Someone please help. So ive been in my relationship for 6 years and now I don't have the love feelings that you have in the honeymoon phase, I just feel comfortable, safe, and normal around him. because of this, my mind thinks that something is wrong in my relationship and that I need to break up even though I heard that this is completely normal and healthy in a long term relationship. I want to know of any tips to help me cope with this or tips on how to get some feelings back. I feel like my medications and the pandemic have something to do with it as well cause we mainly just lay in bed all day together or go to the store when we see each other so maybe I gotten used to a routine and may be bored and need to spice things up. I just need some advice because I honestly have no idea if what I'm going through is supposed to happen in long term relationships cause this is the only relationship that I've been in. He's amazing and I always talk to him when I am happy, sad, or annoyed. He always tries to cheer me up and always says how he wants to marry me. I really don't want to lose an amazing guy and I feel bad that I'm doing something wrong. :(

Should you leave a good guy that you've been with longterm who treats you right, are able to be 100% comfortable with him, talk to him about anything, take care of eachother when were sad. and I tell him good and bad news right when I find out, just cause you don't have feelings? I've been with him for 6 years.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now , safe to say I have never loved someone as much as I love my boyfriend , he feels like home to me. We developed an instant emotional connection from the beginning and I’ve never felt so close emotionally to someone . What I have struggled with throughout the relationship has been the attraction aspect , it’s not that I find him unattractive at all, objectivity he is attractive - he works out he’s Arabic tanned etc it’s more there wasn’t this instant spark or that intuitive attraction. It’s something I’ve always found to be important when dating. I pushed through this anyway because there was no way I wasn’t going to carry on seeing him I became attached to him very quickly and him to me too. The sex is great , it’s always been great but I can’t put in words what feels to be missing exactly . I feel romantically toward him not just a best friend but I’ve never felt any intense lust. I want to be able to get over this ‘issue’ but in the last 2 years I have not worked out how to not let this bother me. A quick google search of ‘do you need to have physical infatuation in a relationship’ and I cry at the responses saying you can’t force attraction , it rarely grows etc. When I am around him I don’t want time to stop , he truly is everything to me and the thought of loosing him hurts me to my core. I couldn’t stand the thought of him being with someone else and us just being friends , not in a selfish way just that we have a very special bond . We are meant to be getting married next year , we’ve spoken about it a lot and I cried tears of happiness when he mentioned the idea . I feel like the worst girlfriend in the world sometimes for having these doubts , particularly as we can both read each other like a book so I’m sure he picks up on these insecurities- what can I do I feel so lost ??

Hello, im Non binary [They/Them] and my boyfriend [I will call him V] goes by He/Him ❤️ ive never been diagnosed with OCD, but ive done my research and it makes the most sense with what i feel Ok, so im a young adult and so is my boyfriend. the only types of relationships ive been in are either abusive, toxic, or where im very anxious all of the time. With my boyfriend now, we have argued like every couple does, but i dont feel those anxious things i did with my ex, and it makes me anxious i dont love him somehow. i dont feel that heavy feeling in my chest or that feeling i got in my head when i think of my boyfriend V. i know i love V, but i get scared that since i dont get those intense feelings, that i dont. i get this soft feeling instead with him, and feel this calmness im not used to. is this normal? of course he makes me blush too, giggle, etc. but i still get scared i dont love him somehow. please help 🙏 sometimes these thoughts escalate, and it makes me really upset bc i really love my boyfriend, and want us to last a really long time (we've known eachother 8 years, but started dating almost a year ago) bc he makes me so happy, but im scared. ive started to say "If i dont love him, ill fall back in love with him. if i do love him, my love for him will continue to grow" but even that makes me anxious. im scared and love my boyfriend so much, but dont want it to be fake and hurt his feelings. is this normal?