JohnKit
- Date posted
- 1y
Hocd
I feel like hocd happened to woman not man because every time I’m on this app it always girl talking about hocd and not guy
Quieter2024Quieter2024
- Date posted
- 1y
Another guy here with hocd
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 1y
Same man, it fucking sucks. It’s so hard for me to watch tv, or listen to music without making a gay connection. From the moment I wake up to the moment o go to bed it’s all that’s on my mind. It sucks. I look in the mirror sometimes and say “I’m bi” or “I’m gay” just to see how it feels and I always hate it. But the fact that it disturbs us is enough to show that we don’t like it. Like have you ever looked at a girl and thought “why do you like her? So you’re straight? Look at you straight boy” no because when we think a girl is hot we think she’s hot then move on. People who are actually into men aren’t scared of the fact that they could be gay, there more scared on what people will think of them. I’ve had that same feeling with certain women in the past. But never when I think of men. That’s how I know my difference. You just have to find that line
JohnKitJohnKit
- Date posted
- 1y
@Anonymous Fr man like I can’t do anything without having it connected to gay shi it piss me off I can’t even do anything ngl I use to do that to tell my self that I’m bi or gay just to see how I feel but it just come and go you know I hate it
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 1y
Lmfao nah man Hocd doesn’t pick favourites. I just put up a post about my story with Hocd and I’m a guy so go check that out lol
JohnKitJohnKit
- Date posted
- 1y
@Anonymous Bro it so hard sometime I don’t remember if I’m straight or na so I just say I’m bi even tho I don’t want to be with a guy and I only want to be with a woman
Pain PackerPain Packer
- Date posted
- 1y
that’s how i’ve been feeling too but i would say as men, we feel more inclined to keep it to ourselves even though there’s nothing wrong with sharing. it’s all OCD and its lies
JohnKitJohnKit
- Date posted
- 1y
@My OCD Academia Thank I’m not alone you know
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truetrev
- Date posted
- 23w
Heterosexual OCD
I wanted to voice that homosexuals can get HOCD too. I remember when i was younger and knew i was gay i still got HOCD one time when watching The Office. I thought Pam was so pretty and then started doubting my whole identity because what if i am straight? Oh god, what a terror if i was heterosexual. But anyway, thought that maybe this would help heteros with HOCD by knowing that this is a universal symptom across OCD sufferers of all sexual orientations. A big problem is calling this subtype “Homosexual OCD,” because its not. It has nothing to do with being homo or hetero or bi or anything. Its just OCD being a bully. I think labelling subtypes is an issue altogether, as it can unconsciously make people feel like its not just OCD. But it is. Does this make any sense? What are yall’s thoughts on this? Or is this just my OCD talking? (Im not seeking reassurance just genuinely find this interesting) TLDR; each time we “qualify” OCD with a subtype, we reinforce that the subtype is part of the issue. In reality, OCD is just a broken loop in our brains, and thoughts are just thoughts. And Pam Beesly is a hottie.
Anonymous
- Date posted
- 19w
HOCD or not?
Has anyone experienced where you love woman everything about them, even to the point where you still can get erections watching normal porn, lesbian porn etc. but you find your self still admiring a good looking man. I’ve went through the groinal responses when seeing a man but honestly after watching porn and realizing it’s not about sex it went away. On the other hand even when there’s a male and a female in a picture I can’t stop looking at the male and judging, but the minute they’re naked I’m fine and looking at the woman. I started watching porn at a very young age so I’m wondering do I only sexualize woman and admire the man so in everyday life I don’t see her as beautiful because she’s not naked ? I understand as a straight male I can still think guys are attractive but why do I constantly notice them more than women? I also can admire and see when a girl is beautiful in the face but then if a dude that’s more attractive than me pops up in staring at him. Has anyone experience this?
Ampyyy
- Date posted
- 17w
Hocd
I’ve had hocd for around 11 months now. It’s gotten to the point where I’m just convinced that I am bi. I still like boys like I always have, but I feel like I like girls too. I have no anxiety either or active thoughts. It’s just kinda there like yep I’m bi and ok with it. Anyone else? Just curious.
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