Can any of you with relationship ocd please share your experiences below?? Don't be afraid to give details!!! I want to know your experiences and relate to you guys!!! Mine was when I first told my crush I liked him. A month or two after that, we became official. That's when all the anxiety kicked it and when my life turned upside down. I got lots of ugly thoughts like my boyfriend wasn't attractive, me hurting him or killing him, all these awful ugly things that ruined everything and made me depressed and anxious. Whenever I thought someone else was attractive I would feel so so bad and thought I didn't love him. It was awful 😞 now I just for us on his imperfections and makes me fear he's unnattractive even though he's not. Ugh I wish this would end

It is so hard to stop googling!!! I just feel an anxiety at not acting on it.

I Google ROCD articles all the time for reassurance on what thoughts it can give, so you're not alone on that!!!

I noticed my thoughts/feelings became more difficult when I was sick too. I think pain, lacking sleep, and hunger can aggravate my ocd.

I feel that so much on a very personal level!!!! It's so hard to be around my bf sometimes because if all the guilt I feel and the panic that I'm gonna say one thing to ruin our relationship....

Mine deserves wonderful things too you are not alone in that mindset!!! My bf is everything perfect and amazing and I can't believe he even exists. We've been through so many hard things together and every single time we've made it through and became stronger. Then ocd comes into my head like a big sumo wrestler and crushes my brain and makes me think he is unattractive, cringe, and I just wanna hurt myself sometimes because of those thoughts.... He actually flat out texted me and told me to tell me what's been going on in my head and what things I've been sugar coating to him. When I told him everything, he literally just loved me more and didn't break up with me or anything and it made me feel bad cause my big attraction to him I had before got crushed and he says he is so in love with me all the time. My ocd makes me feel guilty saying that to him even though it's true 😭

@Animaniash I know you are experiencing anxiety right now, but I want to compliment you on your relationship. Your communication and devotion to each other is beautiful. You two can get through this and be all the stronger.

@Animaniash My ocd crushed my attraction to him and it's making me look at all the flaws he has 😞

@Animaniash When we feel fear or sadness, it is difficult to feel attraction. That doesn't necessarily mean it is gone for good. It does mean that it is muffled right now.