star1232
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- 45w
Tired
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
Alice1837Alice1837
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- 45w
I don't know what you're sexual orientation is but in the lesbian master doc, they say that basically what matters isn't whether or not you feel attracted to a certain gender. If being with a man/a woman doesn't feel right to you then you simply don't have to be. True attraction feels good, warm and safe and if the thoughts you keep getting makes you feel upset and sick then don't worry that is not attraction š
lizaaalizaaa
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- 45w
Thank you for that btw cuz I had some thoughts about my sex orientation too š,but I was talking about sexual thoughts generally
Alice1837Alice1837
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- 45w
There are many reasons to feel aroused and your brain can actually trick you into thinking that you are even though it isn't actually real. Hope that helps :ā -ā )
OcdmenaceOcdmenace
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- 45w
Thank for ur comment.
lizaaalizaaa
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- 45w
I understand you,I have this but with butterflies in your stomach,sometimes I think it has happened and idk
star1232star1232
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- 45w
@lizaaa Yes with everything
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 45w
This might be uncomfortable at first, but I can tell you what is helping me. When you think youāre about to have an intrusive thought, before it even occurs, purposefully have the thought. Not only that, but exaggerate it, make it even more graphic or disturbing than your original thought. Itās kind of like youāre beating youāre intrusive thoughts at their own game. If you try not to have the thought then you probably will, but if you show your mind that not only do you not care, but youāll have the thoughts on purpose, then the anxiety canāt even keep up. Thatās what has worked for me anyway. It was recommended to us in group and my intrusive thoughts have gone down. It may not work for everyone, so if you arenāt comfortable doing this or you try it and it makes you more anxious then you donāt have to use it.
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