Hey guys. I'm a young teenager living with severe ocd. But my family tend to make fun of me for it. I have mainly the thoughts, over thinking, and perfectionist. But they won't let me get help. I have SPD. (Skin picking disorder) which has tagged along with my ocd...and I've been doing it for awhile..the worst its ever been, was when I peeled my thumb skin all the way back and u could see everything bc the thoughts said "if you dont than you wont be able to tell if u still have control, who knows u could take this pen and gouge someones eye out" typical thoughts. I just need help..coming to terms with my ocd..and informing my family that it's not getting better.

Hi, I'm glad you ou joined this community to connect with peers. Here is an article about when parents aren't supportive https://iocdf.org/expert-opinions/my-parents-dont-believe-i-have-ocd/ Also, check bout this website https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bfrb.org/learn-about-bfrbs&ved=2ahUKEwj-oO3liJLrAhUGXM0KHWG_AW0QFjAKegQIAxAB&usg=AOvVaw2uf_esTRp2bxdTDlKhcgg1 that has lots of resources for bfrbs

the only way to free ourselves from ocd is to stop compulsions (slowly but intentionally), and to expose ourself to the distressing emotions and learn that we can handle any emotion. And don't have to compulse it or escape from it. Then ocd will have no power over us. Though its hard, it is the only way. Sit with the discomfort, do a tiny exposure each day. This is the very hard but very worth it path to recovery. Its so hard, but its worth it. Let us know how it goes, we are here with you :)

Would any of your family read this book? https://www.amazon.com/When-Family-Member-Has-Obsessive-Compulsive/dp/1626252467/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=when+a+family+member+has+ocd&qid=1597109275&sprefix=when+a+fam&sr=8-3 Would your parents let you get treatment for your OCD if you asked?

I’m gonna say, too, that school counselors can be a good resource for trying to talk with parents if your still in school. Even if they have school online, there should be some way to reach out to your counselor. I know that my middle school counselor changed my life.