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- 6y
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with watching porn, as long as it doesnt lead to you creating unrealistic expectations for your wife. My boyfriend watches porn and it does not offend me at all. I know how you feel though. Last week, I confessed every little detail of my wild past to my boyfriend. Lets just say oversharing is not your friend, and what you do with your own privacy is only your business
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Thank you for writing this. I struggle with similar things. Idk if you are religious, but a big part of many religions involves confessing to the lord in prayer. Try doing that and maybe that will help you feel better. But that may be a form of checking so maybe not. Just an idea. You got this
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- 6y
Ye, well OCD has a flavor of morallity + harm OCD. So it can be like fear iay cause have to a loved one by not being careful enough or by thinking that I'm a bad person. And when harm OCD comes in we get this agressive impulses. From my experience I believe that with harm obssesion you get agresdions and it causes us to think in black and white . So we get hooked on small things but maybe we need to look behind the scenes
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- 6y
i struggle with the same thing. i have an obsession of accidentally hurting someone’s trust in me. you’ve got this. just remember that your wife obviously trusts you and that you love her so much.
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- 19w
I just got off my session today and after having a confession to my husband last night with a compulsion, he obviously is going to have more questions. My therapist says not to confess because I am growing my OCD . However, this is really OCD and is about something that actually happened. My husband said, that it sounds like I have someone in my life who is justifying withholding information or lying to him. Of course when I have my obsession compulsions, he makes sense. Can somebody help explain this to me? How is my husband not right or is he?
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- 16w
Good morning. Anyone struggle with ROCD? When I think about what I have done in the past, I feel immense guilty (I feel the tightness in my chest) and have the urge to tell my partner about it, even if my partner says she doesn’t need to know if it is going to hurt her and that I need to talk to my therapist about it first. Any suggestions on how to manage the urge/urgency? Thanks!
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- 15d
I can’t help but feel so anxious because of guilt. I feel guilty about not sharing everything about my OCD to my partner, but because I understand that confession itself is a compulsion and would not help anyone. I feel so anxious too that if all my fears come true and she finds out, then it would be so devastating for everyone especially her. Does anyone feel the same thing? How could I change my perspective on this?
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