val ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
zeepzeep
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- 5y
hey please don’t hurt yourself. you sound like you are in a lot of pain. eventually you will feel better, one way or another. if you need to vent we all are hear for you. are you safe right now?
val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
i’m curled up in my shower and i’m just so exhausted.. i really don’t want to be gay or bi i want to go back to being me again i want to be boy crazy again i literally can’t do this anymore
zeepzeep
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- 5y
@val ʚĭɞ i feel you. you are so loved. take it one day at a time <3
val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
@zeep thank you so much:( i just haven’t felt such a need to just bawl my eyes out for a whole month and i guess the waterworks decided to just let them go for tonight.
val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
my whole life feels like a lie now. i can’t recall any of my crushes and it keep putting the spotlight on the time i ‘liked’ a girl, when i didn’t. i ddint feel any sort of romantic or sexual attraction, i just wanted to be her friend. i did tell her that i ‘liked’ her but that same day i realized that i didn’t like her that way and i ddint feel the same way i felt about boys. This was 5 fucking years ago and i’ve changed so much. it’s using the lack of relationships too against my own will. i’m so tired.
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val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
iamsafe thank you and i know that this will pass but my brain is literally laughing at me and i just can’t deal with any of this anymore i wish i could just forget the past 5 months filled w this and move on but it’s just going to be stuck there until i look for actual help
AbbeyleeAbbeylee
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- 5y
Hello, I know its hard but please take some deep breaths and remind yourself of the good things about yourself, get a pen and doodle on your body please you may be struggling a little more than others but that does not mean your any less worth it. I'm a previous self harmer and If you want to talk feel free to reply to this, if you need more private help and feel silly saying anything I'll give you my email and email you my name for some form of social media platform so we can have a more private chat, be brave and remember breath you're not in this alone so many people care even if your brain is blinding you from that❤️
AbbeyleeAbbeylee
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- 5y
Even a pen and paper any unwanted thoughts about whatever, write them down and rip it up and throw it away, just keep in mind thoughts are like paper they come and go but eventually a new piece(thought) comes breath deeply and remember it'll pass and you'll be the brave one who coped with something many with a easy life couldn't you are brave and strong you're just not in the right place to see it yet
val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
@Abbeylee thank you thank you thank you. i need this. it’s like i’ve taken all my life for granted up til’ now, and i just wish i could go back. i’ve actually thought about writing them down and then just getting the paper wet and tear it up. it’s just satisfying for me.
AbbeyleeAbbeylee
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- 5y
@val ʚĭɞ Sorry I didn't put my comment In the reply, I hope you're okay😊x
Bri <3Bri <3
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- 5y
Please please I promise everything will get better hang in there a little longer ❤️
AbbeyleeAbbeylee
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- 5y
There's no need to thank me I understand what the feeling of being alone is like, when you feel that ask yourself why worry about your past just to ruin your future worrying, past is the past it'll never be changed only you can learn from them mistakes and create a new path to forget your old path. Life may seem like a vicious circle now but thats because of the thoughts life isn't vicious your self thoughts are, whatever helps you, if that's satisfying for you do it, do it whenever you feel this way, we all take life for granted that's just humans and the way we are, we don't realise what we have until we loose it but learn from each mistake you make pick yourself up and make the most of what you have I know its easier said than done but soon enough it'll be as easy as a hobby
shannon9899shannon9899
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- 5y
I am so sorry that you feel this way. please keep fighting, I know this is very tough.
val ʚĭɞval ʚĭɞ
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- 5y
i’m trying so hard. i’m currently in my shower bawling my eyes out and my phone is getting wet. i don’t want this anymore.
shannon9899shannon9899
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- 5y
I wish it wasn’t this hard.
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