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Tired
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
I don't know what you're sexual orientation is but in the lesbian master doc, they say that basically what matters isn't whether or not you feel attracted to a certain gender. If being with a man/a woman doesn't feel right to you then you simply don't have to be. True attraction feels good, warm and safe and if the thoughts you keep getting makes you feel upset and sick then don't worry that is not attraction š
Thank you for that btw cuz I had some thoughts about my sex orientation too š,but I was talking about sexual thoughts generally
There are many reasons to feel aroused and your brain can actually trick you into thinking that you are even though it isn't actually real. Hope that helps :ā -ā )
Thank for ur comment.
I understand you,I have this but with butterflies in your stomach,sometimes I think it has happened and idk
@lizaaa Yes with everything
This might be uncomfortable at first, but I can tell you what is helping me. When you think youāre about to have an intrusive thought, before it even occurs, purposefully have the thought. Not only that, but exaggerate it, make it even more graphic or disturbing than your original thought. Itās kind of like youāre beating youāre intrusive thoughts at their own game. If you try not to have the thought then you probably will, but if you show your mind that not only do you not care, but youāll have the thoughts on purpose, then the anxiety canāt even keep up. Thatās what has worked for me anyway. It was recommended to us in group and my intrusive thoughts have gone down. It may not work for everyone, so if you arenāt comfortable doing this or you try it and it makes you more anxious then you donāt have to use it.
I just canāt do this shit anymore.im tired of these āarousalā sensations that feel real but when I go check my arousal to the same gender I just get anxiety. Iām tired of feeling like I canāt like girls anymore. Iām tired of my arousal getting blocked every now and then because Iām anxious. Iām tired of not knowing who I am anymore. Iām tired of having my mind putting me into an identity I never asked for. Iām tired of this life
hey guys, i am really really struggling and i feel like crying. evry day i get this feeling of sexual attraction to the same gender, and i get those feelings even just thinking about it now. i hste them and want them to go away but they simply wonāt and it has me thinking that this is just how my life is gonna be like. when i was fully healed or atleast thought i was healed from the false attraction and soocd, i still sometimes got that attraction feeling, and i would force my body not to feel it. i hated it and was scared of liking it so i would like stop breathing and make it stop. it was only ever occasional but this is making me concerned now too, because i still sometimes felt that feeling when i was healed. now currently my main trigger is masculine girls, but when my soocd first started i had no false attraction or attraction like this towards girls, and it was all just in my mind like saying, ādonāt look at that girl or youāre gay.ā there was one point in my soocd where i was worried about being attracted to my friends, but i am greatful in the sense of i know that that is not true and my main issue is the false attraction watching videos and i have experienced it once in real life too and i hated it. please lmk what i should do or even if you can relate. i am sick of feeling th is way, and i am a christian too so this makes it harder. iāve tried everything like accepting it, or trying to even say to myself yes u do like it but it always just leads to me being scared.
I wonāt explain this again if youāve been or going through it you know what Iām talking about. I felt good about women about an hour ago and now Iām worrying again Iām anxious and the groinals are back and itās so annoying because I canāt study. And honestly Iām so sick and tired of this. Iāve been a girl crazy my whole life and my mind randomly decides āwell what if you are gayā like bro. Iāve never seen a guy that way and in general IT WAS NEVER SOMETHING I THOUGHT ABOUT OR ASSOCIATED MYSELF WITH. IVE NEVER FELT ANYTHING TOWARDS A MAN AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE IT RANDOMLY FLIPPED. I CANT DO THIS BRO. WHY WOULD THIS HAPPEN IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH INSECURITIES ALREADY AND MY ATTRACTION WAS THE ONLY REAL THING I HAD LEFT AND NOW THIS. HOW MUCH DO YOU HATE ME GOD.
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