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I have mine in a vinyl bag, but because 1)they came in that bag 2) it’s tidier. The battery acid thing never occurred to me. I think the oil and dirt on them would bother me more than battery acid lol. I know lots of messy people who I seriously doubt go to the trouble of bagging their cables, and instead have them mixed in with luggage and groceries, and they seem to be doing ok. I’m not sure I’ve ever seen someone with bagged cables other than me.
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Hm. I offered too much reassurance. So, how about: there’s lots of messy people who wouldn’t go to the trouble. Maybe they’re slowly poisoning themselves and their families, maybe not. Lol
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@Alyosha ? thank you so much! I appreciate your answer and your humor! There is a fine line between reassurance and to find a "normal" way to do things. I have lost much of my logic around certain things.
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I get the whole idea of OCD hijacking your logical abilities. Sometimes, some thing seems logical to me, but it’s also negatively impacting my life. In those moments, I have to ask a family member, friend, or therapist (and I’m not supposed to ask more than once...) what they think, and it’s only sometimes months late that I realize “Oh. Yeah. I guess that was kinda silly and OCDish, wasn’t it?” Maybe pick a friend you know who’s generally responsible, call her or send a text and ask what she would do, and leave it at that. *Or* as it sounds like your husband thinks it’s fine, maybe choose to trust his opinion. Hope that helps.
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Thank you so much?!
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I think if you want to do like ordinary people do, you might be better off asking this question to people without OCD. Personally, I keep the cables in a bag just to stop them from getting tangled with other things in my trunk. Since you know this is an obsession, you probably know that recovery means going towards the fear, not trying to escape it. If you need to keep the cables contained while also exposing yourself to the fear, a mesh bag might work best
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Thank you Katie! Yes, maybe I should ask orher people, I think I'm a bit shy to ask...and I also think that this is a rare OCD thought, I mean many of you here are totally "normal" in this area. Thanks for you answer and advice!
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Also, remember that OCD isn't about an action itself- it's about the relationship between thoughts, emotions, and actions. The reason we do things is crucial to determining whether something fits the OCD pattern
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie Yes, I get that when it comes to other peoples OCD, but I have a hard time to apply it in my own life? I work hard to get it and in some areas its so obvious that it s OCD, but in a case like I described I just dont know what to do, and,I easily fall back on the thought "of course I wont be hurt by acid, I'm not silly..." Does that make sense to you?
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@Estrid Yes, it does. If you're telling yourself "of course I won't be hurt" then act accordingly :)
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie Aaaah I got it wrong, English is hard to me? I mean "of course I dont want to get hurt"...sorry...
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@Estrid Ok, I understand. Still, the way to prove your fear wrong is to put it to the test
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@NOCD Advocate - Katie Thanks Katie?
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- 18w
So today I’m getting my car back from my grandparents bc it had no ac and they fixed it for me the day I gave them the car I was having ocd bc I touched a little tree air freshener no the air freshener itself but the outside of the wrapper and then I touched my steering wheel and I didn’t clean it before I gave it to them and I was having really bad ocd that day about it and now it’s coming back because I’m getting my car back today and I have a cat so I’m just always overthinking bc of her with the things that have chemicals on it common sense makes me feel stupid for feeling this when but I genuinely get overheated having to pick up this car today because I don’t wanna deal with it and it’s hair wash day and laundry day and I feel I should clean my steering wheel and ik I’m gonna have to wash my hands a million times and everything I touched after touching the steering wheel like my phone and the car handles and my front door handles. Should I just try and not do these things bc it’s common sense that doing all the this is necessary but I feel I need to I know I’m just needing reassurance I know I need to do nothing but I always stress about my cat and I go to the laundry mat to do my laundry so I don’t wanna be sitting there overthinking about my steering wheel bc I could of just simply wiped it down but I don’t wanna repeat the cycle of giving in to my ocd
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Hello! Thank You For Reading this!!! I got alot of fears. OCD. There is 1 fear, that is the scariest fear for me, one that i'm having for the last 5 years, i'm searching for answers. It's all about fears, OCD and Electricity. It would help me so much to get my questions answered. I'm afraid of things and i dont know if its a real fear and threat or OCD. Let me explain. My biggest fear of all time is electricity and electricity shock. I'm afraid that if i do something without knowing it, it will cause something really bad. My questions are: 1. If i put a glass of water or a other drink next to a socket, can i still eat and drink that? Does food and drinks absorb electricity? 2. One of my OCD Compulsions are: Washing my hands, and sometimes even taking a shower after i did something with electricty. Think of, plugging something in a socket. Or putting my broken phone charger into my phone. Or anything else about that topic. May i ask, is this a real threat & if not, how can i conquer that biggest fear(s)? 3. If my face touches accidentally a broken phone charger or a socket or something Electricity, would that be dangerous? 4. Accidentally if i walk out the shower with wet hair, and if my hair touches a light, would that be extremely dangerous for my head and me? 5. Turning on and off and on and off the shower and lights to be safe. 6. Putting a headphone on after charging the headphone. With many fears and compulsions. 7. Putting on clothes/clothing that touched something electricity or a socket. A big Fear. You get the point. As you can read, i'm doing alot of compulsions, because that keeps me safe. I'm doing all of that because my biggest main fear. That is: If something happened, like in scenario 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 or 7. Or something else. Anything you can think of. For a great example, eating or drinking something that accidentally touched the socket. If i would get a shock of the electricity, a small one or a big one, would that change my personality? Let me explain. I love music, movies, guitar, doing stuff i like, and so much more. But after that electricity shock, i change completely. For example, i dont like music anymore and i become very rude, a completely new person. Someone i would never want to be. Or getting thoughts and feelings and doing action, that is never would do? My question is: is that a real fear and threat and is that how it works? How does it work? Reality? Or is it the OCD and is the fear not real? Can someone explain Electricity for me? How do i know if something is a real Electricity threat and danger, and what not? What are the dangers? That would be AMAZING! I'm so thankful for nocd and all the people who are helping other people. Everyone. Thank You! Have an amazing day!
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- 7w
So in the past year that I’ve been diagnosed with OCD it’s always been relationship OCD and I feel that I’ve got a pretty good handle on understanding how to deal with relationship OCD but the past few days I have been obsessing over like different health things like yesterday I was watching so many videos on rabies and like learning all about it and questioning if I had rabies and then like I have a dry patch on me and I thought it was ringworm or something, but I don’t think it is based on like how it is I don’t know, but I did a Teladoc appointment because I noticed a rash and they gave me a prescription for it and like it’s no big deal. it’s just a yeast infection but then he said that like the thing that I thought was ringworm, I should go see my primary care provider to make sure that it’s not skin cancer and so now I’ve been looking up like skin cancer signs what it looks like and stuff because he kind of freaked me out with that and I don’t know if this is a normal reaction to someone saying that or if this is more of like an obsession now.
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