t pick favourites. I just put up a post about my story with Hocd and I’m a guy so go check that out lol
@Anonymous Bro it so hard sometime I don’t remember if I’m straight or na so I just say I’m bi even tho I don’t want to be with a guy and I only want to be with a woman
Hey there! I totally get how you might feel alone in this, especially when it seems like you're not seeing others in the same boat. But trust me, OCD doesn't pick and choose based on gender; it can affect anyone, including guys dealing with HOCD. 😊 I'm no OCD expert, especially with this theme, so I'm gonna share some resources that have helped me, if that's cool with you. The OCD Reddit has been a spot where I've found a lot of support and stories from people across the board. It might help you feel a bit less alone. Also, I recently started using this app called "unstuck OCD therapy tools." My NOCD therapist recommended it to me. It's pretty neat because it gives you AI-personalized guidance and exercises right when you need them. Might be worth checking out!
that’s how i’ve been feeling too but i would say as men, we feel more inclined to keep it to ourselves even though there’s nothing wrong with sharing. it’s all OCD and its lies
@My OCD Academia Thank I’m not alone you know
About some Psychologists that don't think hocd Is a real thing and it's internalized homophobia and that Psychologists Who says it's hocd they're just trying to use conversion therapy. I'm panicking right now.
I dont know is this is sign of me being a lesbian or what but I feel like i can’t talk with my girl friends about guys. When i was young i used to, it was fun, talking about those things and talking about sex when we were pre-teens. But now I’m 20 and i feel like that im just not that boy crazy as other girls and i feel like im just left out of the conversation. When im alone and i do feel normal and my ocd is not spiraling i notice guys and i do have fantasies. I just feel a bit broken when i talk about guys with my girl friends. But i dont think im a lesbian. Sometimes i just know I’m not. But i’ve read many stories like “I realized I was a lesbian when all my girl friends were talking about guys and i couldnt relate”. 😔😔 Maybe this is all because of HOCD because i have it since 14.
It feels like my boyfriend is ‘another compulsion” because he makes me happy and that is what ocd does, but when he is gone, my mind can go everywhere. Mostly thinking im not attracted to men (im bi and for some reason i feel like i have to choose 1 gender, and that that would be women) even though i know that i dont have to choose and can just be happy with my bf. But then my mind can go “but are you happy” or “youre not aroused right now or aroused enough so your gay or you dont like bf” Thats really hard, because my one of my biggest fears is being with a man all my life (having a family etc) and then falling in love with a woman and throw it all away. I really really love my boyfriend, but it can feel like this is not my real identity and im doing the wrong thing. Like when im not thinking about it, if thats maybe my ocd and not the overthinking. Does anyone understand?
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