- Username
- star1232
- Date posted
- 25w ago
Tired
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
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- Alice1837Alice1837
- Date posted
- 25w ago
I don't know what you're sexual orientation is but in the lesbian master doc, they say that basically what matters isn't whether or not you feel attracted to a certain gender. If being with a man/a woman doesn't feel right to you then you simply don't have to be. True attraction feels good, warm and safe and if the thoughts you keep getting makes you feel upset and sick then don't worry that is not attraction đ
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- lizaaalizaaa
- Date posted
- 25w ago
Thank you for that btw cuz I had some thoughts about my sex orientation too đ,but I was talking about sexual thoughts generally
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- Alice1837Alice1837
- Date posted
- 25w ago
There are many reasons to feel aroused and your brain can actually trick you into thinking that you are even though it isn't actually real. Hope that helps :â -â )
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- OcdmenaceOcdmenace
- Date posted
- 25w ago
Thank for ur comment.
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- lizaaalizaaa
- Date posted
- 25w ago
I understand you,I have this but with butterflies in your stomach,sometimes I think it has happened and idk
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- star1232star1232
- Date posted
- 25w ago
@lizaaa Yes with everything
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- AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 25w ago
This might be uncomfortable at first, but I can tell you what is helping me. When you think youâre about to have an intrusive thought, before it even occurs, purposefully have the thought. Not only that, but exaggerate it, make it even more graphic or disturbing than your original thought. Itâs kind of like youâre beating youâre intrusive thoughts at their own game. If you try not to have the thought then you probably will, but if you show your mind that not only do you not care, but youâll have the thoughts on purpose, then the anxiety canât even keep up. Thatâs what has worked for me anyway. It was recommended to us in group and my intrusive thoughts have gone down. It may not work for everyone, so if you arenât comfortable doing this or you try it and it makes you more anxious then you donât have to use it.
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- Mitu_001
- Date posted
- 23w ago
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- WaxemJord
- Date posted
- 20w ago
The Thoughts make me feel nothing now.
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- AaaAnonymous
- Date posted
- 19w ago
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