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Can you try a different chair for a minute?
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^like Meg above, I happen to think that is an amazingly opportunity to use this for an exposure. Try it! I’m super excited for you :)
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d-man that sounds like a really good plan! Tonight before my shower I’m going to try and sit in a contaminated chair for 1 minute :) hopefully I’ll be able to perform an “ultimate boss” ritual in no time! I’m really scared but I know I’ve got the support of this community and I know you guys know exactly what this fear is like. Being able to talk is a complete game changer!! Thanks for the advice Maxie! I use antibacterial spray and hand sanitizer to clean contaminated objects! Thank you guys so much! I hope I can help you like you’ve helped me :) d a i s y
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Hi d-man! I completely agree :)) I tried sitting on a contaminated surface last night and had to change my clothes straight away because I was so anxious. I’m going to try again this morning with a chair that’s less petrifying. I’ll let you know how it goes! Thanks so much for you support! :) d a i s y
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You’re so wonderful! I’m so excited to say tonight I managed to put on some pants that I thought were contaminated from a chair. I’ve told myself I’m allowed to cleanse in a few minutes. I didn’t have the best experience with a contaminated t-shirt however, I had to change it and sanitise straight away. I’m happy with the little progress I’ve made though. Any step forward is a good one. Thank you so much for your help and encouragement! Is there anything I could help you with? Thanks again d-man :) d a i s y
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I have the same thing but i tend to avoid chairs and will only sit on a specific couch on a specific side because noone sits there
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Me too! I have a section of the couch that no one else is allowed to touch. d a i s y
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Wow, that’s a lot of chairs.
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Aw thank you Meg and d-man for thinking of me. This truely is an incredible community. I’m worried when I sit on a contaminated chair that I’ll be contaminated for the rest of the day and unable to touch any “safe” objects without contaminating them. Then I panic I will no longer have any safe places. This is so hard but I’m definitely thinking about it! Thank you so much for your kindness and thoughtfulness. d a i s y
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I’m so excited :) Aw I hope you’re feeling better soon! I’m always here to help! Let me know how :) Thanks again d-man, you’re so fantastic. d a i s y
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Yeah, I can relate. I am limited too as far as where I can sit. OCD is a bizarre disorder, no doubt!
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I can relate! contamination ocd is so strong
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A piece of advice I’d give u so that you dont panic and dont have to avoid maybe social situations, is using anti bacterial wipes or sprays, it’s definitely not a solution but personally it helps me not panic so much about it!
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You could possibly break down the exposure into steps. If let’s say you can ‘restart’ the contamination by doing certain things like showering, you could first start by sitting in a contaminated chair for x minutes, then taking a shower. Then lengthen that time with each exposure, challenging yourself but not overly so. You can set the exposure of sitting in a contaminated chair and then in a safe chair as an ‘ultimate boss’ exposure, and reward yourself when you eventually work your way up to that level of exposure!
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Research also shows that holding yourself accountable really helps drive results, so if you don’t mind, you could update us on how you’re going with it :) no pressure!
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Sounds great! Keep breaking down the steps till it’s manageable... even 15 or 30 second progressions matter! Hang in there :)
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Oh boy, that’s awesome! Yes you’ve got a clear path of progression. Now it’s breathing easy and taking it gradually. Super happy for you :) I’m not sure. A little in the doldrums, but that’s life isn’t it!
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It sure is! I’m sitting on one of my “safe” chairs as we speak haha. Oh well, we’re gonna get through this. d a i s y
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Hello, i have very severe contamination ocd, and as i am writing this i feel my hands are dirty lol, but anyways i wanted to know if there’s anyone specialised in Contamination ocd? No matter what type because i really need help and i looked up things but it doesn’t help please!!
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sorry this is super long i just wanna know if anyone else has been thru something similar bc i feel super alone 🩷 i have super bad contamination ocd. it was bad already but my house was like my safe space until a few months ago someone brought something into my house that i considered ‘contaminated’. and so then i felt like that part of the house was contaminated, then it spread to everything outside my room (since family is moving around touching stuff) and then somehow i got convinced everything in my room except my bed is contaminated and i need to wash my hands after touching it. in my mind its like the contamination just infinitely spreads to things after the tiniest bit of touch. idek what im afraid of anymore or even what the original thing was but i can’t let it go. when i have to wash off contamination i have to wash at least 4 times or until it feels right, or sometimes take rlly long showers and wipe down all my stuff. i even throw away food and clothes or just whole items sometimes because they feel so contaminated i don’t want them in my space. i can’t be super near people or have anyone touch me, and i also can’t bring anything new into my room since it had to go through the entry of my house which feels contaminated. i feel like all i do is lay in bed and then wash my hands and do compulsions so i can go eat or do other stuff around the house. also i never go out because i’m bc people outside make me feel dirty, and i hate thinking about how many people have touched stuff in stores or in public and stuff. so im just in my room worrying all day. i feel so trapped and the contamination/avoiding it is all i think about anymore i barely have time for anything else and im never present when i talk to people because im worrying about if i accidentally got contaminated. im starting erp next week and knowing that im going to have to expose myself to things is really freaking me out. does anyone else have this kind of ocd ? im exhaustedddd 🥲🥲💔
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I wanted to come on here and explain my OCD because I always feel so out of place since my OCD works a little differently than everyone else’s. If someone can relate to this, PLEASE LET ME KNOW! I’ve always felt so alone with not knowing what this feeling is and why it affects me so much. Okay so ever since I was a toddler, Ive had a fear of change I can’t control. when the weather changes I’d have anxiety attacks, and a cloudy day would make me feel like i’m not myself. I don’t recognize my surroundings and I would cry and close my eyes until I’m back to normal. When it was still bright out at 8pm in the summer, as a kid, we’d go to bed at 8:30. But I’d tell my dad that I couldn’t go to bed. Not because of the sun, but because I wasn’t used to it. I vividly remember how different my room would feel when the sun was setting at 9pm. I hated it to the point where it’d make me anxious and scared. As I’ve grown, I’ve understood what causes me to feel so out of place when it’s a rainy day. My routine has always been the same for the most part: I wake up, I run to the store to get a monster, I clean/watch tv/work/hangout with friends, and then at night (which is crucial), I’m in bed around 10pm & I burn incense and watch tv for a bit until i’m ready to sleep. When things get in the way of that schedule, I go in panic mode. It’s almost like derealization when something is off in my normal routine. Like I feel like I’m in a different home, a different timeline, a dream almost. Since i’m older, It takes more for me to feel this way, but when I was younger, just watching a movie in my room would set me off because I’ve never watched a movie as a part of my routine. I know this is all over the place but I always wonder if everyone feels this way, but my OCD just intensifies it. It’s such a big part of my life, this sort of anxiety. And I don’t know how to get rid of it. I want to have my friends stay the night, but I can’t have people overnight in my room because it’ll change the whole “vibe” of the room. Something unfamiliar happening in my room is a nightmare for me. Another thing: I enjoy rearranging my room quite often and I figure that’s because It’s change I can control. But I always dread the night after it’s changed and I have to force myself into getting used to how it feels and being used to the way things are. But it really takes a toll on me; sometimes I end up crying because of it. ALSO! This affects relationships as well. If I’m in a relationship, I have to let in someone who has never been apart of my routine and my schedule before and that’s terrifying and almost impossible to get past. I know if I just let myself get used to the new feeling of having someone APART of my routine/schedule I can get used to it, but it’s harddd. Lastly, going overnight to people’s houses isn’t awful for me, because It doesn’t affect what’s mine. Does that make sense? Since I’m not in my room, my house, my backyard, etc, there’s nothing to change. Only the fact that i’m in a different place which used to be an issue, but my body/mind has accepted that I will go to different places and i’m very optimistic so i’m not one to just live in a bubble for the rest of my life. I would love to travel, but I don’t know how I could when I fear so much change. I leave for college soon and i’m DREADING the change because I know a whole different room is going to have me stressing 😭😭. If anyone understands this feeling even just by a little, I greatly appreciate if you leave a comment or even if u don’t relate, advice would be helpful:) Thank you!
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