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@yoooff Yes it’s very sad

@yoooff What do you mean?

@yoooff Your head is still stuck in purity culture. You are in no position to give advice if you have such a strong one sided view on such things discussed. People break up, people get together. People hook and don’t. Expecting someone to be pure just for you is so unrealistic. What does “right” men and “right” women look like for you? I keep seeing you in other comments just commenting for the sake of hearing your own voice. Not even providing advice. Your one suggestion to someone being to break up in another comment section. NOCD isn’t your local bar where you can just shout and hoot out random ass comments.

@Enthusiast - His wording might not have been the best lol but everyone's allowed to have different morals so someone is allowed to like hookup culture and someone is also allowed to feel uncomfortable by it. Both are also allowed to find a partner that's compatible for them. If he isn't promiscuous and he wants a partner like him- makes sense! Avoids big compatibility issues. It's not really fair to say someone should force themselves to be with someone who's not compatible to them or to say that only someone who agrees with hookup culture can say how they feel. Everyone has a different mindsets as we are individuals, not a unit :) Society always preaches that we shouldn't have to force ourselves to like uncomfortable situations so I think that applies to everyone across the board. I often see people trying to force others to feel comfortable with hookup culture/ promiscuity and that's not fair, just like judging someone for their promiscuity can be seen as unfair as well

@Enthusiast I’m not sure why you’re so heated and defensive right now 😄 We can have a calm conversation as adults. For “body issues” you made a mistake- I was only speaking directly to the original poster taboo_brain19 because she wrote that she feels insecure about herself. That wasn’t towards you at all. So you can settle down.. lol 😂 And that’s great that everyone can find a compatible person for them :) 👍 Have a nice day!

@Enthusiast I know what I read and it was obviously aggressive. This way of speaking is immature tbh. I like to have calm discussions on here as it is a mental health platform after all 🙏

@Enthusiast Reminder this is the NOCD app: It’s not about being “sensitive” it’s about reading the room. This a professional mental health platform where we give advice, try to be kind and help others here with their issues. Your rude attitude is highlyyyy inappropriate for this app and it’s devaluing the decent points you did originally have to add to the conversation. Even if I was “sensitive,” so what? Isn’t that the whole point of this mental health app? 😂 For people to be vulnerable and sensitive lol? I have already rightfully earned OCD conqueror so who are you to teach me unsolicited fake help on how to use “uncertainty”- in a mocking manner to gaslight me on your rudeness. That is gross to preach OCD practices for your advantage over others. Your unkind way of speaking has no place here and it’s unfairly taken all the attention away from taboo_brain’s original post for advice. This attitude & gossiping is best for TikTok comments. Btw I didn’t convince the poster of anything- even she herself commented that hookup culture in this generation is “very sad” and so it’s obviously not compatible for her because she’s saying it’s uncomfortable. Therefore, my advice could relate to her & you do not speak for her. I’m allowed to try to help whoever I want, just like you are. It’s not your place to boss anyone around. Once again, “have a nice day” 👍

@Enthusiast Bro shut up

@taboo_brain19 - Thanks!

@eran Tanya For what? Did I miss something lol

@Enthusiast My bf was also an alcoholic and did stupid shit, but I guess the fact that he still said they were hot bothers me. I’m really trying not to have resentment for his past when I myself haven’t done things I’m proud of

@777Q That’s not what I’m worried about

@taboo_brain19 This is only my personal vantage point, many people males and females that attend the clubs are just regular people that have similar ethics and values as anyone else . If the person attending the club is of good quality and morals to start with attending the club will not affect that . Depends strictly on the individual. Me personally am a male and find the environment is just a type of fantasy and if not taken too far is ok for me .