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Tired
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
Iam just scared and tired from having wetness to the same sex thoughts and feelings , i am so scared
I don't know what you're sexual orientation is but in the lesbian master doc, they say that basically what matters isn't whether or not you feel attracted to a certain gender. If being with a man/a woman doesn't feel right to you then you simply don't have to be. True attraction feels good, warm and safe and if the thoughts you keep getting makes you feel upset and sick then don't worry that is not attraction š
Thank you for that btw cuz I had some thoughts about my sex orientation too š,but I was talking about sexual thoughts generally
There are many reasons to feel aroused and your brain can actually trick you into thinking that you are even though it isn't actually real. Hope that helps :ā -ā )
Thank for ur comment.
I understand you,I have this but with butterflies in your stomach,sometimes I think it has happened and idk
@lizaaa Yes with everything
This might be uncomfortable at first, but I can tell you what is helping me. When you think youāre about to have an intrusive thought, before it even occurs, purposefully have the thought. Not only that, but exaggerate it, make it even more graphic or disturbing than your original thought. Itās kind of like youāre beating youāre intrusive thoughts at their own game. If you try not to have the thought then you probably will, but if you show your mind that not only do you not care, but youāll have the thoughts on purpose, then the anxiety canāt even keep up. Thatās what has worked for me anyway. It was recommended to us in group and my intrusive thoughts have gone down. It may not work for everyone, so if you arenāt comfortable doing this or you try it and it makes you more anxious then you donāt have to use it.
I am a 21(female). I have only ever kissed one guy and it was horrible and I cried after. I stress about my sexuality constantly. I only want to be straight and know I want to end up with a man, but picturing it stressed me out and I am so scared to kiss a guy I think about it and get so stressed and cry immediately. I have severe intrusive thoughts about kissing everyone my teachers my best friends and it creeps me out and then I go down a rabbit hole of sexual orientation ocd! If anyone has any tips that might help that would be great. Again I donāt want or think I am gay but being so scared to be intimate with a man starts me down a spiral.
I just canāt do this shit anymore.im tired of these āarousalā sensations that feel real but when I go check my arousal to the same gender I just get anxiety. Iām tired of feeling like I canāt like girls anymore. Iām tired of my arousal getting blocked every now and then because Iām anxious. Iām tired of not knowing who I am anymore. Iām tired of having my mind putting me into an identity I never asked for. Iām tired of this life
just crying cause i feel like im never going to recover and just have to be lesbian, even tho i love my boyfriend so much. thoughts donāt even give me anxiety anymore idk what to do, im just so done, feel like itās all real and that i want it(when i dont). any tips or anything, idk how to keep going
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