happiness._.123
- Date posted
- 1y ago
I need help!
Few seconds ago I started fearing what if I get gender dysphoria which is scaring me I don't want to be a boy I want to remain as a girl only
jnauglejnaugle
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y ago
You might be a girl you have to let the thoughts be and now that it is possible, but they are just thoughts. You got this!
jnauglejnaugle
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y ago
@jnaugle / you might be a guy
jnauglejnaugle
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Trust me the anxiety will spike while accepting the thoughts, but you will get through it. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it
Maryam995Maryam995
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Mm maybe you could point out your self the reasons why you want to be a male When you start to identify those reasons Then it will definitely help you determine whether you want to be a boy or a girl I hope you will find what will make you feel comfortable Don't force yourself to do anything just be your self and you will see and then know maybe who you are meant to be 🙂
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Maybe it's acceptable to be your gender and identify with the things you like. It may not be. Maybe your story is like mine. Let's say you think about changing genders but you don't feel pressured by yourself to do so. Possibly it's pressure from a society to act a certain way that's contradictary to your authentic self. I'm just a person, not a doctor. If any of that resonates comment below and lets chat! I be always learnin’ (:
Chickens_FrogsChickens_Frogs
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Not a doctor here but the fact you fear getting the disorder is indication this is OCD and not genuine feelings of wanting to change. The algorithms and much on social media are feeding some of these issues. It’s a place where you can find both support if you genuinely have this issue and also a place where one can become confused when otherwise they would not be. If someone’s dealing with other mental disorders then it would be easier for them to be influenced by certain things they might think would be the answer to all their problems. Take care.
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